so many restrictions

hello! i am alvin, 43. i'm an asian and i love being nude all the time. there are so many restrictions though in my country. if you do it in places where someone can see you, you will be regarded as weird or deviant. even my wife does not entirely approve of it. she is a very conservative woman. my problem is therefore compounded by the fact that i have to always hide from the prying eyes of my neighbors and of course from my own wife. but i still do it - when i'm alone at home or during nighttime when no one can see me nude in my own backyard. but i always wish that i could be free. in fact, some day i would like to live in a nudist colony somewhere in europe.
the reason i joined truenudists is because i want to talk to other nudists because i want to be accepted and be part of the world's nudist groups.

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Welcome from Canada. TN is a great site with lots of friendly and helpful people.

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Welcome to the site. You are indeed in the right place for learning, talking and meeting other people who enjoy the nudist life style. Bruce gave you some very good advice so I won't repeat him. You should fill out your profile so other people can know more about you and maybe send you a Friends Request. One other thing, the term nudist colony is usually used by people who are anti nudist. Nudist resort or nudist village is more acceptable to nudists.

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I understand that nudity is frowned on in your country, but after having spoke with many from the Philippines I have been told that clothing optional oppurtunities do exsist there. Most require access to a boat as I been told there are many isolated beaches there. I have also been told that skinny dipping is not uncommon in the lakes and rivers in some mountains areas as well.. I think your on the right track joining here and the key is to chat and ask questions. I wish you luck !

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i thought nudist colonies only existed in old black n white movies.

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One can feel very restricted in his own home, when the partner opposes your so much desired freedom. I have had to experience this myself. It was not even accepted to sleep naked, which I totally disregarded as well, as walking about within the house in the nude.
Eventually my then wife moved out, which was a welcome change. We never had any fights , or heated discussions over the issue. however it was the constant feeling of disapproval, which stood there like a wall between us then. The separation was a happy solution for either of us, which was a bit hard at first, as I still loved her, but now, I have no regrets.

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Hi Alvin,I visit Vietnam quiteregularlyand know what your on about re the restrictions.I have been luckythoughand found some deserted beaches at different times.wish we could go back to earlier times when being nude orpartiallynude was accepted as normal.
all the best take care and stay bare.Keith

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