How about just one chat room for paid members only?A few thoughts:It would reduce the attractiveness of the site. The attractive aspects of the site include that there are large numbers about. If you do not like the chat room leave. It is the internet, all you have to do is accept it is a public space and there is very little in the way of entry controls. The same issue happens on some beaches, people doing all sorts of stuff in the dunes is quite common. The swinger site is there and used a lot. Since it exists just refer people to that if they are outrageous..Also it would not solve the problem. I do find it interesting though that I have seen people get uptight about "TRUE nudist" what ever that means and then seen the same people with the same user name on TS having a tug on camera. I wonder if they are so inclined to behave on beaches? In short there is a deal of hypocrisy about.Another thing I have noticed is a number who seem to get on forums and indulge in self-righteous priggery, including trying to shout down discussion on the sex and sexuality board.If you open up a chat and it goes sexual you have a choice to either say no or not.If there is a possibility of a meet i want to know what the expectations and agenda is. To that extent id some one says they are bi or whatever useful. It is not realistic to insist that sexuality is unimportant and has no place in nudism. It has a place in normal social life. if you are gay you do not want to socialise, in all likelihood with homophobes. If you are disturbed by gay or bi people again you need to avoid them socially.Information and as much openness as can be managed is good. I want more not less. In the past I have met someone who assumed that sex would be available and been placed in the unexpected and uncomfortable position of being groped as soon as I got naked. This on a coffee and chat meet with a man slightly older than me who insisted he was straight in chats beforehand. If he had raised the issue that he was into a bit of male action we could have dealt with the issue ahead of time and laid out expectations. Final thought, there are cultural differences about. A dominant few seem to assume the American culture is universal. This is apparent even if they challenge the rules. I have seen cultural differences in the UK as well. Have you noticed that the Scottish Naked Bike rides were not allowed to be totally naked? The attitude there is that it would be shocking. In England it is seen as a bit of a laugh.so please people, more information and some tolerance please.
WoW!!! a second one....geeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. The blues (Guys) outnumber the women/cpls in the room already and if ya go to TS or NCH its the same there. I have no issues with it but as soon as ya say Hi the pm's and the pestering is terrible. Yes as you say loads of bi and gay but have no issues with that unless you have cam on and then it starts. Thinking out loud one chat room is enough
Fleet, as previously stated, this thread was started with my tongue firmly in my cheek, which means it's not to be taken too seriously.
If there is a point to it, then it's this.
The fact that you are bisexual is irrelevant at a non sexual website (which this is)
I seen someone in the chatroom recently and their member name was made up of three parts... Sexual preference/religion/gender..... Why wold those be the first three things I need to know about someone?
If I'm meeting someone for the first time, I'd like to know their name first.
I think we need to take away at least 21100 posts from Mr Dicklow as I'me sure they are all repetitive with the word FLAGGED and in bold too.
I mean come on, over 20k posts in 4 years and all mainly FLAGGED, I've been a member on this website 6 months longer than you and have less than 200 posts and not one of those is FLAGGED, but all my opinion on wide ranging subjects, but I do have quite a few about the censorship that some what on this website.
The nudist movement in the UK is dying, it is dying because the nudist who what to censor everyone is killing it, they openly encourage young women or single mothers and fathers and their kids to join their sunclubs, but abhor single guys and gay men equally, they are sexist, homophobic and bigoted. From what I've seen of nudism in Europe it is open to all, no one is shunned, no is stopped from enjoying a nudist lifestyle, I don't know, maybe it's an age thing, I'm of an age where I believe people can do as they like as long as it doesn't impact on others enjoyment, not all nudist are closed minded as the prudes are on this website and we won't turn our backs on people because they like to do something we don't. If I meet a swinging couple, doesn't mean I'm not going to talk to them because I don't like what they do, as I've said that their domain to worry about, not mine, doesn't mean I won't chat with them.
I've chatted with quite a few gay guys on here, some are a bit over the top saying that want to do this or that, I just laugh and say something like at least someone wants to do that to me, I mean, get the fuck over yourselves, no one is forcing you to look at, chat to or read anything you don't want to do. Going out of your way to cause trouble is worse in my eyes than the people you are accusing.
We should be FLAGging the likes of you for being rude to people.
What's the big deal, if a gay guy wants to wank over my cam that's up to them, does it bother me, not at all, it's not like I have to watch them doing it.
It may not be a 'big deal' But it certainly is not nudist and this is after all a nudist website?
I don't think there is really any way to get away from the people that want to bring sex into the conversation. You can make a dozen chat rooms and they will always be around. I've tried the chat room on this site many times and there are no real conversations about anything in there. I would love to see a current events topic brought up like politics and our country USA and what is going on with the economy but I guess this nudist site isn't the place for talking about things that matter. Just a thought.
Nudist Tom, Just wondering why you have been here on this site so long? You make it apparent that you do not like having to follow any rules. I notice you say that all the clubs in the UK are doing it wrong as well. You do mention how wonderful it is in Europe so I'm wondering, doesn't Europe have the internet? Don't they have web sites? Do the not have nudists web sites? OH, they do, how about that.
So now the question is this: if this site is so bad, and the people here so bad, why are you not on a nudist web site based out of Europe?
The answer is very simple, we are the largest and the best one around. Some smaller sites are down well, but they don't have the activity of this site. One of the reasons we are the largest is that we have the largest, nicest, chat room. The reason for that is quite simple, we have rules and mods to enforce them.
No one is forcing you to come here, or to stay, you do because you know we are the best, so my advice, follow the rules.
GILAN As to the room topics, many have said that there is never a good topic in the chat room , so they just sit on the side and pm with others, well there is nothing stopping those people from bringing up a topic. Many topics have been covered in the chat room, some many times due to the fact that at any given time we have over 200 people in the room, and thousands more chat room users, so what may be a new topic for you may have been talked about several times before. At another time there may be more people who haven't talked about a topic, it's a matter of timing.
With that said, some subjects are not very good chat room topics. A few topics bring too many emotions out of people, things get said, mean things, personal things, and people end up getting removed. Politics and Religion are two such topics.
A few have said that heated arguments should be allowed, and yes, they do turn in to arguments not discussions, since everyone is adult. That is incorrect. First off while age may determine the legal meaning of Adult, not everyone has the maturity of an adult when arguing. Second, every one has a Topic they would like to discuss, since everyone is an adult, so where would you draw a line?
Also, as you mentioned, there are many other places on the web to discuss those topics, heck, you can find a place to discuss any topic on the web. Then again, next time your on one of those sites, tell them you want to discuss what you did last time you were at a nudist resort, or nude beach, or that you like to spend your time at home nude. Some how I don't think that would go over too well , but you never know.
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