RE: not sexual hard on... in public?

Just cover up! I havent been around other nudist yet but I have been to a privet beach, I have gone and talked to a local resort for this year so I can meet others nudist.
The one thing they told me at the resort was to roll over and cover up or if I'm walking put a towl around till every thing gose down.
I did see a post about that they are tired of seeing this typ of post come up. I just have to say that in this time and day when we are haveing a hard time getting the younger folks in to nudisum,it dosen't mader how many times it's asked that we need to answer . If we don't teach or help the younger generation then nudisum is going to became a thing of the past.
I'm 40 and I do have a hard time finding real nudist in my area. Those that I have talked to are all about swinging. I have talked to few that are real. We need more real folks on here.
sitotisfind some nudist friend in you area and talke with them and find time to hang out. Thats what I'm doing this year.

sitotis

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I will make this one last comment:

If you find yourself in a (non-nudist) situation where having an erection IS acceptable and it justwon't happen, or it can't be sustained, TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. It could be a first visiblesymptom of cardiovascular disease or diabetes. If so, you'll want to take appropriate measures to minimise damage.

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Me too

It also happens very often to me that i get hard as a kind of reflex (not sexual). Mostly when i get naked on the beach or in the sauna. It is as if my body knows its naked and has to perform, lol. I turn on my belly and wait till its over. After a few minutes it always settles and it doesnt happen anymore. Can be naked all after noon in the sauna or walk along the shoreline at the beach it all stays easy down below. Accept your body as it is and dont worry anymore.

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It could be a first visible symptom of cardiovascular disease or diabetes. If so, you'll want to take appropriate measures to minimise damage.
And is sometimes the ONLY warning of something terrible impending.
Not to be taken lightly.

All of the experienced comments land on a common thought.
It's not acceptable. It's a violation of nudist etiquite.
Cover, or in some way conceal until it's gone.

The WORST possible thing, is to be thought that you're so boorish that you just don't care about anyone else, and willfully violate etiquite.
That will get one tossed from almost any circle.

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Well i live in a nudist resort and we r protective about the reputation of the place. I have on rare occasions seen men get erections. Usually it happens with a younger male or as someone mentioned before when a guy falls asleep at the pool. Sometime it just happens and there is no controling it. Generally u can tell if that is the case and as long as the guy with the erection doesn't flaunt it or encourage it in any way its cool. I have talked with many people about nudism before and that question ALWAYS comes up because guys do get nervous about those spontanious boners that just happen when your young especially. This is one big reason I find that young men tend to avoid nudism. They fear someone will wig out if they get one. I simply tell them to have a sit if possible or wrap a towel around them or just ignore the darn thing. My wife and i never got up tight about such a thing unless we saw him doing something to encourage it. If that happens I will tell them to take it to their private quarters less they be escourted to the gate and rightfully so. We r not a swingers club and do not want that reputation. Personally I and my wife pretty muchlooked at it with indifference. After all it is simply a part of our body that was ment to do just waht it does and we need to realize it does have a head of its own and sometimes wants to just think for itself. LOL

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Walking around with a Boner is unacceptable. Getting a Boner while laying on your back, dozing, is OK in my books. Just let it subside.

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I know when I was younger I would get those types of hard ons. Never thought about being sexual. Because they would happen while involved in different activities non sexual. I believe it happens to all of us at some time or another.

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well... if it happens it happens..... dont make such a big deal out of it!
it still happens to me now and then (the wind, a cold breeze, ...) but goes away after a few minutes.
just sit down and relax. cover up if you feel uncomfortable - depending on the people around you.

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So what if it happens. Its normal, and natural. The issue is not so much, how to deal with the situation, but why do people make a situation out of it. They happen, its not controllable, and ALL men at some point experience it. So why make an issue about it. Ignore it, and move on. I'd love it if I didn't have to worry about it my self. But un fortunately, people wanna make a big deal about it, so we have to worry about how were going to handle it if it happens. So, now, because someone wants to have an issue, we have to have worry about or deal with an uncomfortable situation, that in reality, shouldn't be uncomfortable or even a situation. Come on people ... forget about it. it happens. life goes on. (This statement is in assumption that it is not a sexual erection, other wise ... your around nude places for the wrong reason)
I agree. I see nothing wrong with an erection in and of itself because it is natural. TRhe problem is everyone associates an erection with something sexual and that is not always the case. The body can be stimulated by many things such as the sun on your skin or breeze on the body. To me if I see someone with an erection, I ignore it. I dont feel threatened by it, nor do I view it as something lewd or odd. If anyone one should understand this, it should be nudists.
I agree. I have seen others and experienced myselfhaving a non sexual hard on in public.. "Uncomfortable or funny" depends on the settingwhen ithappends. In most situations you will have no problem hiding it before anyonenotice you are gettinghard.(I guess thats why anyone hardly ever have seen an erect penis on the beach????)
In the water orin a jacuzzi its difficult for anyone to see if you are hard. The penis floats and is pointing up anyway.. ( funny... hihi.......or not )
For me the most difficult place to deal with the erection was in a sauna.. or to be exact getting out of the sauna without anyone notice my erection. This uncomfortablesituationended funny because of a lady in the early 60's fast comment " long time since last time i saw".. Her husband got the attention in the saua and everybody had a good laughter. (I got back i the sauna after a shower instead of digging me down under the floor thanks to the "kindly" lady) none erect of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well that was justforexplaining that it all come down to how you deal with it ifthe erection occurs.. Try to hide it and hopefullyevery others ignore it.........

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My wife and I have been going to Jamaica at the same time with a
large group of nudists every January for years. Just a huge group of awesome
easy going people! This year someone brought a bottle of Cialis along. Everyone
was enjoying the Jamaican Run and at some point a few of the guys thought
taking a Cialis pill would be a good idea. The guys that did it were still getting
hard for no reason at all days later. They'd just all of a sudden take their hat off and
drop it on their lap. Everyone knew what was going on and it became the running
joke. Hey isn't it so and so's turn to go on a drink run?

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