Bromance SP
The relationship between two guys, heterosexual or a bit homo, it doesnt matter. It is a deep understanding of friendship for one another, that counts complicity and who has more affection, even if it manages jokes about being gay or not ... this is not the point. The most important thing is the support it offers to one another. Do you believe that? Did you have the chance to live like a...
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hey naturists: I started this group because I believe we can find friends to practice naturism and became too closer to talk frank and be intimate without sex thinking, without the question to be gay or not, to be this or that - just share a nude talk, a nude experience, a nude intimacy with the comprehension to be yourself - I tryied, and it was great - thanks God I found friends to share that - will tell you about that! Nude regards!!! Share your stories also! :)
I think the idea of a bromance is a cool and refreshing idea, for those
men who will allow themselves to experience that kind of intimacy with
another man. I kind of have two bromances. One is more of a
sharing,and emotional kind of thing, and there is a chemistry between
us, the issue with that person is he constantly thinks about how he
should behave around a gay man and that in my opinion doesn't allow him
to be free. He has some issues around masculinity which stem from
childhood and until he works those out and moves beyond those barriers I
don't think he'll ever be able to have a a deep intimate closeness with
another man.
My other bromance is also with a heterosexual male
with curiosities. We met at a naturist spa, started chatting and became
fast friends, then I saw him again at a gay sauna which I was quite
surprised, and we chatted again and spent a great deal of time together
lying together chatting, caressing each other. We chat and have gotten
together on other occassions, and I grow closer to him all the time, we
have shared a mutual masturbation session together after massaging each
other as there is an attraction between us, but THAT doesn't fuel the
friendship. I just like being around him, his personality, his warmness
etc. So it can exist and the dynamics change depending on the
individuals.
I like what you guys had to say... i think bromance is the solution to my guilt as a married man. i want nude close friends where we can be free to share our thoughts and attraction and jokes -- and try to just enjoy each others company without crossing into "hard core sex" world. We need to build our manhood in a healthy way. Its cool to appreciate each others body etc.
I like what you guys had to say... i think bromance is the solution to my guilt as a married man. i want nude close friends where we can be free to share our thoughts and attraction and jokes -- and try to just enjoy each others company without crossing into "hard core sex" world. We need to build our manhood in a healthy way. Its cool to appreciate each others body etc.
Well said.
I think male relationships are underrated. I've been a nudist for a while, and I've found that when you get 2 or more guys together and you're all nude, it's the start of a good thing.
Without your clothes, there's no pretence, there's no lying and I've made some brilliant friendships with naked buddies. You really find out what people are about.
It's also a good thing as I'm a gay male, but I've found another dimension to being a naked man with other naked men.
It's good just to hang naturally, accept the way we are and appreciate and respect the way we sometimes express ourselves when nude. It's great, it's not threatening and it's great to talk to other men this way.
I agree with everything everyone here has said! I have had a bromance once, when in school, and it was really wonderful. I had no male influence growing up, so when I got to college and crossed paths with a very manly guy who wanted to hang out and be friends, I was thrilled. We did everything together, and over time, we were free to lay together when watching movies, we could hold hands to show our connection with each other, we hugged, showered together, and even kissed goodbye and hello.... he always dated girls, and they knew about our bromance.... our relationship was never a threat to them because it was different and special. Of course, over the period that we were in college, we had mutual masturbation times together, it was never planned, just something that would happen. The closeness that you have in a bromance is very healthy, it has healing power, and it will change your life. My bro has since moved to Sweden, and I'm in Atlanta.... so hanging out together doesn't happen. Except rare occasion on a cam. With that being said, I'd love to find another guy that would want to be in a bromance, so if you're in Atlanta and interested, let me know!!!
I have a friend, he's a security guard at my part time job, he enjoys nudity, but more just to be daring. He lives on a lake with a boat and we often boat nude, to get natural sun with no tan lines. After about a year, and many personal conversations regarding his curiosities. Talks of admiring penis and testicles, but not attracted to males in general. One night he fought with his wife (almost a daily thing) he asked to stay at my house, called very late. Since he has seen me nude often, I had no regards to when he got to my house to cover up. We sat and he told me of the most recent incident, and after it became late, offered my guest room to him. So he went in dropped his overnight bag, came back to the living room nude, and sat down, simply he said he didn't want me to feel out of place. With all his trouble he sat next to me and asked for a security hug, which we did, ended up falling asleep on the couch and later woke up side by side arms wrapped around each other. Nothing sexual.Since then he feels very comfortable in a hug when we meet, and sometimes a small peck on the cheek.Our talks have become much more intimate and detailed regarding everything from boating, fishing and even sexual conversations and his personal male curiousity. Who knows, but after ours talks, it has me curious regarding further male bonding. Who knows what could develop further. I feel more strongly about our friendship, more than anyone else in the past.So hopefully I can read and learn from others in this group
My dear brothers - I want to thank each and every one by the comments posted here - in fact, we had 10 shares and nearly a thousand views, so we must agree: the friendship that may be more intimate between men is an issue that concerns us and opened the discussion here to become more welcoming listeners, participants and even (I hope!) can create groups of real meeting without trial! I really want to thank each of you for your frank and honest sharing, I will put myself at your disposal to find guys from Sao Paulo / Brazil (so I called this group Bromance SP ), but I notice that there are contributions from several US cities and other addresses worldwide - where are u from? What better to talk about? My skype is mmundi.br, my name is Amauri and hug to everyone!We maintain contact !!!
At least in American culture, seen two females together, even kiss, is nothing that anyone takes notice. However, for two males to do the same, well they must be.... . It is so sad that males can not express themselves as they feel. What is so wrong to say that a guy looks good or even to hug another guy. Many men will never know the great feeling that comes from a hug or the bonding that comes from guys sharing themselves with each other at a level more than just a hand shake. There is a chemical reaction within the two males that takes place with they touch that can not happen with a female. Males know how males feel and if they let themselves experience that, in many cases they would be a happier guy. It doesn't mean that you have to full out sex with each other, just like some have written, just laying together, or swimming nude, any activity together where you 'feel' each other out, not physically, but you could say mentally or even so call spiritually, there is a bonding that takes place that when it happens both know it. It's when you can look each other in the eye and know what each is thinking. Having been able to give guys massages for a while, I've come across many guys, that once they are comfortable with the experience of Bromance, they are more open about themselves. In many cases, I can feel them change and we become very good friends, more than just guy giving a guy a massage, the chemistry between myself and him go much more than just a him laying on table and I massaging him. There is also different levels of this so call Bromance, and it can change over time. Just like the first time you took to going nude, one has to take that first step to allow another male to get to know you, and trust him so that you'll be a better man yourself.
I use to go to the YMCA when it was for men only. There was never a problem with everyone who would swim in the nude. At that time, because of the pool pumps etc., most swim suits for men were made out of wool and would clod the filters. So naked swimming was mandatory. Fathers, sons, neighbors, strangers would change in front of each other. Friends would play grab ass, snap the towel and all of this horse play was non sexual. It was males being males. This is something we have lost in the many decades since. Now our younger men are doing the towel dance when they change in the locker room. Or they shower in their underwear. When have men stop being men. I remember when other young men would go and change behind the lockers at the Y. Snide remarks were made about them being so shy, "Just wait until they get in the Army, you don't have that privacy in the Navy" and so some either man up and show yourselves or they would cower in the corner waiting for the others to leave. It is so sad that our male comradery has almost fallen to the side because all these things above have been driven out of our today's youth. Bromance is just another label (str8, Bi, Gay, curious) it is one man reaching out to another man for emotional support, acknowledgment and acceptance. So why should this helping hand from one man to another become something that others should fear?