I do not believe sir that you have any idea what i have experienced, or what i am talking about. And you for sure have not walked in my shoes to understand what i have experienced, and where i am coming from. i am not looking to interact or hang out with couples. Also i do not feel the need to elaborate on a screen name as i do not know you, and therefore do not feel the need to explain. I do know for a fact im extremely tired of noone listening to what i have to say, and others self proclaimed wisdom and opinions on my experiences, when they have absolutely no clue.
I do not believe sir that you have any idea what i have experienced, or what i am talking about. And you for sure have not walked in my shoes to understand what i have experienced, and where i am coming from. i am not looking to interact or hang out with couples. Also i do not feel the need to elaborate on a screen name as i do not know you, and therefore do not feel the need to explain. I do know for a fact im extremely tired of noone listening to what i have to say, and others self proclaimed wisdom and opinions on my experiences, when they have absolutely no clue.
If I have failed to understand your plight as a solo male by reading your opening post then that is your fault not mine.
If you have failed to find a partner to share your life, then that is no ones problem but your own.
If people dont want to spend time with you. Well you get the picture.
If I was meeting someone for the first time, Id introduce myself by telling them my name, if they were to hand me a measuring tape, Id think they were a fk idiot.
If I have failed to understand your plight as a solo male by reading your opening post then that is your fault not mine.
Quite a few other solo men have commented that they feel unwelcome at nude venues or even banned from some resorts. Some have even commented that they are denied admission to some resorts.
Where I go as a single male I have NEVER had a problem. I have met people from around the world and I love to go. Few times I have gone with a women. I do not drive ,have a service dog. I can just sit pool side or walk around. Everyone is always nice. Only once questioned about my dog. Both are always perfect and in control 100% of the time. I hope to buy into the park some day.
Where I go as a single male I have NEVER had a problem. I have met people from around the world and I love to go. Few times I have gone with a women. I do not drive ,have a service dog. I can just sit pool side or walk around. Everyone is always nice. Only once questioned about my dog. Both are always perfect and in control 100% of the time. I hope to buy into the park some day.
I have been to a handful of landed clubs in the past. Most of the people, including the staff, were always nice and even engaging, but with rare exception, there was a group of the old-timers clique that you could see were not happy. They see the club as their personal enclave and don't want outsiders, especially single males, invading. Some clubs invite this attitude by not enforcing their own rules, not just on newcomers, but the old timers. Most of the time I saw men causing trouble, it wasn't the "single" male, it was the married (and usually unaccompanied) male.
The formal place I frequent the most now (though far too infrequently) has no gender quota (only a daily population quota) and enforces rules of behavior and while the men usually do outnumber the woman, it isn't by a large margin because the rules are enforced and trouble makers get banned.
Just my own observations.
Good for you out west. Probably a different atmosphere out there compared to the Northeastern United states, which is where i live, and my experiences come from. And i do not have a dog to take with me everywhere as an ice breaker with everyone. Because pets/animals are always center of attention to the people that embrace pet ownership out here. SO i can assume that having one in tow everywhere you go more than likely is an instant conversation starter. Amazing how everyone has an opinion polar opposite of my experiences although they all live nowhere near me or frequent where i have gone.
WOW.... your an idiot. Mr world traveler chest pounding better than everyone else... you dont live in Connecticut, or go to local areas here as i have for many years. therefore you cannot know what i experience as again i will say, you have not walked in my shoes or lived life here, see what i see. since you are so high n mighty, and havent spent any time alone, and single, you cannot have an opinion as you have not lived like i have to experience what i have . so keep your opinions to yourself as you have not got a clue. probably never even been on the east coast your entire miserable existence. fucking idiot
To the OP, what is your problem? You escalate and then explode at anyone that points out your issues may be self inflicted. Are you sure it isnt your attitude that is causing others at the area camps to act in whatever way makes you feel uncomfortable? I am on the Membership Committee at Solair and have given tours to multiple single males this last summer. Unless some behavior gets them kicked out and banned, there is no reason single males cant be at Solair and interact with everyone else there and have a good time. I have multiple single male friends who are either members or associates who get along fine with everyone else while at Solair. Yes, it is a little more work when you are a solo male but you can still make friends. About 1/4 of the weekends I go to Solair I am a solo male as well, either for the whole weekend or at least one night before Mrs. J&C joins me or one day after she leaves. I accept that I will probably have a quiet evening or day, and that is as a member who knows pretty much everyone at camp.
Have you contacted any of the non-landed clubs in the area? Naturist New Hampshire has many events that are overwhelmingly attended by single males. We have been to several events with them. The Sunchasers leans more to couples, but there are still single males at their events. Even up in Vermont, you can go to the Ledges and there will be others to interact with on any given day. You dont have to wait for an invitation or an event like WNBR to go do something.
I do not think your experience is really any different from trying to join any established group or club, nudist or textile. Nudists are likely to be a bit more guarded. I would suggest you just sit back and let the folks approach you. People are naturally curious about others and once you have been seen a few times at the club I am sure people will approach you for a chat.
If you are attending and established club, then approach the owners or managers and ask if you could be shown around an introduced to a few people as a new member. That will sort of establish your credentials.
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