I am so sorry for you. I do understand what it is like to have a wife…

I am so sorry for you. I do understand what it is like to have a wife that wont share with you, in ways that are so important to your happiness. I was married for 19 years and went to resorts on my own. We slept together, but not naked. We had sex, but only with the lights off. Being naked as a couple together normally makes them closer. But, if she has a problem, there is an underlying problem with her background, as a child. If you could get her to open up with you, and explain why she feels the way she