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Apr 24, 2012I have come out to two of my friends about my likings for naturism. One guy said that he was not surprised as e saw me taking nude bath when we went for a trekking during our college days. he said why do you have to go outside if you want a natural set up for bathing..try out with a money plant in your shower room. He has weird sense of humor.
The other case is very interesting. He is muc junior..an ex colleague. I always liked him but had to maintain a professional distance. Then we parted and lost connection. Fortunately we again reunited. And one day he called me when I was having a nude bath in a wild creek. And I shared him tat i was taking bath in a river and described the surrounding. He told me - he would join me next time.
I told him taht he can always accompany me but he has to participate fully and then I disclosed that I was bathing nude in nature. To my surprise he was full with laughter and said what could be better than this????
Then he said some of his nude experiences. We ended up up saying that we discovered a new dimension in our relationship with a greater bonding.
will write here on the day when i will have first nude meet with him.
The other case is very interesting. He is muc junior..an ex colleague. I always liked him but had to maintain a professional distance. Then we parted and lost connection. Fortunately we again reunited. And one day he called me when I was having a nude bath in a wild creek. And I shared him tat i was taking bath in a river and described the surrounding. He told me - he would join me next time.
I told him taht he can always accompany me but he has to participate fully and then I disclosed that I was bathing nude in nature. To my surprise he was full with laughter and said what could be better than this????
Then he said some of his nude experiences. We ended up up saying that we discovered a new dimension in our relationship with a greater bonding.
will write here on the day when i will have first nude meet with him.
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- SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserApr 29, 2012The second friend called up and asked if I like boozing. And he shared that he has a flat which is vacant...we both can go there and have beer and remain freely.
I have a gut feel that we are progressing.ReagierenAntworten - PA
May 5, 2012I am REALLY glad that i have never had to do the comming out thing being brought up in a nudist colony. I do not know how to go about it except just tell everyone I know.
I have always been an honest and rather forthright preson in the first place saying what i mean and not mincing words and all my friends know that so I guess maybe it would be easy. I even answer the door nude, of course scaring all the solicitors and "missionaries" that want to convert me. Of on my door is a sign proclaiming that "Herein lives a nudist so if you are offended, please get lost. Thank you" and they still ring the doorbell @ 7 am. Oh well.ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserMay 6, 2012We envy you man!! We had never been brought up in nudist's colony. So discussing it with friends is a big thing..............Tell us more about your experiences in nude colony..ReagierenAntworten
- PAMay 7, 2012Well, the FIRST THING to do with respect to comming out to friends is getting past THEIR idealisms of what nudism TRUELY is so try and sit down with them ONE ON ONE at a time and say something like "I heard a friend of mine [ WITHOUT mentioning names ] came out of the closet as a longtime nudist.......and my reaction was WOW." and wait for their response. THAT RESPONSE will tell you what kind of work you have ahead of you.
As for my "experiencies in the colony, have you read my diary posts and profile? that will tell you allot. then go ahead and ask for more details. Of course, after reading all that, you might have ALLOT more questions. Heheheheheheehehehehehe.ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserMay 8, 2012Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehe....liked your strategy of coming out.
Yesterday I disclosed it to one of my co-worker. we were traveling from a remote place and thus waiting for a train at a quintessential small station at 11.00 pm. It was a breezy night and we were resting on a cemented slab under a huge rain-tree. It was a night flooded with moon light. There were only few people here and there........there was absolutely no sound except the murmur of leaves. I was lying on grass and he was sitting beside me. He was asking about my experiences as a traveler. I was telling him of various funny incidents that happened while I was traveling.
Then I shared with him an experience...when on a deserted sea beach I stripped and bathed and finally lost my all cloths which made me walking nude along the beach. then I met a group of nudist men who invited me to join them. I spent the rest of the day with them and had lot of discussion on naturism. At the end, one of them gave me a sarong to cover before I reached my hotel.
I told him that it was a real liberating experience.
He listened to the story with apt attention.ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserMay 23, 2012many of my friends feel that being nude while haveing bath in wild nature is very natural.......ReagierenAntworten
- SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserMay 23, 2012Scheming to remain nude with an old friend. Will keep you updated.ReagierenAntworten
- SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserMay 24, 2012I have a masseur (M) who is very friendly and free.
Last time when he came came..I was in shower. I kept the front door open and when he called me I asked him to come into my sitting room directly. I came out from shower nude. this is first time I stripped completely. He did not say anything. And I offered him some juice. He took it and then I told him that I am going to have a nude massage...he agreed.
Though he did not strip but I told him about my passion for nudism. Told him about TN. After he finished massage he showed interest to see the TN site. And we both visited the site.ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserJun 30, 2013shared with an old school friend that I am a naturist. Now a days he stays abroad. He said that next time he comes to India will go out with me to experience nudism.ReagierenAntworten
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Jul 1, 2013Great! I have once told one of my school friends that I am a nudist. He said he does not know how it would be like and he is not prepared to try this, but he is OK to be in company of a nudist.
ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserJul 1, 2013This is the pic of s guy who was driving my vehicle in north bengal. Gradually i told him about my liking for skinny dipping. He then expressed his desire too. And we finally had a session.....when he said that with friends he just had nude bath but never enjoyed being nude for such a long stretch....like 3 hours. we had beer and food in nude.
ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserJul 1, 2013The same guy joined me and sayandhar again for a such session. it proves his latent desire nudist self.
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Jul 1, 2013Thanks for sharing these pictures! I wish I was there with you all! Two years ago I was at a swimming place where nude swimming is often practiced. I saw two clothed men go down a path with some beer. I had never seen them there and since they had bathing suits I assumed they were going to a more private area away from the nudist section. I walked nude on the path for 10 minutes but when I viewed them they were both nude and wet from a swim. They told me they did not practice nudity too much and wanted to go to this section for privacy but were happy to have me join them. We had beer and went swimming and had a long talk. We also met several more times for the same!
ReagierenAntworten - SOJul 1, 2013Nakedhiker, Yes. That's only a lack of understanding or tolerance. And in one way, pursuading a latent nudist or non-conformist is beneficial as well as rewarding, but better leave those alone who has a dogma of not to understand.ReagierenAntworten
- SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserJul 31, 2013[quote]The second friend called up and asked if I like boozing. And he shared that he has a flat which is vacant...we both can go there and have beer and remain freely.
I have a gut feel that we are progressing.
[/quote]Finally I could do it.......
Day before yesterday he called me and we decided to meet at his place. Though I got stuck in office work..I reached there after office. He came to pick me up from the main road. he was in his tee and shorts,
As we reached his house - which was quite spacious and vacant....he took off his shirst and became bare bodied. So did I.
After some chatting I told him - am putting off trousers...feeling so hot.
he said Coooooooooooooooooool...whatever makes you comfortable.
we kept on chatting. I started talking about my trip and then switched over to naturism.
Then he said _ yes, I remember. I want to know more about it,
I was carrying my laptop so i invited him to see my profile in TN.
Then i told him - isn't it funny that we are discussing naturism and seeing nude pictures in cloths? Let's strip.
He agreed immediately and stripped totally.
We had beautiful nude time.ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedAug 1, 2013
Very nice!! I am looking forward and eager to read news of your First Nude Meet.
ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedAug 1, 2013[quote]its very good... chaliye jao guruu....:)[/quote]ReagierenAntworten
- MIMitgliedAug 2, 2013yes. its a similar story for me. Never object if anyone is daft enough to see the whole works though
What is interesting is the separation between those who are interested in nudism for its own sake, and those who think its an invitation to have immediate sexReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserSep 2, 2013the second guy is also another brother in law of mine - a first cousin of my wife. Much junior to me...just started working after completing his engineering course.
They all came to my in laws place. this is his mother's place as well. There was a good gathering and in the night we were planning for making sleeping arrangements - which was like all women and elderly people at first floor in proper beds. And all young men at the ground floor in make shift bedding on the floor. He finished his bath and came out wearing a cotton pajama that looked very comfortable.
Our discussion went around sleeping materials and comfort level. And I did not miss this opportunity to tell him that I prefer sleeping without cloths. He was startled..looked at my face...wide open mouth and said - you mean bare bodied?
I smiled back and said - No, I sleep stark naked.
He was silent for a second then he broke into laughter. And said - yes , I know it feels great.
Next day...same time, it was very hot...I told him - If there were any lake around we could have gone out for a swim.
He said immediately - Yahh...had it been in my locality I would have taken you to a nice pond and in the dark (here he winked with a mischievous smile and gestured as stripping) we would have taken a nice bath.ReagierenAntworten - AU
Nov 5, 2014As my preference for naturism continues to expand, I find it easier to make friends with others who are naturists than to discuss naturism with long time friends. I know logically the two should not be kept sparate but my textile friends are good true friends in so many other ways that I have no desire to test that friendship by confronting them with aspects that would take a long time for them to come to grips with. So it is slowly slowly and perhaps an opportunity will avail itself.
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Nov 5, 2014I have done the same thing using Skype! Since I chat with friends on there all over the world, I have chatted naked (just showing chest and up) in the summer, and you would be amazing at how many people ask if I am naked! And I can tell by the way they ask if they are curious and open, or not interested, and I can reply accordingly. But I have come out as a nudist to several people on Skype. And it's fun!
ReagierenAntworten - SUsuhritnewUrsprünglicher VerfasserJan 5, 2015I had a nude stint yestereday. I went to visit a place with a friend. In the morning, i went alone to a secluded corner of a hill and enjoyed nude sunbath, later had a nude bath in a waterfalls. Later in the evening, i took my friend there, he loved the water falls. I told him as a matter of fact that, i had bath here in the morning.
- how? how did you manage with cloths? he asked.
- I stripped and had nice bath.
- Means???? you had it...emm...errrr...being fully....u stripped completely??!!
- Yah, there was no one. so whtas the problem. And I love doing this...never miss an opportunity.
Then I told him about naturism. He listened and sounded very positive about it.
He said - I must say, one has to have a very pure mind to enjoy being nude in nature without being sexual.
I felt so happy that I could share it to a dear friend of mine.ReagierenAntworten