While wife knows that I am bi, she offers no such encouragement to explore. Which is a cause of frustration! Find any discussion on the matter impossible to frame without any fear of I am not enough to swamp the exchange of views needs and wishes.
Hypothesis: Humans strive for connection. Humans, left to themselves, are innately bi in nature. Men are told as boys dont cry - discard their needs and perform as society determines is acceptable. Men suffer in silence, dying before their time from the inside out. This has gone in for centuries. With occasional historical references by zealots wedded to an unreformed status quo that holds its heal at the throat of mankind out of ignorance prejudice and fear (of their own feelings urges and need for acceptable acceptance. We are all strangers in a strange land. Taught to hate and fear by a society that merrily inflicts mental dis-ease on humans natural desires in order to feel safe
Easy Robert. Find a couple of decent looking guys on here from your area, or visit a local nudist resort. Tell them where you're at, and invite them to your house. Put on your hottest bi or gay porn, and invite everyone to get naked! Wrap your hand around both of your visitors cock and give them a few strokes to let them know it's OK to touch. The rest will handle itself. It is important to have at least two guests though, in case you chicken out. That way they can still have a good time with each other!
As for me, after being rabidly heterosexual all my life, I was gobsmacked to find out in the first 30 seconds that I LOVED the feeling of another man's cock in my mouth!
"There is no try. There is do, or do not do." Master Yoda
I agree with your suggestion that 10% are gay, 10% are straight and the rest are in-between. Throughout my life I've wrestled with which side of the fence I was on. I'm not openly gay but as I get older I find myself leaning more towards an attraction to men around my age , I enjoy their relaxed approach to their sexuality and find a lot of married men who enjoy exploring their own likes and dislikes that perhaps they can't with their wives. I'm particularly attracted to hairy masculine men. I'm not effeminate or wear women's clothes. I think women look better in them.
I hope you settle into a comfortable place and explore your naked self in the company of men and women.
If you're interested in corresponding. I am always available. I'm an exhibitionist by nature and feel comfortable in my own skin.
I was married until 10years ago when I started to have more sexual arousal looking at naked men at the beach and nudist camps and started to give in to my desires and preferences.
I hope you take this message in the spirit it's meant.
Richard
Wow, you're such a lucky guy.
Before I was married a had several sexual experiences with guys. I had a relationship on and off with one guy for around 18 months. I just love the feeling of a hard cock in my mouth and inside me.
When I got married I told my wife about my sexuallity but she didn't understand it, so that was the end of that. We've been married 14 years now and I feel I need to experience sex with another man again. I think I'm going to have to open that discussion in the not too distant future with my wife and hope she understands and accepts my needs. It's a bit scary though!
Hey Andy, Good luck to you. I have always wanted to be in a relationship with a woman who would accept me for being bisexual. I think there is a general perception that everything is strictly binary. So from that perspective, if you enjoy sex with me, you must actually be gay and are not in love with the woman. I would guess that there is a fear of loss and jealousy component in many people with an insecurity that they might lose their partner, but then, why would it be more likely with a man than a woman? Cheers!
Yep you're right. Unfortuantly when I raised my sexuality with my Wife before we were married she basically said when we are married, sex with anyone other than her, male or Female would be cheating. She didn't seem to understand that my having sex with a man was no reflection on her, but a need for me in order to feel like a whole person. I would never leave her or my kids, I love them all dearly, but she didn't really understand where I'm coming from.
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