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When ever I have spoken to textiles even on a public official
nudist beach I always find myself saying "i hope I am not
embarrassing you by being totally naked". But then I guess if they
were embarrassed they would not have gone there in the first place
- and it is really well sign posted. But it still does not
stop me from feeling rather embarrassed and saying it anyhow. I
guess I am just seeking their assurance that I am doing nothing
wrong by being naked there.

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Nude is natural. We are not imposing our views on them. They are imposing their view on us

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When ever I have spoken to textiles even on a public officialnudist beach I always find myself saying "i hope I am notembarrassing you by being totally naked". But then I guess if theywere embarrassed they would not have gone there in the first place- and it is really well sign posted. But it still does not stop me from feeling rather embarrassed andsaying it anyhow. I guess I am just seeking their assurance that I amdoing nothing wrong by being naked there.We visit our nude beach less than I'd like but when we do, there are many people on that beach that are fully dressed, in bathing suits and some topless ... but mostly nudes. I've had a few younger college age people say "aren't you embarrassed to be naked at the beach?" I say to them, "no, this is a well known nude beach and has been since before you parents were born ... aren't you embarrassed that you came to visit this beach, this nude beach when there is a section of beach south of here where you'll not encounter 1 naked person?"
Usually, they get up and leave!

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your beach sounds very similar to my local nudist beach - where possibly about half the visitors are textiles and half are naturists, but where the naturist area is far more remote to get to.

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Remeber to .tell someone, when they say you are naked, NO I AM NUDE. Also remind them like the other person mentioned. I am offended by your being clothed

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quite a mixture of nationalities use the beach as it is popular with French and German holiday makers and also often larger groups of international language college students that stay in this area over the summer to learn English. They all seem to have different attitudes to nudity when they have spoken to me.

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If you are on a nudist beach and nude there isn't no reason to ask to be nude as they are in the wrong. If on a beach which is known to be used as a CO beach, again no worry at all but just be considerate to others and just except some will have cloths on.The only time if you will have to think about others think about your nudity, is if you are on a beach where nudity isn't normal where if other people will be fairly close to you check with them first about you stripping off.

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Maybe a better response would be "I hope you're not embarrassed to be clothed on a nude beach!" No nude beaches anywhere within a few hundred miles for me, so I
say you have a good problem. I understand that nudist means
clothing is not an option whereas clothing optional leaves it to
people's own discretion. Korean spas enforce mandatory nudity
in their wet areas which makes them nudists by definition. If
nudism applies, textiles should be apologizing to you, otherwise
it's about making choices and respecting one another for them.

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When ever I have spoken to textiles even on a public officialnudist beach I always find myself saying "i hope I am notembarrassing you by being totally naked". But then I guess if theywere embarrassed they would not have gone there in the first place- and it is really well sign posted. But it still does not stop me from feeling rather embarrassed andsaying it anyhow. I guess I am just seeking their assurance that I amdoing nothing wrong by being naked there.Over the years many nudist beaches have been lost. Sometimes, this is because they weren't frequented enough by nudists.
I see nudist beaches as in a similar situation to many public footpaths. If we stop using them, people get used to them not being used, and eventually the footpath disappears completely. Or, in the case of a nudist beach, everyone suddenly is up in arms because someone has got naked on "their" beach.
We need to visit out beaches, and we need to protect them. If there are textiles, then fair enough, they are welcome on *our* beach

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Nude is natural. We are not imposing our views on them. They are imposing their view on us

X's 2!

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When ever I have spoken to textiles even on a public officialnudist beach I always find myself saying "i hope I am notembarrassing you by being totally naked". But then I guess if theywere embarrassed they would not have gone there in the first place- and it is really well sign posted. But it still does not stop me from feeling rather embarrassed andsaying it anyhow. I guess I am just seeking their assurance that I amdoing nothing wrong by being naked there.We visit our nude beach less than I'd like but when we do, there are many people on that beach that are fully dressed, in bathing suits and some topless ... but mostly nudes. I've had a few younger college age people say "aren't you embarrassed to be naked at the beach?" I say to them, "no, this is a well known nude beach and has been since before you parents were born ... aren't you embarrassed that you came to visit this beach, this nude beach when there is a section of beach south of here where you'll not encounter 1 naked person?"
Usually, they get up and leave!
Good for you two that is the best thing i have heard all day !

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