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livelovelaughnudeOriginal Poster
Feb 8, 2009Before I ask for another person to be on my Friend's List , I usually send them a message to show that we have something in common: BUT NOT ALWAYS. I think that I ask someone to be friends just to see if they are interested. Maybe a real friendship will happen or maybe it won't. I am not offended if someone turns me down or ignores ( wasn't meant to be, right ?)
So , my question to everyone here is : How do you handle making friends ? Do you ask first or message them first ?
THANKS, KEN
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- ST
Feb 14, 2009I ask first then i add them . if they dont want to accept it then all they have to do is deny it .
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Aug 19, 2011[quote]Before I ask for another person to be on my Friend's List , I usually send them a message to show that we have something in common: BUT NOT ALWAYS. I think that I ask someone to be friends just to see if they are interested. Maybe a real friendship will happen or maybe it won't. I am not offended if someone turns me down or ignores ( wasn't meant to be, right ?) [/quote] [quote]It all depends: Im not into Friend collecting as happens on some network sites so genera;y believe thats its more polite to first message the other party [& other do the sa,e] BUT if lm clear that we shave a lot in common OR time is short, l will also sometimes just buzz to request they add me as a m8=unless there profile staes otherwise ofcourse! Being a single' single' it aint easy making m8s but on the other hand dont want to add to the negative/desperate/pervy steriotype..
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