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Mar 7, 2012I am new, and wondering how nudists handle the size of other peoples 'parts'. Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size organs, or will someone lesser be made fun of.mostly, how accepting are people, or friendly are they?thankyou!
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Feb 20, 2013[quote][quote][quote]I am new, and wondering how nudists handle the size of other peoples 'parts'. Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size organs, or will someone lesser be made fun of.mostly, how accepting are people, or friendly are they?thankyou![/quote]This is such a disheartening thread to read. You ask a question about people being accepting, and there are a slew of responses illustrating just how judgmental people can be - many of which are jumbled into posts about how accepting nudists/naturalists are. How hypocritical. I was reading through the forum posts as a newbie who is considering more social nudism (rather than just out in nature), and started wondering why anyone would "want" to be part of a nudist community as I read time after time how "stupid" someone felt a question was. I'm now more reluctant to ask the burning questions I have in this forum. So much for that welcoming and tolerant environment claimed to be had with nudists, eh?
I can tell you from my own limited experience at various nude beaches/parks with friends - we never judge bodies. All of us have hang-ups, whether breast size, genitals, love handles, freckles - it runs the gamete. We are each beautiful in our own way and the "body" is the least of our concerns while out and about. I've seen all shapes and sizes - from overweight to "perfect" to underweight, from large penis to micro penis - from perky breasts to sagging ones... but when out nude, you see something else, the person as they are. To quote one of my favorite films, "It's what I have to work with."
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[/quote]I somewhat agree with this post. I don't think there are any stupid questions if the question is legitimate. Some people do have concerns (physically, psychologically, and emotionally) about naturism and none of us should jump to a snap judgement about their concerns if we expect the same courtesy from others. Just my thoughts :)ReagirResponder - BI
Feb 20, 2013I have not yet visited a resort. My wife is steadfastly against it. Because I would view this as a fun experience I will not do it without her at my side. We are married over 38 years and we are both 100% monogamous and devoted to each other.
I believe the resorts are places where birds of a feather flock together. These are venues where size does not matter. Where what's inside you is what matters.
I think our fears are based on the only "social nude" experiences we have all had, the locker room at school, with those without the social values of nudists.
BobReagirResponder - FL
Mar 8, 2013" Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size "I'm pretty new here but from my experience. When a new person comes to the resort grounds, most will look. Usually just a quick glance but in only a brief time the "newbie" will not draw hardly a second glance. I never have seen anyone make a degrading comment about another person. So I am saying that if you are respectful and speak to the person and not their "parts" then you should not have any problem. Just be yourself and have fun.
ReagirResponder - OV
Mar 11, 2013From what ive seen at resorts, most are middle aged or older and they are all beautiful... there are small parts and big parts but the important thing is they are having a great time mingling with other nudists.. and parts dont matter.. we are welcomed for who we are.ReagirResponder - MA
Mar 12, 2013[quote]The small parts and big parts are mingling?[/quote]Change your meat supplier.ReagirResponder - MR
Mar 14, 2013As my 'part' is of the smaller variety, I worried about this issue for years, but I quickly found when I finally shared my nudity, no one was going to point and laugh.
I have now seen plenty, big and small, and it's not something i care about anymoreReagirResponder - MAMar 15, 2013
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ReagirResponder - TH
Mar 15, 2013My waist is now 38 inches. Why would I want to increase it? I do have to put on my pants occasionally.ReagirResponder - MEMembroMay 30, 2013[quote][quote]I am new, and wondering how nudists handle the size of other peoples 'parts'. Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size organs, or will someone lesser be made fun of.mostly, how accepting are people, or friendly are they?thankyou![/quote]This is such a disheartening thread to read. You ask a question about people being accepting, and there are a slew of responses illustrating just how judgmental people can be - many of which are jumbled into posts about how accepting nudists/naturalists are. How hypocritical. I was reading through the forum posts as a newbie who is considering more social nudism (rather than just out in nature), and started wondering why anyone would "want" to be part of a nudist community as I read time after time how "stupid" someone felt a question was. I'm now more reluctant to ask the burning questions I have in this forum. So much for that welcoming and tolerant environment claimed to be had with nudists, eh?
I can tell you from my own limited experience at various nude beaches/parks with friends - we never judge bodies. All of us have hang-ups, whether breast size, genitals, love handles, freckles - it runs the gamete. We are each beautiful in our own way and the "body" is the least of our concerns while out and about. I've seen all shapes and sizes - from overweight to "perfect" to underweight, from large penis to micro penis - from perky breasts to sagging ones... but when out nude, you see something else, the person as they are. To quote one of my favorite films, "It's what I have to work with."
[/quote]My stomach dropped as I read the negative and off topic and meanish jokes. I'd love too know how many people join believing some people's superficial statements about being supportive and inclusive and then call them stupid, or tell them off for asking a question that may have been burning in them for many years. Perhaps the thing that's prevented them from ever trying nudism. And then being mostly shot down... It's not good enough. I left for 7 months until a week ago after the similar impolite replies. If a member is an Undies... Just give them a break!!! If you know you're going to hit hard and likely scare off new people or potential subscription income for the site don't reply. If it annoys you... Just leave it.Please stop making us think all nudists are grouchy and bossy and not as accepting as they say.ReagirResponder - AU
May 31, 2013I fully support your comments Gideon,From reading replies to posts over the years I too am astounded at the inconsiderate, grouchy, bossy and often biased comments made by some of the regulars who think they are the pillars of our nudist society. I have another name for them but I wont inflame their sensitive beings by making my thoughts re it known.
Re Size and back on topic.I find that in my case size is influenced by the weather and I don't have a habit of looking at what others have as mine has been quite ample and served me well over the years. My pet hate is the guys that find the need to fluff it up so the look more manly.
These cretins really set back my newbie partners sojourn into the social nudist scene.
Lighten up guys and give other posters a fair hearing, what might be utter drivel to you is probably a valid concern of our newbie members.Cheers KReagirResponder - NU
May 31, 2013Well - I'm happy - I'm single - and open to the possibility of finding a relationship with someone who shares my interests ... I.e. meeting a naturist... So i think ...At least they will know what they're getting ;-))
But seriously ... If things like size of manhood, breasts, belly or whatever else matter to you ... Then perhaps the true meaning of naturism hasn't got through yet. We only care about looks when we forget that we were never meant to all be the same!! And I for 1 ... Am very glad were not!!ReagirResponder - BE
Jul 8, 2013This is not a dumb question.
I think the size of the parts matters most to the person who owns them. We all want to look our best, and we compare ourselves with our own personal ideal.
I look. I find the differences interesting. But it makes no difference to me as to whether I will like that person and to what extent.ReagirResponder - TO
Jul 9, 2013Well mine is on the small size but it doesn't bother me what other people think over it.
ReagirResponder - MEMembroJul 9, 2013[quote]I am new, and wondering how nudists handle the size of other peoples 'parts'. Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size organs, or will someone lesser be made fun of.mostly, how accepting are people, or friendly are they?thankyou![/quote]I'm so sorry you received so many negative responses when you asked your question. You deserved to be treated with far more respect. Nudism in general is different from a random skinny dip with mates. Nudists (in general) are very respectful. I know that may be hard to believe when you're shot down for a question that I'm sure is very important to you. Have faith that everyone's there for the sunshine, experience and company. Have a go and build up your confidence. Much luck. :DReagirResponder
- MAJul 10, 2013[quote][quote]I am new, and wondering how nudists handle the size of other peoples 'parts'. Are most people more accepting of smaller, or diff size organs, or will someone lesser be made fun of.mostly, how accepting are people, or friendly are they?thankyou![/quote]I'm so sorry you received so many negative responses when you asked your question. You deserved to be treated with far more respect. Nudism in general is different from a random skinny dip with mates. Nudists (in general) are very respectful. I know that may be hard to believe when you're shot down for a question that I'm sure is very important to you. Have faith that everyone's there for the sunshine, experience and company. Have a go and build up your confidence. Much luck. :D[/quote]Gideon, why are you talking to someone who has not signed in here since posting this question, two years ago ?ReagirResponder
- THJul 10, 2013People talk to a guy who died over 2000 years ago all the time.ReagirResponder
- MEMembroJul 10, 2013I'm talking to a man, and anyone else that come across this thread with the same anxiety. I can't understand why you don't build people up. Ripping into people for an anxiety they carry and need a valid and respectful reply to isn't hard. It's even easier to say nothing and leave it to people that can help. I wonder if this person left after reading your reply?ReagirResponder
- MEMembroJul 10, 2013[quote]Most people on here just talk gibberish.[/quote]The forum is full of your gibberish. It's disappointing to seeReagirResponder
- THJul 10, 2013The forum is full of your gibberish. It's disappointing to seeYes but we gibber at each other, not someone who left two years ago.ReagirResponder
- MEMembroJul 10, 2013And yet there is whining when a new post is created covering new groundAnd what about the next guy that finds this post and instead of reading mature sensitive replies, reads the rubbish the OP got for his efforts. I'm trying to add a counter balance for him or anyone else that reads this thread.ReagirResponder