So, does anyone here do the cfnm with their wives such as in couples together with the guys nude?
How does it work for you?
Ever plan get togethers knowing this is how it was going to be?
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- NE
Sep 23, 2014I spend a lot of time nude while my wife is dressed. It works fine for us since I enjoy the nude time and my wife does not want to join. She does not mind me being nude. We have not had anyone else over while I have been nude but I have threatened to remain nude when she went out with her friends and said she may bring someone home. Who knows, maybe one day it will happen.ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterNov 24, 2014[quote]What is CFNM?[/quote]
CFNM = Clothed female, nude male.
I have often seen couples at public nude beaches. The female of the couple would remain clothed while the man would be nude. A lot of wives are OK with the mates being nude but are hesitant to get that way themselves. It is true that some will eventually come around to enjoying nudity.
Do be aware the CFNM is also a variant of the BDSM fetishes. However, for naturists, that is something that should not be going on in a naturist setting.ReactReply - JO
Nov 24, 2014[quote]What is CFNM? My wife doen't even want me to me nude at home. She thinks the idea of being nude just for the sake of being nude is a bit strange. She's my wife and I love her and I won't cause any major problems over my nudity. I do go nude at home and sometimes she sits in the room with me watching tv, but usually does not. That is mostly because we have different taste in tv shows. I would like her to accept this and be happy that I might make friends who are nudists. It probably won't happen, but I'll continue as I am. Tony[/quote]DittoReactReply - LO
Dec 29, 2014Most of the time I am nude and my wife is not. She doesn't mind. We don't know of any other couples like us.
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Dec 31, 2014I am nude at home when I can be, while the wife stays clothed. But I think it would be fun to give it a try with multiple females all at one time. Like maybe an all female party, and being the only male nude serving them drinks and such. Even better if the hostess made the announcement to feel free to freely feel the server if they want to. LOL. It might be best in this situation if the wife were not present, though.Has anyone ever had an experience similar to this?ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterDec 31, 2014[quote]I am nude at home when I can be, while the wife stays clothed. But I think it would be fun to give it a try with multiple females all at one time. Like maybe an all female party, and being the only male nude serving them drinks and such. Even better if the hostess made the announcement to feel free to freely feel the server if they want to. LOL. It might be best in this situation if the wife were not present, though.Has anyone ever had an experience similar to this?
[/quote]I think this is what I was talking about when I noted that CFNM can be a variant of BDSM fetishes!ReactReply - LAJan 1, 2015[quote][quote]I am nude at home when I can be, while the wife stays clothed. But I think it would be fun to give it a try with multiple females all at one time. Like maybe an all female party, and being the only male nude serving them drinks and such. Even better if the hostess made the announcement to feel free to freely feel the server if they want to. LOL. It might be best in this situation if the wife were not present, though.Has anyone ever had an experience similar to this?
[/quote]I think this is what I was talking about when I noted that CFNM can be a variant of BDSM fetishes![/quote]What I was describing, I do not see any BDSM thing going on. No body tied up, and no abuse of anyone. That would be an entirely different subject altogether.ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterJan 1, 2015[quote]What I was describing, I do not see any BDSM thing going on. No body tied up, and no abuse of anyone. That would be an entirely different subject altogether.[/quote]
You don't have to be tied up or beat. Submission is just another form of sexualtiy. It is a common thread in some groups to have a nude male serving a bunch of clothed females. Not saying it is wrong, just not naturism.ReactReply - LAJan 10, 2015[quote][quote]. It is a common thread in some groups to have a nude male serving a bunch of clothed females. Not saying it is wrong, just not naturism.[/quote]Maybe so, but still might be fun, none the less.ReactReply
- LAJan 15, 2015[quote]My wife does not understand why I enjoy being nude and gives me grief about it, so I go nude while she is at work. I am retired now and can enjoy my nude time during the weekdays.
[/quote]Just stay nude Jim, even when she get's home. Tell her she should get used to it, as it's nothing she hasn't seen before. If you have a bunch of things already done for her that she usually does, when she get's home, maybe she will be a little more accepting of it. Like have all the laundry done and supper ready, so she doesn't have to cook. Unless she is a lot better cook than you are.Try to give her some grief back every time you have to put some clothes on, to even out the grief she tries to give you for wanting to be with out them. Maybe that will help level the playing field.ReactReply - EE
Dec 4, 2016Sorry for resurrecting an old thread, but, I also fit into this category.
Wife will not go nude at home, but does allow me to be nude. Suits me fine as I get my nude time :) very much doubt we'd ever meet up with a similar couple, as a couple, but great to hear there are others like us
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Dec 5, 2016There are many in "your boat." I think in fact many here on the site are married-singles or "mingles," meaning only one of the married couples are happy to be nude whenever they possibly can. Some of us will never be nude with someone else but most will be able to share it some times. And, some of us have friends who are also mingles and on occasion are able to share our love of nudity as two or more couples where only one of the partners will join which is a shame but if you don't act like an exhibitionist who forces your nudity on a person who does not like it then it can be fun. Maybe in the future this could lead to all enjoying nudity. Hope this happens for you.
ReactReply - JO
Apr 24, 2017Last summer on kind of a dare I went skinny dipping in my wifes nieces pool . I was the only one but she came out a few times to see if i wanted anything , I was out on the deck one time she came out and we talked the hole time I was nude
ReactReply - MEMemberAug 11, 2017
Same, same and not different here. Nude in my back yard often last summer, my wife puts up with it, shows annoyance some times. She got naked once on a hot night with a few wines on board. Got nude at the beach when we were first married a couple of times but not since then. She just says why bother or thinks she does not look good but she really does for 50+.
I think the media have a lot to answer for in terms of what they push as beauty as well as the crazy focus on plastic surgery .
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Aug 24, 2018That's been the case with both my ex and current wife.
With my ex, the first couple of years living together were NHCW (Naked husband clothed wife). At first, she wasn't too happy about me always being naked at home. But I persisted, and in time she just stopped complaining. So it was common for us to spend evenings together, her fully dressed and me naked.
In time I managed to convince her to visit a nudist resort with me. The first few trips, it was again me naked and her covered (sarong, T-shirt or dress). Sure, I would have preferred her to be naked; but the way I looked at it: it was better than nothing. We even attended a nudist get-together/party NHCW. Thankfully, other nudists were pretty respectful of her desire to stay covered.
In time though, she started feeling self-conscious about always being covered up while I - and most other people - were naked. She would make "little attempts" at being less covered: like choosing to put on a T-shirt and nothing else; or loosely wearing her sarong with just one knot tied. Until one day when some nudist women convinced her to just "lose the sarong."It was almost the same with my current wife. Except it was more NHTW (naked husband topless wife). She has no problem being topless; but not completely naked. That might be changing soon though as she has agreed to go to a nudist resort.
My attitude about NHCW or CFNM is that: it's better than nothing. If your spouse accepts your nudity, then you can still enjoy a clothesfree lifestyle. And in time, there's always hope that she will eventually join you.
ReactReply - LAAug 25, 2018
Sounds like your current wife is about halfway there nudony. Don't push it, just let it happen.
ReactReply - MI
Aug 25, 2018Normal situation when my wife and I are home and no one else is. I am usually nude in warm weather and she rarely is. She will sometimes wear a long t shirt that goes to mid thigh or so and nothing else.
ReactReply - NA
Jan 3, 2020My wife knows i am nude whenever she is out as well as when she is at home when I can. She calls me when she is on her way home with the kids or if someone is coming over. A couple of her friends have accidentally seen me when i wasn't aware they were coming over or got there too soon.
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