Do you this that nature has somehow put dads to a disadvantage, when it comes to bonding, due to lack of possible ways of physical intimacy? And how do you think this can be corrected in a perfect world?
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- YO
Aug 4, 2023I have always heard your point of view, and it maybe the majority of cases. However, in my case I believe that my kid is actually more attached to me than his mother, with the exception when he was a toddler. But even then, when he was crying, it was with me that he would calmed down.
ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterAug 4, 2023
I am so happy for you and your son. And as i said earlier, i am sure there are many fathers who have played a role more important than the mothers, in their kids' lives. I also hope that more and more fathers and sons have a relationship as yours.
A son needs his father as an emotional support as well as for being a gender idol. Someone on whom the sins can base their gender confidence on. Where there's nothing which is taboo. Just the true connection, in its pure form.
ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterAug 4, 2023
Thanks for sharing your story. It's really great that you got to bond with your elder son, and sorry to hear about your sons having been treated badly by the guy your ex was dating.
I do agree, when you say, "happy/sad feeling". I don't have a son, so i can't say what i would feel like, but it must feel so happy, proud and masculine, to know that you have created a man. And on the same note, it must feel really scary as well, considering our generation doesn't have many wonderful experiences with our fathers, to reference our parenting style upon.
But the key is to always be willing to change and adapt to new things.
Do you all think nudism between fathers and sons can play a role in making the relationship stronger?
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Sep 18, 2023I am sure that physical contact between father and son strengthens the bond and helps to reduce the barriers that time and differences create in the relationships between them. Perhaps because there is no link between pregnancy and breastfeeding, the father needs to make a greater effort to establish this bond with the son and being open to physical contact from an early age is essential.
The physical contact I had with my dad brings me good emotional memories and despite the differences, I am sure of his love because he always showed it not just in words but physically.
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