Hi,
Thought it would be interesting to discuss some experiences around large penises in nude scenarios. It could be reactions to your own, or how you felt when meeting someone with a large one.
From my own personal experience I have people assuming that I am only there as an exhibitionist because of the size and therefore it is more difficult to start a friendly conversation in the group. Of course this doesnt happen everywhere which is great!
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- WI
Jan 18, 2023It seems inevitable that a person with a larger penis will likely gather more looks than a man of smaller stature. Big things make the eyes travel toward them. Kind of like when you go to Chicago and see all the taller buildings, but that huge Sears Tower (I think they've named it something else since then) sticks up higher than the rest and the neck strains upward to take it all in. Depending on the circumstances such as the view angle and close proximity, I would assume a woman with labia which protrude further out from her body will also be dealing with more glances than the less noticeable (and attention-getting) slit.
I've been living at a nude resort full time with my sweetie for a year and a half and gotten used to the lingering eyes or quickly-stolen second look I often receive from someone I haven't met before. I feel as though those long looks are more of a compliment than anything. It doesn't hurting my feelings in any way, even when it's another male who feels comfortable taking a second to take me all in. There are limits to anything, and just like a woman may appreciate a guy glancing at her breasts a little longer, it can eventually become uncomfortable. Unless there is any possibility of deeper connection, a viewer needs to keep the three second rule in mind. I personally feel that three seconds of, "Look at that beautiful xxxx!" is really too long, and never have nudists I've interacted with come even close to that amount of time on my penis unless they are on the prowl.
Additionally, I have never once felt like I was going to get in trouble at a nude place for being a little longer than average, and with that extra length be misconstrued as sexually-charged, or accused of having an erection due to my schlong's swagger. In my very limited experience, an erection goes outward or upward, not hanging downward. In TN, I do hear of people running into issues of this type, but as anyone who's been in here long enough and read other people's experiences, there are a lot of folks who cannot stop thinking from below their waist. Is every dick that's above the average length only looking that long because it is in the middle of becoming an erection? Reality check that noise.
ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedJan 18, 2023I think it is fairly natural that women, and men, will notice and look at a larger penis at the beach or a club / resort. As men we notice larger breasts, women are going to notice and look at a larger penis. Some may glance (more than once) some may stare, I think that is human nature. I'll relate a few stories from my experience over many years.
Firstly, I'm above average but not overly large, but I was with a mate at a beach in Perth, it was his first time at a CO beach and he was well endowed. We went for a walk and he may have even been a little excited and some younger women we walked past were staring, it was quite obvious, I'm not tiny but I looked very average by comparison and they would have been checking us both out, there was lots of smiling and joking.
Second example, I was with my then girlfriend, later to be my wife, and we were at a nude beach as we travelled along the coast on holiday. There was an older man fishing nude as we walked along the beach, he had his back to us, I was nude, my gf was topless as was her way. I stopped to say hello and asked if the fishing was good and he turned around to expose a very large penis. My gf had kept walking but she wandered back after a few minutes, she was not really paying attention as I was between her and the fisherman. I stepped back and introduced her to Henry and she could not help but look. She was a nurse and had seen lots of naked men but this one was a whopper, she looked away and the older man said don't worry, I'm just enjoying my fishing in the sun, I get that reaction all the time. I made a joke about him having a large surf rod for the conditions, we laughed and that eased a bit of an awkward moment. We met him again a couple of days later, talked again for a while, he was a nice older man, but it still made us both look. We talked and laughed about that as we drove along later.
Third example, the CO beach I visit often has a guy I know who stands in the water naked with his back to the beach, he is at the very start of the CO section of the beach. He watches the waves, has a dip etc. but will stands there for ages. But when a woman walks along the beach or a couple, he will turn around, on purpose, to show off his bigger penis. I'm sure he is trying to get attention or shock or get admiring looks or whatever. I asked him why one ay as we were talking, he feigned ignorance and said he was just getting sun on both sides of his body, but it's a bit obvious in my opinion. Anyway, he is not breaking any laws and maybe he is educating others in a sense.
So I think it is natural for people to look at a larger penis, it's almost impossible not to, it's a natural human reaction I believe.ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedUrsprünglicher VerfasserJan 18, 2023
Thanks for sharing great stories. You are absolutely right that its natural :)
ReagierenAntworten - NU
Jan 19, 2023I'm not huge but, with a tattooed penis, I get lots of looks and stares!
ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedJan 22, 2023
It is important that men of all body shapes, penis sizes, skin colour etc. are seen at beaches, resorts, change rooms etc. People need to understand we are similar but a bit different but we are all men.
ReagierenAntworten - LI
Jan 22, 2023Thats one of the cool things about nudism is that all body types and sizes should be at ease. Its ok to see or notice a guy for being big but just not make anyone uncomfortable about it. No different than if someones really tall or unique hair color, tattoos, etc
ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedJan 29, 2023
i just always assume we put on this earth get stared at when we nekkid haha it all good
ReagierenAntworten - JU
Jan 30, 2023[quote]I had an experience years ago in a YMCA communal shower room that I have never forgotten. I was showering as usual, a couple dozen other guys showering, everyone nude. A kid standing with his dad across from me i saw was staring between my legs and then very not-quietly said 'dad why is that guy's penis so big'. half of the shower room turned to look, and the dad just stared and said 'i don't know'. sort of an embarrassing experience to my younger self, but i am not embarrassed about it anymore. makes me laugh now lol[/quote]
I've had almost the exact same happen to me, although my experience happened inside a sauna at a indoor swimming centre.
Everyone inside the sauna cracked up about the question. Not sure who felt the most embarressed, me or the father of the child asking the question.ReagierenAntworten - CA
Feb 18, 2023I guess it is normal to look/ admire at a larger penis. Mine is not overly thick but quite long when flaccid. I enjoy the attention it can bring. I was close friends with a couple. His cock was thick but maybe shorter. I remember being envious.
My late wife loved me to show off and seemed more than happy with its size. She would date me to be nude. Even her mother saw me naked. She loved it.ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedFeb 18, 2023
dude see me naked we chilling like in lockers or other place normal i strip down n always they make some comment - always nice like compliment - all good
ReagierenAntworten - CH
May 29, 2023Well, obviously if you have a large penis...you deserve and receive plenty of compliments on your penis size. It is quite impressive to see an extra large penis and if we were naked together, I'm sure I'd be sneaking a 2nd or 3rd peak at you flaccid length. My 2nd and 3rd glance is usually to imagine how large it might be when fully erect and trying to see how much foreskin is left for it to grow. Honestly, we're all curious about other penises and to see how we each measure up!!!
ReagierenAntworten - CHMay 29, 2023
Raymond, you just brought back some forgotten Fraternity memories too. Men just naturally want to know how we measure up and I'm 100% sure you had several brothers doing a double and triple take on your impressive package too. The YMCA steam room and sauna is where I really began to realize that straight men also like to check out other penises and sometimes stare. I'm cut and where I live now, most penises are uncut, so I get plenty of stares because it isn't the norm down here.
ReagierenAntworten - NUMay 29, 2023My fraternity house also had a gang shower so everyone saw everyone. Saturday evenings before parties, several of us would gather and drink beer, taking turns to use the 8 shower nozzles. And yes, many of us had nicknames which were used in public. Mine was "Red" because of my pubes.
ReagierenAntworten - JO
Mar 19, 2024[quote]I have noticed that people definitely check me out in nude group settings, but it is because I am very small, much smaller than average. I used to be self conscious about that, but I guess now it gives me a little tingle. I think it is great to see a guy who is much bigger than me, and I especially love it when my wife is with me on a nude beach or something. One of my favorite things to do is to point out the guys with big cocks to my wife and wave at them to see if they will come over to say hi. After they walk over and talk for a bit I will excuse myself to go jump in the water, When I come back I will make a point to stand right next to him so my wife an clearly see the striking differences between us- how much longer and thicker he is than me. Sometimes I get a little fired up, but he will still be twice my size or more! Just one of the fun experiences we get to have as nudists![/quote] Do you ever use the famous response when laughed at? "It filled two prams."ReagierenAntworten - WIMar 19, 2024
Never heard of a 'pram'. Is that a British unit of measure?
ReagierenAntworten - SU
Mar 19, 2024Actually "pram" is a perambulator or baby carriage or stroller!!
ReagierenAntworten - JOApr 3, 2024[quote] I know the feeling that has happened to me in the past even when my wife is with me, but also the clothed men also check out my wife, textiles must be fascinated by a naked body or just want to have a good luck[/quote] It seems to happen irrespective of whether my wife is with me - most;y when we are sunbathing naked together where the beach is quite narrow between the rocks. My wife tends to get checked out so often that I've almost stopped noticing it - even though we are now both in our 80's.ReagierenAntworten
- JOMay 19, 2024[quote]Hi, Thought it would be interesting to discuss some experiences around large penises in nude scenarios. It could be reactions to your own, or how you felt when meeting someone with a large one. From my own personal experience I have people assuming that I am only there as an exhibitionist because of the size and therefore it is more difficult to start a friendly conversation in the group. Of course this doesnt happen everywhere which is great![/quote] Reverting to the question in the original post - I have never had any reaction to my penis size in a proper nudist situation.ReagierenAntworten
