Trying to get into the game...

I`ve only just joined and i`m trying to find some people to talk to. It`s not going to well. I think people are a bit sceptical as i`ve only just joined and there isn`t really anything about me up - i`m still quite shy about the matter and don`t want to give to much of my personal life away. If anybody would talk to me and just have a chat about things it would be great, anything to get the ball rolling!