This topic of boners is something that really depends on the situation that you are in. In mix company my personal feelings is that it's not something that is accepted by many. Yes it happens but then the individual should take action to 'control' it, as someone said, take a cold shower. At a nudist resort, nearly all would say, not appropriate. At a beach, depends what part of the beach you are in. The mix area, I've seen guys boned up but most just ignored them. At the male end, they seen to happen more but then are they trying to impress someone?
To be nude is not something sexual per say, though many take it to be since most are only nude for two functions in their day to day life, to take a shower or to have sex. Now if you are nude for sexual purpose, then getting a boner is part of what will happen, regardless if you're in mix company or just guys. I've experience many times in saunas that are for men only, guys getting boners where in most cases they intended to show. Now is that appropriate, here is where it gets 'messy' per say. It goes back to one question, "is it appropriate place for it?". In a public sauna at the gym or hotel or resort, not really though some guys will state, it's natural for it to happen. Yes, but it goes back to what are you thinking about when you get that boner? It's not always 'it had a mind of it's own'. I've been at only men nude gathering, and a 'newbie' is there and most of the times they get boners. Most will ignore it or tell the guy, hey it will go away if you get involved in what the group is doing. There has been a few times when guys will assist the boner along, that's when if the group has made it clear, the gathering is not sexual, someone speaks up. One host at one gathering told one guy to either stop, take a shower or leave. The guy got dress and left. I do massages, and they are done nude, yes guys get boners most of the times but there is no happy ending from me. Massages are for relaxing of body, mind and spirit so why tense up to have a release? Again, in this situation, is a boner appropriate? For me massages are not my intensions to get a guy turned on unless it's a sensual massage and then again, sexual activity is not part of it.
Good points and cool shared experiences, guys. The way I look at boners in public (uh huh huh huh) is this: its one thing if someone is creeping really hard on a person or persons, AKA unwanted sexual attention for the purposes of getting off of the act of exposing himself then. That is just not OK in my book. On (or in?) the other hand, guys just hanging out nekkid some place with each other popping bones here and there because the sun felt too damn good, or the breeze stimulated the body hairs just so, or a sexy thought passed through (or walked by)..... who cares? Were all guys, and its a normal body function that should not be shamed when its just that. If someones around giving weird looks about it, maybe cover up or whatever as a courtesy I GUESS (or better yet move closer to cooler people), but if its just us guys, dont be prudes! Let the flagpole fly. It will eventually flop back on down. Give it a stealthy grab or rub or adjustment-yknow we all do it. Be proud of your manhood! Check out your buds manhood! Yknow we all do that too, and sexual orientation doesnt even have to come into play there. Sometimes the lines blur between the right place/time for a boner, and I think thats why theres so much discussion about it. Trouble is, our bodies DGAF when/where we are. Ive had many WTF boners myself. LOL! But srsly, just chilling with other guys especially, WHO CARES? We all know how it goes and all that.
Spontaneous erections are triggered by a number of stimuli, even a breeze especially when new to nudity. If an erection occurs just keep it discreet under a towel, in a pool if there is one, or behind some landscaping particularly in mixed company because I think most women would be more offended or feel threatened by an erection whereas I think most men would understand though you never can be too certain who might be offended (someone correct me if I'm wrong about that). An erection is an indication you are alive and I applaud that. Just don't come charging toward me with it! haha
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