He never said his dad was uncomfortable with his nudity, or had forbidden it, so I don't see any disrespect by testing out being nude around the house. I see you point, but i never subscribed to the idea that a man's (a parent's) house is his castle. As my kids became adults, I never considered them living in my house, but rather that we were living together, in our house, and that we all had to adjust our expectations and behaviours accordingly - me getting older and changing some of my views or doubling down on others, and them discovering who they were and giving them the opportunity to express themselves.
His dad may be fine with him nude in the house even if he himself doesn't want to join him. If everything is going well as the poster indicated above, then my advice is to continue to explore the lifestyle. If it has been a few weeks, then I would suggest asking his dad, casually, something like "I hope it doesn't bother you that I don't wear clothes in the house, but I'm so much more comfortable without them". If there is a clothing optional beach in the area, perhaps suggest a father/son day with a stop at that beach and see his reaction. It's a neutral territory where the dad may decide join him with a bit of gentle or fun coaxing.
All I know is that for the last several years as a divorced dad, when my kids (sons) stay with me at my place (apartment), I don't have the luxury of privacy. [Feel free to look up rents and mortgages in Seattle/western WA.] So, right, I do not hide my body from my sons when I have shower or change. And unlike other parts of the U.S., buildings are not automatically equipped with air-conditioning. So guess what: during summer, I have to open up all the windows and run fans. Despite that, it still feels too warm inside. So yes, sometimes I will go nude for a while. My kids couldn't care less. To me, I consider that success.
Well, IF you have a location, YOU KNOW naked folks enjoy the day- get there really early and take your dad-set-up the towels and all that and relax and wait. I have "never" seen a Male NOT get naked when he sees others going naked as well in a healthy environment. My youth was in Big Sur in the 70s and I'd see tourist trek to the beaches and then find themselves surrounded by Naturists. It is ALWYS that DAD, Hubby that convinces the wife it's OK. The kids?- hell they are buck and off to the water before the mother can stop them. Nothing more uncomfortable than to be clothed around a crowd of naked folks. Especially when they see just how fun AND relaxing it is- their sold! Good Luck!
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