Male Bonding2

For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...

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To me it does not matter, individuals are who they are and not what they are. I prefer to chat with other males due to fact feel more comfortable in doing so, plus most guys tend to have more in common

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To me it does not matter, individuals are who they are and not what they are. I prefer to chat with other males due to fact feel more comfortable in doing so, plus most guys tend to have more in common

I agree, in naturism such things shouldn't matter any more than race, marital status (inc same sex marriage) etc as regardless we should also treat each other with respect.
In any case such rigid labels being man made are notional misleading, out dated and very oppressive!

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To me it does not matter, individuals are who they are and not what they are. I prefer to chat with other males due to fact feel more comfortable in doing so, plus most guys tend to have more in commonI agree. That's one of the great things about nudism: It does not matter about sexual orientation. I am a straight man myself but I have talked to quite a few gay men on here and they are really cool and open. We talk about sex, but they are respectful of my orientation just I am respectful of theirs.
And yes, guys definitely have more in common when it comes to nudism and sexual thoughts. That's what make it easier to make friends with them.

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As nudists or more to the point, true nudists, I find we can be comfortable in the company of others regardless of their sex or sexual orientation. Frankly it doesn't matter to me unless the other person tries to impose their preference

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True Nudists are those who are welcoming and accept others as they are, with no pre-conceived ideas or biases. We are all different, yet the same. I like to find out about others, their likes and dislikes and once friends it is easy to discuss so many issues and things and participate with them in many interesting activities. So colour, orientation, school or religious background, hobbies etc make for interesting friends. Nudity/naturism is what brings us together as a common interest.

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True Nudists are those who are welcoming and accept others as they are, with no pre-conceived ideas or biases. We are all different, yet the same. I like to find out about others, their likes and dislikes and once friends it is easy to discuss so many issues and things and participate with them in many interesting activities. So colour, orientation, school or religious background, hobbies etc make for interesting friends. Nudity/naturism is what brings us together as a common interest.Agree with that (and the preceding comments).

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To me it does not matter, individuals are who they areand not what they are. I prefer to chat with other males due tofact feel more comfortable in doing so, plus most guys tend to havemore in common
I Can't Tell Who Is Gay Or Not When I am with other men.
How Can I
Tell?
John

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As nudists or more to the point, true nudists, I find we can be comfortable in the company of others regardless of their sex or sexual orientation. Frankly it doesn't matter to me unless the other person tries to impose their preferenceAgree -but the part about another person imposing their preference goes both ways.I've always had straight friends and I have never and will never do anything inappropriate with them. Called respect!

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I personally relish my str8 male friends especially those who are nudists. I just like women don't like being hit on all the time or having to put up my guard. I can be myself fully around these guy, hug naked and it's 100% cool. Labels I agree are a has been thing.

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Sexual orientation doesn't matter to me at all with bonding with others. There are so many ways that people can connect with one another. When the clothing comes off with me, so do all barriers. When barriers are gone, we can all relax and be open and honest in a non judgmental arena. With that openness comes natural conversation and bonding begins.

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I'll hang naked with anyone, gay or straight. Doesn't matter to me. Naked male bonding is still bonding no matter who with.

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