Does spouse know or do you do on side?
Return to DiscussionsMy wife knows I enjoy being nude. In the beginning she was uncomfortable with me being naked around the house but as time and talk went on she doesnt seem to mind anymore. Im working on getting her to try it, but all I get is I am not happy with my body and no one wants to see it anyway. So until I can change her mind Im on my own. She has no idea that Im on a website for nudist and my pics are in my profile.. maybe someday I will let her know.
My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.
My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.
She doesn't even want you to be nude when just the two of you are home?
My wife is rarely nude at home, doesn't want me nude when others are here, and doesn't want to see anyone else nude, but luckily is fine with me being nude when it is just the two of us.
Mine doesnt know how much I practice. Shes ok w me going naked at home sometimes. But has no idea that I drive nude almost every morning to the trails to hike naked. Lol
Do you just tell her that you are going for a hike without specifying that you will be doing it nude?
I take a similar approach with my wife and going to the beach.
I told her once that I sometimes go to at nude beach and she was accepting of that.
What she doesn't know is that in the past 7 years I have worn a swimsuit on a NJ beach 3 times, all of them because I was going with my sister.
I am so used to being nude on the beach that one time, on the first day of a vacation, I went to the local beach without my wife, set up my chair,, took of my t shirt and sandals, and instinctively reached down to remove my swimsuit. Luckily, I stopped just in time.
My wife only goes to the beach when we are traveling, and even then, does so rarely.
I'm feeling a deep sense of sympathy for you gents whose wives don't share your nakedness much or at all. I used to date a woman who "dressed" that way and let me tell you, it truly stifled my desires in so many ways. Lucky for me she understood my deep desire to be bare whenever the sun was coming through the window so I could "lizard", soaking in all of the rays I could for as long as they streamed in, sometimes even following the sun from one window of her house the the next. It set me up for the craving for more and when the moment came for my first nude beach back in 2004 I was a goner. That became a moment I would revisit many times in the coming years, a revelation of spirit I had to have more of, culminating today in a living arrangement which allows me to be nude all the time. Oh the joy! But back to the chronology I travel.
In 2005 I began searching for more avenues in nature for skin in the sun and found a specific, somewhat unpopular on the weekdays, hiking trail and got my tail in the warmth of Sol plenty. I didn't tell her about all of my ventures, partly because some of them ended up as exhibitionism. The hike never turned naughty, but at another, less secluded spot I found to tan at, I started getting caught by other people and they assumed I was there and bare to be sexual. My exhibitionist tendencies loved those stranger's eyes on me. But those secrets kept from my gf weren't good for the relationship and I knew it, and they almost entirely remained secrets. I know now that those omissions helped undermine our connection. I sometimes wonder whether, if she'd been more comfortable in joining in on the nudity she saw me thriving in, if our relationship could have been better cemented. I'm thankful in retrospect that she didn't have the interest, because there were many things between us besides my desire for nudism in which we just didn't gel well.
I hope some of you men have the chance to confide your secrets and it helps your connection grow.
While my wife is not interested in nudism, she is comfortable and supportive of my desire to be naked. It wasnt easy though as I was only naked around the house when she was out. I took a very incremental approach starting with sleeping nude. Next, I started swimming my laps without my suit. Finally, I really opened the door one day with approaching her about my desire to live naked. Surprisingly. she told me that she is not comfortable with it but I should go for it. I decided that I would respect her approval by not being naked all the time. She now jokes about it wondering why Im dressed or when am I going to get undressed. She left the other day reminding me to be careful as she was expected several deliveries! Gotta to love her attitude!
Similar to my progression except swimming in the evening lead to sleeping instead of the other way around.
My wife often changes into her pajamas early in the evening. One of my lines when I was starting to spend more time nude at home was when she was changing into her pajamas, I would say that since she was in her sleepwear I might as well be in my and take off everything but my wedding ring. It has also gotten to the point in our house that in warm weather, if I stay dressed for more than a few minutes when I get home, my wife will ask if I am planning to go out again soon.
My wife knows but I honestly dont think she knows the extent of my nudism. She knows I enjoy being nude but for instance she doesnt knowing run nude every morning. I am hell bent on running naked every morning now. It seems wrong to even where clothes when Im out jogging.
Adam
My wife is fine with me being nude in the house and inside the privacy fence when it is just the 2 of us, and also OK with me swimming and sunning nude when our adult son who lives with us is in the house. While she is aware that I "sometimes" go to a nude beach, I don't think she knows it is actually "usually"
Actually since I posted this 5 years ago, I have been to a clothing required beach in NJ once, and that was 4 years ago when I went with my sister. I do go to clothed beaches when traveling, but usually wear a tan through swim brief to keep the clothing to a minimum.