Why are nudists so uptight about erections? As a woman, I don't mind... Its a male function that happens from time to time... Why are nudists so up tight about it?
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- SR
Jul 7, 2010A male erection is something that is quite natural, and I don't know if a vast majority of nudists see anything wrong with it, as long as it is not flaunted.
ReagierenAntworten - NY
Aug 18, 2010I think most nudists that have a problem with a male erection have taken nudism to a place where it shouldnt be. What I mean is that..if there is something called a "TRUE NUDIST" then that must embrace ALL aspects of being nude, and worshiping the body. This also includes getting aroused and having an erection. IT IS A NATURAL THING! Yes it is SEXUAL but are we not sexual beings??? It is natural to get turned on by seeing a naked body...as adults we can surpress the action, but not so often can we surpress the natural response of seeing an attractive nude body. Ive seen women get hard nipples, as they talked to attractive men in 90 degree weather, so is this offensive also???? I think we as nudist need to stop the high and mighty act and learn to accept what is natural. I feel that any woman who gets offended when and if they see an erect penis should really check herself..maybe it isnt even YOU that that erection is for or about! As long as it is handled in an appropriate way an eretion is natural LEAVE IT ALONE! GUYS ..IF YOU SUDDENLY GET AN ERECTION AND THERE ARE WOMEN AROUND TRY APOLOGIZING TO THEM... I bet they will be flattered instead of discusted.
ReagierenAntworten - GA
Jan 12, 2011You need to remember the term "there's a time and a place". It applies to all of life, not just textile or nudist. And frankly, even though I have only been attending nudist venues for a couple of years (but approximately twice a month in those two years), the ONLY erection I have witnessed in a nudist setting, outside of in private with my wife, was a single guy who was approaching other men about masturbating with him. That perv is no longer welcome. Everyone else I've been around at the three different resorts I gone to has been able to keep themselves under control.
ReagierenAntworten - OL
Jan 22, 2011It looks like your in the minority Gator. When I see the comments like "sexy" on many of the pictures here, I wonder just how we are supposed to respond to sight of a naked body. Why cant we appreciate beauty when seen in real life? Arn't the prudes being a bit two-faced in objacting to a perfectly natural phenominon? Maybe it's a bit unnerving when a guy unintentionally raises a semaphore that shows what he's thinking. As alweys, ladies are more descrete. I was going to say it all depends on how it is handled - the situation I mean. That's already been covered by other comments above.
Now after two dreadfull puns - as they say "when your in a hole, stop digging"
OllyReagierenAntworten - SRFeb 8, 2011
Interesting reading these newer posts....in all of my years at either beaches, clubs, parties, dinners or spas, I can only remember two males with erections, and both were non-sexual. One was a newbie at a club to which I belonged, and the other was at the beach, and it was a gentleman asleep, who obviously was dreaming.
ReagierenAntworten - NA
Feb 14, 2011[quote]Interesting reading these newer posts....in all of my years at either beaches, clubs, parties, dinners or spas, I can only remember two males with erections, and both were non-sexual. One was a newbie at a club to which I belonged, and the other was at the beach, and it was a gentleman asleep, who obviously was dreaming.[/quote] I was just thinking of posting my own person encounter with this issue when I came accross this last one. I was at a very small resort one time, I was the only one in the pool area. I was floating in the pool on a raft getting some sun. Apparently I had dozed off a bit, I was awoken by a couple of girls giggling and suddenly realized that I was erect. The girls were there visiting their grandfather and decided to go for a swim, I didn't even realize they were there. I quickly rolled off the raft I was on and nothing was said by either of the girls or their grandfather. So obviously they understood the situation and didn't get all bent out of shape about it. It does disturb me when people automatically associate an erection with perverted sexual behavour. How they can be a "true nudist" and not accept the body as a natural and sometimes uncontrollable thing is beyond me. I have been to a three different resorts now and only experienced this one time, never seen it as an issue otherwise either. I think as long as it is a natural occurance, no touching is involved and it's not being flaunted why make a big deal out of it and require men to cover or roll over we all have them, deal with it.ReagierenAntworten - OLFeb 17, 2011
I did hear (in another stream) of a guy who woke to find girls throwing hoops at it. I agree it is prfectly natural as long as we don't flaunt it
ReagierenAntworten - PA
Apr 11, 2011When I was young(er) I would get an erection thinking about "what's for dinner?", completely unrelated and uncontrollable. In later years, after having seen so many naked bodies, I guess I'm just desensitized to the "sexual nature" of being nude. Maybe I need counseling, but I tend to ignore someone else's natural function, unless there is leering involved.
ReagierenAntworten - PAApr 13, 2011
It boils down what is "flaunting" and what is not? The older a man gets, the less spontaneous erections occur. I would not give a thought to a 18-30 year old with one, but 45-+. I don't know. Depends on the circumstances, I would think. But that's just me.
ReagierenAntworten - JO
Jul 11, 2011i think like others as long as we doint flaunt it it should be treated as a normal , this is talked about alot and most of the time whren woman are asked about it it does not seem tobe a problem and the take not in a negative way when it happens
ReagierenAntworten - TA
Jul 13, 2011I'm glad you you don't mind, Tammy! It should be the sincerest form of flattery for a lady. As humans, we are supposed to be civilized, but sometimes our animalistic traits take over. We men are simple creatures and can't help but think with our little heads sometimes, ever for just a split second, and usually all it takes to get an erection.
ReagierenAntworten - MIMitgliedAug 3, 2011
I like 'little head' as a descriptive euphemism for the penis.
ReagierenAntworten - LO
Aug 11, 2011No problem with a guy getting an erection in public. Problem keeping the erection in public. An erection is natural, but is associated with sex. I know we often don't have a choice in the matter and the penis simply refuses to listen to reason. We do have a choice as to whether to display that erection. My POV, put it away. It should not last all that long, so sit down and put a towel/shorts/shirt over it for a minute or two.
You have to ask yourself whether you are simply ignoring it completely, or allowing it to be seen. My bet is that you are not trying to ignore it completely, so don't display it.ReagierenAntworten - GA
Aug 21, 2011[quote]No problem with a guy getting an erection in public. Problem keeping the erection in public. An erection is natural, but is associated with sex. I know we often don't have a choice in the matter and the penis simply refuses to listen to reason. We do have a choice as to whether to display that erection. My POV, put it away. It should not last all that long, so sit down and put a towel/shorts/shirt over it for a minute or two. You have to ask yourself whether you are simply ignoring it completely, or allowing it to be seen. My bet is that you are not trying to ignore it completely, so don't display it.[/quote] Doesn't covering it up defeat being a nudist? Would it not upset other nudist if you cover up? I feel they would think that the person is not a nudist and not willing to try being a nudist. I feel that if an erection happens, people should just ignore it. The erection does go away if the person who has it just ignores it. I feel that it shouldn't be thought of as sexual. It is just a muscle. I have gotten an erection from just stretching a few times; does that make me a pervert? Erections are a natural thing, but if you punish or demean a man for getting one you have made that person feel uncomfortable being nude. I know there are a lot of men that have gotten an erection there first time being nude with others. If we were all punished or made fun of, we won't have become nudist. We shouldn't be making our community smaller, so just ignore erections if they bother you.ReagierenAntworten - LOAug 25, 2011[quote][quote]No problem with a guy getting an erection in public. Problem keeping the erection in public. An erection is natural, but is associated with sex. I know we often don't have a choice in the matter and the penis simply refuses to listen to reason. We do have a choice as to whether to display that erection. My POV, put it away. It should not last all that long, so sit down and put a towel/shorts/shirt over it for a minute or two. You have to ask yourself whether you are simply ignoring it completely, or allowing it to be seen. My bet is that you are not trying to ignore it completely, so don't display it.[/quote] Doesn't covering it up defeat being a nudist? Would it not upset other nudist if you cover up? I feel they would think that the person is not a nudist and not willing to try being a nudist. I feel that if an erection happens, people should just ignore it. The erection does go away if the person who has it just ignores it. I feel that it shouldn't be thought of as sexual. It is just a muscle. I have gotten an erection from just stretching a few times; does that make me a pervert? Erections are a natural thing, but if you punish or demean a man for getting one you have made that person feel uncomfortable being nude. I know there are a lot of men that have gotten an erection there first time being nude with others. If we were all punished or made fun of, we won't have become nudist. We shouldn't be making our community smaller, so just ignore erections if they bother you.[/quote] Who said anything about "punishing" a guy for having an erection? 1. It's not a muscle. If it was, you could just stop flexing it. 2. If a guy gets and erection, feels uncomfortable about having that erection in public and wants to cover it up, it really isn't anyone else's business. He can cover it up. You're looking at this backwards. Any real nudist will not be bothered if a guy chose to cover his erection. Any nudist getting an erection and choosing to cover it up is not defeating being a nudist either. It's rather difficult to have an erection and ignore it while walking around though. 3. It does not matter whether someone else thinks that I am not a nudist and not willing to try being a nudist. It's not about them. It's about me. My journey. If it was about them, I'd be an exhibitionist, not a nudist. 4. If I happened to be at the same nude beach as you and you got an erection, but stayed standing in front of everyone, I'd start wondering what you were doing. Erections happen. They are natural, true. I've not seen any nudists I've been around getting an erection. If you get one, stand up and start walking around, I start wondering about your motives. That simple. If you sit down and ignore it or cover it and relax, I know it is not intentional. Simple. An erection is not automatically sexual. Your behavior while you have that erection will show whether it is in fact sexual or not. Just my view though. I don't speak for everyone. Not by a long shot.ReagierenAntworten
- OLAug 31, 2011
Yes an erection is a natural physical response. Embarasment is a natural human response. So there's no problem in an embarrased men hiding his erection.
The subject does tend to come up more often than the object, showing most nudist men can destinguish between nakednes and sex.
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