Hello everyone! Im Cole from Montana. Ive been very interested in going to a nudist retreat this summer and I have some questions/concerns. Ive enjoyed nude hikes and skinny dipping for any years. Ive always done these activities solo. I love the thought of being able to connect with likeminded people who share my interests. Im polite and always considerate of others feelings.
I have some anxiety about the thought of going to a nudist gathering because Im still a relatively young man and Im prone to erections happening very easily. I would never want to make anyone uncomfortable or break any rules. My interest in nudism is not sexual.
Does anyone have any advice or helpful word
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- PR
Jan 12, 2023Well said. And I will repeat, the nudist men and women I have met are the nicest and least judgmental people I know. When I started I carried a towel to cover my erection that happened - even in the mens locker room. That was my nightmare in high school but returned when I decided that I was not going to hide my nudity. Soon after getting used to being naked in the locker room the erections calmed down. Same happened when going to the local resort or naked yoga. Your adventure into nudism will become normal to you. Certainly as a young healthy male you will experience the unexpected erection but keeping a towel near can save the embarrassment you may feel. But as the previous post states it has happened to all of us. If you get hard be proud!
Good luck on your journey! Keep us updated!
ReagirResponder - ST
Jan 12, 2023Dress for the party you're going to. At most resorts you're expected to show modesty around erections - roll over, sit down, walk away, pull up a towel, get in the water, some gesture to show you want to take attention away from it. If you get erect it's not a major faux pas, but your behavior needs to match the social style of wherever you are.
If you are active and engaged with the people around you, it's fairly unlikely, anyway. But if you were, say, in the middle of a volleyball game and got erect, you wouldn't really be expected to flee the game - just carry on as if it weren't there and it will be gone soon enough. But strolling or lounging around, camouflage it one way or another or you are likely to be asked to leave.
ReagirResponder - MTMThikerguyAutor originalJan 12, 2023
Thank you so much for the reply! That definitely helps!
ReagirResponder - TR
Jan 13, 2023It is so unfortunate that one of the biggest factors in scaring guys away from getting into the nudist scene is fear of an erection. In my 18 years of being in nudist gatherings, I've seen many, and never has anyone been made to feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. However, I am from Australia, and realise things are less conservative than in the U.S. No one covers up erections where I go, and why should they? That's shaming body parts as far as I'm concerned.
It's only problematic if someone is being sexually suggestive with it in the wrong environment.ReagirResponder - MEMembroJan 7, 2024[quote]I'm also new to this and have the same concern. But I'm old, so it's not as likely. I think my problem will be shrinkage from being nervous. My girlfriend and I will be going to a nudist resort for the first time in the spring. We are both nervous, and excited at the same time. We are both widowed, and decided that life is too short not to try and experience new things, and push ourselves out of our comfort zone.[/quote] Nudists honestly do not care about "shrinkage." Just watch the pool and you will find that out fast enough. Besides, shrinkage is only temporary. Warm yourself up a bit and you'll be fine :PReagirResponder
- VI
Mar 15, 2024I had similiar anxiety the first time. Then I went to a club and everything was fine, and I kept going.
ReagirResponder - SH
Mar 21, 2024When I first joined a nudist resort, I had no anxiety about being nude. I started as a young child being nude in remote areas, and I am often nude in the locker room at the gym.
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