New members and topics killing site

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  ManOfWicklow

  Nov 18, 2018

  [quote]Im not sure whats going on but there seem to be some new people that have joined and are posting a lot of new topics and posts that are sexual or just way off topic of what this site as generally been and is supposed to be. Additional personal attacks on some long time respected members are showing up much more . I noticed many people seem to have gone quiet and Im much less interested in participating in the current environment. This site is supposed to be about nudism, places to go, meeting others, friendly discussion about enjoying the nudist lifestyle and things we do like gardening; painting, silly events, or even learning that nudism is essentially the same as textile life just without clothes. This is nowhere near an exhaustive list but in general its about sharing life not sex etc. The site owners have made it very clear the intentions of this site and the fact that there is a trueswinger site meant for swingers and sexual topics. I dont have issues with new topics and ideas but I do with personal attacks and trying to quickly remake the site to fit your own agenda. I hope teamtrue is noticing the flags and change in the site and reacts. If they dont thats their prerogative but in the mean time I will be watching and if this site continues down the path that started in the last few months I will be dropping off.[/quote]Ditto

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  thomasstierney

  Nov 18, 2018

  [quote]Im not sure whats going on but there seem to be some new people that have joined and are posting a lot of new topics and posts that are sexual or just way off topic of what this site as generally been and is supposed to be. Additional personal attacks on some long time respected members are showing up much more . I noticed many people seem to have gone quiet and Im much less interested in participating in the current environment.This site is supposed to be about nudism, places to go, meeting others, friendly discussion about enjoying the nudist lifestyle and things we do like gardening; painting, silly events, or even learning that nudism is essentially the same as textile life just without clothes. This is nowhere near an exhaustive list but in general its about sharing life not sex etc. The site owners have made it very clear the intentions of this site and the fact that there is a trueswinger site meant for swingers and sexual topics.I dont have issues with new topics and ideas but I do with personal attacks and trying to quickly remake the site to fit your own agenda. I hope teamtrue is noticing the flags and change in the site and reacts. If they dont thats their prerogative but in the mean time I will be watching and if this site continues down the path that started in the last few months I will be dropping off.[/quote]
  
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  [em]Care to name the new comer? I just ignore the P.I.T.A. hoping he well go away.[/em][/strong]

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 18, 2018

  The sad part to this is that this is becoming the new fad on all forums anymore. People there for only their own gratification to mimic others, question everything they read and judge it. They have nothing constructive to say regarding the thread. They have no interest in the topic other then to put others down. I think they small and hidden in the world so by doing so they they can feel better.

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  homeclothesfree

  Nov 19, 2018

  There does seem to be an effort by some to take things in a more sexual direction and deride or dimiss the true nudists here. This is always how it goes they want to dimiss the nonsexual aspect of nudism and remake it to fit their agenda. I am floored by some of the overtly sexual comments hius are posting to women's profiles.
  Good on you for calling it out as you see it.

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  FullSunOriginal Poster

  Nov 19, 2018

  [quote]That's terrible news to read first thing in the morning , is there a specific new member that is upsetting your status quo ? Can you be more specific , are they being propagandist or spreading falsehoods and assumptions based in obsessive " lifestyle " choices ? Like driving in the nude in the Texile world ? That is illegal , and in normal society online or in the real world it shows lack of character for letting a "lifestlye" choice help you make a bad choice. I would second your motion as a Certifed -verified Real married paid couple member that this needs to stop ! I don't want " those kind of people " in my online nude community either. Your heroic for bringing this to the webmasters attention and general memberships as well. Thank you . Norm Status quo defined as ; the existing state of affairs, especially regarding social or political issues. "they have a vested interest in maintaining the status quo"[/quote] I have created topics when I cant find one that is already on topic which is rare when you look at how many topics are already on the site. Due to personal changes in our life I have not been posting as much as I used to. I think there is an issue with the site because yes, it is currently showing me as a textile though I have been a super nudist for a long time and despite your claim it is also showing you as a textile. As for you comment about driving nude being illegal thats a generalization and your opinion but just that. Generalizations and saying it shows a lack of character or is a bad choice drives me crazy. Thats your opinion which you are entitled to but dont state it as fact. Its not the case that driving nude is illegal everywhere. I have done it only a few times mostly because weve had serious accidents in the past that were not our fault and I would not want to end up dealing with or being found after an accident in a state of undress. I have spoken with a number of officers some that we know personally and they have said it is not illegal here. In California indecency is defined in the law as nude AND lewd. Doesnt mean you still wouldnt want to be careful in case you run into someone that think you are disturbing the peace or something , doesnt know the law or claims you were doing something inappropriate. I will just be straight, one of the new users that is bugging by creating a whole bunch of new threads and also an attack is you. Are you the only one? Absolutely not.. Have you posted anything sexual? Not as I recall so please dont take this as an attack, just take this (or leave it) as my opinion that Id prefer you tone it down a bit and stop creating so many new threads.

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  thomasstierney

  Nov 19, 2018

  [quote]That's terrible news to read first thing in the morning , is there a specific new member that is upsetting your status quo ?Can you be more specific , are they being propagandist or spreading falsehoods and assumptions based in obsessive " lifestyle " choices ? Like driving in the nude in the Texile world ? That is illegal , and in normal society online or in the real world it shows lack of character for letting a "lifestlye" choice help you make a bad choice.I would second your motion as a Certifed -verified Real married paid couple member that this needs to stop ! I don't want " those kind of people " in my online nude community either. Your heroic for bringing this to the webmasters attention and general memberships as well. Thank you .NormStatus quo defined as ; the existing state of affairs, especially regarding social or political issues."they have a vested interest in maintaining the status quo"I have created topics when I cant find one that is already on topic which is rare when you look at how many topics are already on the site. Due to personal changes in our life I have not been posting as much as I used to. I think there is an issue with the site because yes, it is currently showing me as a textile though I have been a super nudist for a long time and despite your claim it is also showing you as a textile.As for you comment about driving nude being illegal thats a generalization and your opinion but just that. Generalizations and saying it shows a lack of character or is a bad choice drives me crazy. Thats your opinion which you are entitled to but dont state it as fact. Its not the case that driving nude is illegal everywhere. I have done it only a few times mostly because weve had serious accidents in the past that were not our fault and I would not want to end up dealing with or being found after an accident in a state of undress. I have spoken with a number of officers some that we know personally and they have said it is not illegal here. In California indecency is defined in the law as nude AND lewd. Doesnt mean you still wouldnt want to be careful in case you run into someone that think you are disturbing the peace or something , doesnt know the law or claims you were doing something inappropriate.I will just be straight, one of the new users that is bugging by creating a whole bunch of new threads and also an attack is you. Are you the only one? Absolutely not.. Have you posted anything sexual? Not as I recall so please dont take this as an attack, just take this (or leave it) as my opinion that Id prefer you tone it down a bit and stop creating so many new threads.[/quote]
  
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  thomasstierney

  Nov 20, 2018

  [LIKE Post #15]

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  NickyBigC

  Nov 20, 2018

  DITTO - LIKE POST # 15

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  SteveinKona

  Nov 20, 2018

  Since the forum is not real-time, unlike chat, it's simple enough just to bypass a topic that doesn't interest you.

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  StevieLorna

  Nov 20, 2018

  I thin k its time Teamtrue spotted the need for a new forum.

  The Norm and Harley forum ,

  ... their styles are so complementary they could just rant away together and the rest of us could get back to changing....posh into tosh

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  ManOfWicklow

  Nov 20, 2018

  [quote]You just need to delete your account. As HotHarleyCouple said no one cares especially when you post things that make no sense and top it off by responding to yourself.[/quote]I Totally agree. Never in the history of this site, have we seen anyone repeatedly responding to their own Topics because nobody else is interested in their ANTI-everything attitude. It's time they moved on, so we can return to some sort of normality.

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  thomasstierney

  Nov 20, 2018

  [quote]You just need to delete your account. As HotHarleyCouple said no one cares especially when you post things that make no sense and top it off by responding to yourself. I Totally agree. Never in the history of this site, have we seen anyone repeatedly responding to their own Topics because nobody else is interested in their ANTI-everything attitude. It's time they moved on, so we can return to some sort of normality.[/quote]Ditto

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  Laker06

  Nov 20, 2018

  Hang in there Norm.

  If you're pissing off some of the people who posted on this thread, you must be doing something right.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 20, 2018

  I have to agree with Hot Harley. I have been reading Andy's post for over 20 years on several different forums. His story is consistent. He was married to Di back then and still is today. Norm needs to move on.

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  FullSunOriginal Poster

  Nov 21, 2018

  [quote]@mr. Full sun On topic to your thread , I have deleted a bunch of dead thread topics I created as you requested. If there are anymore that you find offensive or not in the spirt of a forum community please let me know and I will consider it. Just bump the thread in subject and let me know what's so bad about it and how it doesn't fit into the status quo or ebb and flow of the site. I totally agree with you about clutter is in the forums , I would never take offense if someone bumped a dead thread I created and asked me to delete it to reduce clutter.I referred to you a a vetted single male , because that is what you are to a complete stranger here unless someone meets in person with you and your wife. I wasn't being rude our slandering you. If a single male is at a resort without his wife , while he is still married , he is a vetted married man that was allowed entrance or a respectable single male that has a history of good citizenship at that resort . Or he is a guest of a couple.You hold all the power in regards to my postings here in this thread . You are the mod of it since you created it. Even a rookie can figure that out.Norm[/quote]
  
  I appreciate you cleaning up and if I read between the lines correctly it sounds as though you are backing off from attacking Andy. My only other comment would be in regard to constantly responding to yourself, which I realize once in while may be more appropriate than just editing your last post if for example you have new information. Otherwise; as I said before I do not recall you posting sexual things etc. new topics and ideas are welcome and just toning down as I suggested is appreciated and will earn a welcome to the community.
  
  I will update here though after having posted this. What is with you responding to yourself constantly? I was just in a few other threads and in one case Quote of the Day you had put in 5he last 4 posts! Sorry; but it comes across as you like to talk to yourself.

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  ManOfWicklow

  Nov 21, 2018

  [quote]I get mad at my wife for using the jelly knife in the peanut butter but I would never threaten to kick her out of the kitchen[/quote]Keep her out of the kitchen when you're cooking. Let her in when it's time for her to wash the pots and pans, whilst you relax with a cool beer.

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  StevieLorna

  Nov 21, 2018

  I dont mind reading someones posted opinion on any subject even if I disagree with it.

  Forums are all about debate.

  But it has to make some sort of sense. Ive been reading a lot of badly written jibberish lately.

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  FullSunOriginal Poster

  Nov 21, 2018

  [quote]I dont mind reading someones posted opinion on any subject even if I disagree with it. Forums are all about debate. But it has to make some sort of sense. Ive been reading a lot of badly written jibberish lately.[/quote] Exactly my point. I agree with everything you said here. The gibberish is gibberish in itself in a single post, replying to one's self, and attacking a longstanding respected member that people may not always agree with but I feel is still respected for well written responses.

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  Mcdcvs

  Nov 22, 2018

  [quote] I get mad at my wife for using the jelly knife in the peanut butter but I would never threaten to kick her out of the kitchen for it. Some things you just work through. Lee[/quote] That is a capitol offense in my house. (Not Really, but I do hate it when I find peanut butter in my jelly jar)

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