Finding real, respectful nudist to chat and make friends.
I joined this site to make friends and chat with real nudist. Well, I have found more perverts than normal nudist that just want to chat and make friends so far. Why is it so hard?!? I'm not picky, I just want to connect with people like me who enjoy being nude, not a relationship or affair or whatever else. So far, the couples were the most normal people. How's everyone else doing with this?
I don't know how to answer your post except to say that this type of forum seems to attract that type of person, but it seems to be all we've got at the moment. It's particularly hard on women, because while there are a few of us men who want what you want, they're drowned out by men who are cruising for a pickup and have no restraints. They're not interested in nudism, just naked pictures.
I do have two suggestions. First, don't respond to anybody who isn't serious. You can often tell them by what they're posting. So if you get a post from somebody you don't know, click on his icon and you can tell by his history of posting just what he's there for. I think there's a way you can filter them out in the future.
Secondly, get certified. It's not a sure-fire way to weed out the pervs, but people who have a commitment to real nudism have to take a little extra effort, and it scares away some of the more casual sorts. Yeah, you have to submit a nude picture of yourself, but it isn't seen by anybody besides the moderators. From what I can figure out, the requirement for the clothed and nude pictures is to to prevent somebody from just grabbing a nude picture off the Internet and saying it's them.
I wish you well, and hope you find kindred spirits where you are.
P.S. I posted this before I realized that it was going to end up in "The Ladie's Room." If anybody objects to a guy posting here, I'll delete it.