Wish people would read a profile before sending requests

I'm a nudist, not sure if I'm a 'True nudist' as I'm not sure what that entails. However, I have my pics set so anyone can see them. I have asked on my profile that I don't which to add anyone as a fiend until I have seen their photos and read their profile. I don't want to add you as a friend until I've seen you photo not the other way round. And as it is a nudist site it would, in my oppinion, be better to have at least one nude photo.
OK rant over!
Dee

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Profiles

I agree, I always would hope that a person would have a photo of their face & some details written in on their profile!!
Atleast i can gauge the kind of person I am accepting

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RE: Profiles

yeah, exactly Kram. And it would be nice to get a clue as to what they have in common with you that would make a basis for a friendship to start. Drop a comment or something.
I know right? Who wants to be friends with someone they know nothing about? I've had a lot of friend requests like that and I don't acceot them. And to me, being certified makes a difference as well.

Definitely. I do read profiles fully before accepting friendships online except if I'm previously connected in some way to the individual

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RE: Profiles

We know what you mean. on our profile we say noone over 45 for us and majority we getting requesting are older. No offense to them but would rather have people around our age as to have some things in common.

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RE: Profiles

Harry posted good information. I wanted to add that the site benifits of being certified is forum section that only certified users can see and some people set pics to viewable to certified only.
Thomas

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RE: Profiles

Totally agree. I've turned down a few requests from either blank profiles or nearly empty ones. Fill out the details folks and post pics, it's not hard!

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RE: Wish people would read a profile before sending requests

Looking at the groups the OP belongs to, I don't see where there's ANY room to complain.
I did not know TN permitted these groups?

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hello

hello My name is shanti, i was searching for a friend and i came across your profile today at lovely site () became interested on you, so please my dear if you really want my communication,i will like you to contact me directly to my private email contact Address: (shantikabash@yahoo.com), i hope we can move from here,so that it will enable me to write you back with details of me and my pictures, Thanks for your understanding,
(shantikabash@yahoo.com)

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Wish people would read a profile before sending requests

I'm a nudist, not sure if I'm a 'True nudist' as I'm not sure what that entails. However, I have my pics set so anyone can see them. I have asked on my profile that I don't which to add anyone as a fiend until I have seen their photos and read their profile. I don't want to add you as a friend until I've seen you photo not the other way round. And as it is a nudist site it would, in my oppinion, be better to have at least one nude photo. OK rant over! Dee
Dee, I agree with you over the issue of private profiles. How can you really be a friend with someone who you know little about? Since you appear to be a newbie with only 4 posts, there are some items that I would like to discuss with you. In viewing your photos, we can neverget a clear picture of your face. You seem attractive enough so why not show your face. When joining this site, it is more important that a person be Certified than in posting a nude picture of themselves. By signing up here we are all saying that we are nudists. Do you need a nude photo to believe what it says on the profile is true? Lastly, I believe that the defination of a True Nudist is someone who embraces the the nude life style and the wants to promote and encourage others to enjoy all of the benefits that it has to offer.

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RE: hello

People need to flag the profile for spamming giving the location of the post: https://www.truenudists.com/forum/viewthread.php?id=19769&post=122811

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RE: Wish people would read a profile before sending requests

Hi Desert Rat

I don't show my face as I really don't wish people who I might know that I'm a nudist. OK silly you may say but I'm sure that my emplyeers would not be at all happy. As a receptionist it maybe difficult for me if some idiot has seen me somewhere.
Also I notice that you have no face pic that one can see without becoming a friend. OK each to there own but before I add someone as a friend I like to have some idea what they are like, I'm sure you don't look like a tree! If we were friends and we had exchanged some e-mails and photos then at some stage I would show my face because I would feel that after a time hopefully a trust is found.

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