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Conduct and Etiquette

Bodies

نُشر May 20, 2013

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nudewallaby
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May 20, 2013
Hi there.
Having read some of the other "silly" questions from new folk on this forum, i thought I'd ask my own.
My body isn't the best shape and Im conscious of sticking out like a sore thumb if I go to a site. I don't mean that Im fat or really skinny, its more like, well I'm both in different places .. having had countless operations over the years for various treatment for one thing or another its fair to say that this body is very unique.
SO my question is should I be bothered or will i simply be accepted. (I have no issues in talking about it and the reasons its like it is so i don't mind people asking me - but upon first sight its not to everyone's taste  shall we say :)

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  • RA
    ravensflyinnow
    May 20, 2013
    Accepted...totally and completely!!!
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  • DA
    May 20, 2013
    We've seen one breast missing, two breasts missing, legs missing, burn victims, people who've lost tremendous amounts of weight leaving behind copious amounts of loose skin, clostomy bags, people in wheelchairs. Trust me, no one cares. Only your character matters.
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  • CH
    Cheri_Donna
    May 20, 2013
    To add what others have said:  Our bodies have scars that are the roadmap to who we are and are not offensive.
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  • ع
    عضو
    May 30, 2013

    I'd be the nosey guy pumping you for your life story.  To me it's an awesome icebreaker.  :D

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  • CH
    Cheri_Donna
    May 31, 2013
    [quote]I'd be the nosey guy pumping you for your life story. To me it's an awesome icebreaker. :D[/quote]Most nudists are generally shy about information with folk they've just met.
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  • SU
    Jun 25, 2013

    People usually only look at scars once
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  • ع
    عضو
    Dec 1, 2013
    I think that you'll find that true nudists accept others in all our different shapes, sizes etc. I find nudists more accepting of others in far more other ways too,  than how it usually is in the textile world.
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  • DE
    DesertRat
    Dec 1, 2013
    I recently met a woman at a nudist resort who has been into nudism for less than a year. We happened to be in the hot tub together with several other people. This was to second occasion that I had talked to this person and we got deeper into her experiences in the nude world. It seems that in our world for the first time in her life she feels like and is treated like a human being. For all of her life she has been treated as a second class citizen and looked down upon. Her problem is her weight. She must weigh well over 300 pounds maybe close to 400 and is only a little over 5 foot tall. With nudists and nudism she finds that weight is not an issue and she's very happy for that.

    The only thing I can add here is that I'm glad and proud to be associated with such great people as those in the nudist community.
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  • NU
    nudesean69
    Jan 24, 2014

    True nudists accept you as you are, be comfortable how you are and keep your head up.

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  • NU
    NudeJohnny
    Jan 25, 2014
    [quote]True nudists accept you as you are, be comfortable how you are and keep your head up.


    AGREE!
    [/quote]
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  • CH
    Cheri_Donna
    Jan 26, 2014

    Our scars are only the roadmap to who we are.

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  • ع
    عضو
    Jan 30, 2014
    Don't worry about anyone else or what their body looks like, just be yourself and be naked.
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  • UE
    uechin11
    Feb 13, 2014
    Our bodies are our natural uniform and we all can be confident wearing it. Besides, it feels rather comfortable.
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  • SU
    Feb 17, 2014
    A male friend of ours had a breast removed and I've felt that is he can feel comfortable there is no reason I should have any reservations about my looks
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  • FU
    full-monte
    Feb 17, 2014
    The irony is that, despite one and all here rightly proclaiming how open and accepting most naturists are, its likely that your marital status of single male is likely to be the thing that presents you more acceptance issues than your physical shape ever will. Bit controversial I know and not particularly a source of bitterness for me as I'm not single but just sayin'.
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  • SU
    Mar 24, 2014
    Accurately said.  When I was single it was the biggest challenge.  I got lucky and introduced a lady to nudism and she feels really comfortable with it.
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    Good77
    Jun 14, 2015

    I have some visible scars. But it's peoples bodiesand personality they should look at and not at your scars to make judgement. You should never be judged on your body

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