Does anyone know why when you chat(via email on here for me since I…

Does anyone know why when you chat(via email on here for me since I don’t get in chat room.) all is okay and then when you bring up maybe wanting to hang out since there isn’t really any nudists in the area we live and they go quiet. Like I don’t get it? Just a simple no would have been nice not just stop chatting all at once. :-(