When is the best time to tell someone who has come into your life that you are a nudist as in my case we aren't dating yet but there is a good chance we will.
So do I tell her before the first date, on the first date, after we have dated a few times, see if she sees the lack of tan lines when we are naked for sex, tell her if we move in together or not at all and only stay naked when she isn't home. She has a grown up 33? year old son who has left home.
Any help please.
Ps I think this has come up before but was unable to find it.
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- A_a_mad_manAuteur d'origineSep 9, 2019
First I asked a question what could affect other nudists other than just me and some members have tried to pull my profile to pieces when they know nothing about my case. So if it is the same lady who I have been in her property nude or, another lady who doesn't know about my nudity it doesn't matter. So don't think I will never have a lady in my life as some of you think will be the case.
Yes I have spoken to her on the phone this evening (one of the reasons I haven't replied before) and she is happy to spend the day with me but due to work (she spends 3 to 4 nights away for work most weeks and she will never change this for a man) and going to Australia and to see her youngest sibling and 2 nephews in New Zealand for a month so it wont be for a little while.
RéagirRépondre - ST
Sep 9, 2019Is English your first language?
Perhaps thats causing the confusion.
RéagirRépondre - AV
Sep 10, 2019I think it is a fair question. The prior posts by this person seem to be the main concern. It is a difficult situation to tell a new person in your life you are a nudist. In my case I thought she knew, now 30 years she says no she did not. Sooner the better if it starts to get serious.
RéagirRépondre - PHSep 10, 2019[quote]First I asked a question what could affect other nudists other than just me and some members have tried to pull my profile to pieces when they know nothing about my case. So if it is the same lady who I have been in her property nude or, another lady who doesn't know about my nudity it doesn't matter. So don't think I will never have a lady in my life as some of you think will be the case.Yes I have spoken to her on the phone this evening (one of the reasons I haven't replied before) and she is happy to spend the day with me but due to work (she spends 3 to 4 nights away for work most weeks and she will never change this for a man) and going to Australia and to see her youngest sibling and 2 nephews in New Zealand for a month so it wont be for a little while.[/quote]
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[strong][strong]This has left me more confused than ever.
Who is going to New Zealand?
Who do you go naked with?
Who were you talking to on the phone so long you could not respond here?
Who don't you know how to tell you are a nudist?[/strong][/strong][/strong]RéagirRépondre - TH
Sep 10, 2019[strong]You're not the only one Phil[/strong]
[strong]my BS meter is a'twitching[/strong]RéagirRépondre - A_a_mad_manAuteur d'origineSep 10, 2019[quote]You're not the only one Phil my BS meter is a'twitching[/quote] Get a new one as this one is broken as there is no BS on my posts.RéagirRépondre
- THSep 10, 2019[quote]First I asked a question what could affect other nudists other than just me and some members have tried to pull my profile to pieces when they know nothing about my case. So if it is the same lady who I have been in her property nude or, another lady who doesn't know about my nudity it doesn't matter. So don't think I will never have a lady in my life as some of you think will be the case.Yes I have spoken to her on the phone this evening (one of the reasons I haven't replied before) and she is happy to spend the day with me but due to work (she spends 3 to 4 nights away for work most weeks and she will never change this for a man) and going to Australia and to see her youngest sibling and 2 nephews in New Zealand for a month so it wont be for a little while. This has left me more confused than ever. Who is going to New Zealand? Who do you go naked with? Who were you talking to on the phone so long you could not respond here? Who don't you know how to tell you are a nudist?[/quote]
[em][strong]Why won't you answer Phil's questions??[/strong][/em]RéagirRépondre - NUSep 14, 2019
started seeing a lady and she asked me why my deck was enclosed and I said I like to sunbathe out there. but left it at that. one spring day she called and asked what I was doing and it said just sitting out on my deck.she said she might come over and I said call first. She did come over and came out on the deck and I was sunbathing naked. she wasn't shocked. I said I would put some clothes on and she said don't bother, I will get naked. We spent the rest of the day sunbathing naked and drinking margaritas. We spent that summer going to hot springs and skinny-dipping in lakes and rivers all summer.
RéagirRépondre - LA
Sep 19, 2019[quote]I was dating a girl and she told me that she didn't like that I went to a nudist resort. That those people shouldn't see me naked only the person your with. Her friend that introduced us wanted to visit a nudist resort since it was on her bucket list. The friend wanted to go visit one with me but the girlfriend wouldn't go. She didn't mind me being naked in my apartment with her. So I guess you should tell them as soon as you get serious.[/quote] Maybe the friend is the one you should be dating. Did y'all go to the resort together? Seems like something y'all should think about if not.RéagirRépondre