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dav555

Married but spouse not into

Does spouse know or do you do on side?

Posted Jan 7, 2009

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dav555
dav555Original Poster
Jan 7, 2009

Are you supported at all? Or do you do when they are not around?

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  • JO
    JohnE44
    Jan 8, 2009

    my wife is good with me being a nudist and has no problem with me being nude when i want .I know iam lucky for that

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  • HU
    Hubnude
    Jan 22, 2009

    It kind of depends on the mood she's in. Most of the time, however, she's OK with me being nude around her, she just doesn't want to do it herself. Since we work different hours, I am home alone during the mornings and am always nude before going to work. On weekends, when we are both at home, I am nude most of the time but not the entire weekend. I have always slept nude and she also did when we first married, but she soon stopped doing that after the kids came along.

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  • SW
    Aug 11, 2009

    My wife fully supports my nudism at home and socially, even though she has no interest.  Hehe...Though I'm hoping given time that will change, but if not no biggie to me.

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  • JO
    JoesPlaytime
    Oct 26, 2009

    My wife thinks that nudists are all perverts.....we here all know this is not the case, i've tried for years to talk her into trying the lifestyle and she simply won't be in it !!
    It has left me to try it on my own and without her knowledge and i simply love it.....what a shame she won't!!!!!!

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  • ME
    Member
    Jun 21, 2010

    Wife knows and does home nudity some, but not social nudity yet!......Working on that! Tolerates me for now..LOL!

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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 30, 2010

    I don't know if any others are making progress with their spouses, but I hope so! I makes a couple of positive "steps" forward with my grear lady and then one backward! Other days, I just seem to advance backwards........! I don't really insist or push her into it, I just keep reminding her that when she gets ready to do social nudity, I will join her.......quickly!
    She still cooperates with the home nudity some with me and has grown to accept my "skin" showing all the time when we do not have company! The day we were married, she had to accept that I sleep nude...and constantly encourage her to do so.

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  • MA
    mallardm45
    Sep 18, 2010

    Although she has asked me why I have links to nudist resorts she does not really know that I enjoy this lifestyle. She will never join me as she is totally against it and has said so many times over. I just have to say it's her loss and my gain. She is with the textile mind that nudist relates only to sex and sexual perversions and has no understanding nor willing to understand the lifestyle. At this stage in life I'm not going to try to change anyones mind. I'll be naked when and where I can without her company.

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  • ME
    Member
    Sep 30, 2010

    My wife is not comfortable with me being nude around the house when she is here but she knows I go to a nude country club and has no problem with it. She just won't participate. Maybe for her it is about out of sight, out of mind.

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  • SI
    Simon-new
    Oct 2, 2010

    My wife won't even dance with me in public because she doesn't like anyone looking at her. She knows that I sleep nude and I walk around in the mornings nude. She doesn't know the dares I do or the nude sites socialize in. It helps that she is scared of the basement where the computer is, and spiders that are in the basement. I have told her that if something would ever happen to her, (death), I would have someone watch the children for a couple of week and I would find a nudist rosort to go to and get my mind striaght. So, since I don't want anything bad to happen to my wife, and I still would like to socalize with nudists and learn about the lifestyle. I do this and only have but one or two sites to try. If I like the site I stay. if I don't on go find another one. I think there are many advantages to being a nudist. For people going into career fields of acting, modeling, medical, fashion, photography, art, engineering, & travel. To be open to nudity would only help. This is only a short list of careers that I thought about. But, back to the topic. My wife is too much of a prood to even try nudity. So I do it when I find small and large moments when she is sleeping or gone.

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  • ME
    Member
    Dec 14, 2010

    My wife knows I enjoy being nude socially and, though worried at first, is now supportive. However, this has not, and probably never will, translate into her joining me at the beach or pool naked.

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  • FR
    Free1010Bird
    Feb 1, 2011

    My husband has the same hesitation due to swingers and others who have to bring a sexual aspect into nudism.

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  • FR
    Free1010Bird
    Feb 1, 2011

    My husband has the same hesitation due to swingers and others who have to bring a sexual aspect into nudism.

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  • ME
    Member
    Feb 6, 2011

    My wife knows I like to be nude but don't do it much around her because it makes her uncomfortable. However, she knows I like to be nude socially and supports me going to a local nudist club. I am doubtful she will ever join me but of late she has softened a bit about it so who knows.

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  • BA
    BaronFl
    Jun 28, 2011

    I am the only nudist and have been for years.  Have slept nude since 11.  Had to curtail it when the kids started bringing friends home, but now they are grown and own their own.  The only comment my wife has really said was, "Aren't you cold?  To which I replied, "No, and it ain't anything you haven't seen before."  Always nude at home unless company coming over.  If it is a male neighbor and the wife is gone, I don't slip on shorts.  It is hard to be outside nude where I live, although I do have one semi hidden spot I sit in at night and sometimes during the day.

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  • ME
    Member
    Sep 9, 2011

    My Wife changed a lot. Now she is with me in resorts Nude. But afraid of Swingers

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  • JO
    Jan 21, 2012

    Your'e a nice looking guy.   Give it a try.....

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  • GF
    gfbmaddog
    Sep 4, 2012
    [quote]my wife isn't a nudist eithere [/quote]
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  • GF
    gfbmaddog
    Sep 4, 2012
    [quote]my wife isn't a nudist eithere [/quote]
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  • GF
    gfbmaddog
    Sep 4, 2012
    [quote]my wife isn't a nudist eithere [/quote]
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  • NA
    nakedwino
    Sep 5, 2012
    [quote]Are you supported at all? Or do you do when they are not around?[/quote]my wife supports my nudity, but she does not participate. I have expressed an interest to meet and spend time with other and she approves.  shes the one who usally takes the pictures i post from out travels.
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  • ME
    Member
    May 14, 2013
    My wife absolutely does NOT know.  It makes it difficult but I just have to deal with it.
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  • TE
    TexasNude13
    May 22, 2013

    My wife is fully aware. I am nude most times around the house and do go to the resorts on occasion. She knows when I am going to the resort, she just not wish to partake. My kids and most of my friends also know. I do not hide the fact that I enjoy nudity and support nude associations on Facebook. So anyone that reads my Facebook knows.

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  • JO
    Jun 17, 2013

    I know what you mean! If you are a certain age you automatically become a prev. Such a shame! Wife tells me nobody wants to see my dick. She doesn't even try to understand. alone in missouri

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  • ME
    Member
    Aug 20, 2013

    I have tried to convert me wife but she is just not interested.  She tried it once in a private private villa we were at, and was fine.  I took here to a beach in Croatia, but she would not and felt uncomfortable with people around her.  I for the sake of peace and quite and guess respect never go naked in the house unless she is not about.  I accept this, and she accepts that I enjoy going to nude beaches on holidays if one is nearby and she is happy for me to go alone for a few hours.  It is really good to chat to others in here or on skype who are in same position.

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