Are other couples concerned with going to a nudist resort, and finding out that it is a swingers haven We went to a resort in Calif, and my wife was propositioned to join a "group" for some fun. Havce other run into the same situation?
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- BA
Jun 21, 2009Although I have not visited many clubs in the past few years, when I was very active with nudist politics, my then wife, children and I visited nearly 100 nudist parks and clubs. We discovered that regardless of the vigilance of the management, invariably there was a group of swingers at almost every club. The overwhelming majority of these groups were discreet. Someone would approach, ask questions and if the responses were unfavorable, the swingers vanished and left the newbies alone. Sometimes they did not take the negative hint and were more assertive--like they seemed to be in your case.
A firm NO was always suffice and ended the conversation.
On rare occasions, we ascertained that the club was really a haven for swingers. In those cases, we packed and left--after informing management of our displeasure.ReaccionarResponder - DE
Jan 11, 2010Unlike bill we just visit clubs or resorts on vacations. far too many folks believe nudists sites are for sex parties and swingers. we just like to see and be naked with folks. most times we do not get approach for are upfront why we are at that place to begin with, like an advertisement. i guess there is always 2 sides of the street and well we stay on ours............
ReaccionarResponder - SU
Jul 14, 2011At least swingers are honest about what they want. Not like some of the certified true nudists we have met.
ReaccionarResponder - MO
Aug 18, 2012I have thought about my wife and I going to a couple of nearby (within 200 miles) resorts. We live in Columbus, Ohio. Does anyone have any experience with any of the resorts within the Ohio border or states that border Ohio?
ReaccionarResponder - CH
Aug 19, 2012[quote]I have thought about my wife and I going to a couple of nearby (within 200 miles) resorts. We live in Columbus, Ohio. Does anyone have any experience with any of the resorts within the Ohio border or states that border Ohio?[/quote]Nudist parks I can recommend - none are resorts:
Cedar Trails, Peebles; Green Valley, Bath; Alpine, Millersburg.
Nonlanded clubs I can recommend: Northcoast Naturists, Have Sun will Travel, Great Lakes Sunseekers. They can have events wherever their members are.
Which states are you interested in? You can go to www.naturistsociety.com and click on network and www.aanr.com and click on Find a Club or even go to locations on this site.ReaccionarResponder - BE
Jan 25, 2016My wife and I have come across many swingers, but once they find you are not swingers. They leave you alone...no biggie
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May 16, 2021I am very protective of my wife and I always research resorts before going there for the first time. It took her a while to get comfortable with social nudity; so I avoid any potential setbacks like the plague.
Last year she really wanted to try a couples-only B&B; so I was on "high alert." My wife can be very friendly, open and social; and I didn't want anyone to "misinterpret" her. I was ensured by the owner that sexual activity was verboten, but I still "scanned" the other guests' behavior as we socially engaged with them; and specifically how they "looked" at my wife when she was openly naked in front of them (discreetly of course). And I stayed right by my wife's side until I was able to fairly ascertain that the other guests had no prurient interest in my wife. Not to say that was ever their intent.
Maybe I'm overly cautious but I've been able to avoid any "incidents." And we now stick to the same venues where we're confident we won't be "propositioned."
ReaccionarResponder - MIMiembroMay 19, 2021Not so much now but I felt I needed to buffer and protect Luann from the onslaught of her being hit on. Years later she has got her feet on the ground now in this naturalist lifestyle. We went to our club to start opening up our place and there was a new chap visiting there walking around so we stopped our golf cart ride to welcome him.
Long story short cause he was a real talker that took no breaths in between sentences and delved into about a single guy being invited to swing here with couples. I got the drift he was interested in Luann and I let her take the helm. She was kind as she always is and handled it well. I just sat there thinking you go girl! Her comment afterwards to me was "I get the impression all newbies think all new want to be nudist think we are all are swingers. "ReaccionarResponder - MA
Jun 13, 2021There is a famous place in France well known for that with a beach, clubs and private houses it's Cap d'Agde. Welcome !
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