I have been bi almost my whole life. I didnt share this with my first or second wife. My third relationship was with a lady that was a nudist and a swinger. She passed away and I am now in a fantastic relationship. She totally accepted my lifestyle. We have had some awesome times together. She enjoys watching me with others, men and women. I am 72 and loving life.
While wife knows that I am bi, she offers no such encouragement to explore. Which is a cause of frustration! Find any discussion on the matter impossible to frame without any fear of I am not enough to swamp the exchange of views needs and wishes.
Hypothesis: Humans strive for connection. Humans, left to themselves, are innately bi in nature. Men are told as boys dont cry - discard their needs and perform as society determines is acceptable. Men suffer in silence, dying before their time from the inside out. This has gone in for centuries. With occasional historical references by zealots wedded to an unreformed status quo that holds its heal at the throat of mankind out of ignorance prejudice and fear (of their own feelings urges and need for acceptable acceptance. We are all strangers in a strange land. Taught to hate and fear by a society that merrily inflicts mental dis-ease on humans natural desires in order to feel safe