RE:What was the pros and cons of your first time visit to a nude beach or resort with your spouse.

I would say ours was a good one. it was at St Martin, and it led to many more experiences. We now enjoy visiting new places and getting to know awesome folks.

You can't go wrong in St. Martin. Club Orient was our first visit to a nude resort and beach. The biggest pro was Mrs J&C - she was out on the porch of our mini suite nude while I was still putting our stuff away! We met some nice people then who could tell we were new and invited us to dinner with them. We ran into them again on our first nude cruise, even though they originally said they weren't interested in cruising! The only con was that we planned for just a long weekend, just in case we wouldn't enjoy social nudity. The 3 nights flew by so fast. The last time we went to Club O, we stayed seven nights, and it still went by so fast!

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Our first encounter was at a large bike ride near Council Bluffs, Ia that rides to a small town with a restaurant. We were on our way back and I decided to ride back early which never happens and this gal I had been talking to said she would ride back with me. Usually I stay and party with the organizers and the last 10-20 riders usually ride back naked. So me and this gal start riding and I said I had to pee and would catch up with her. It's past dark. I stopped briefly and removed my shorts to ride the way I usually do. I stayed just behind her so she couldn't see me behind my light. We rode for a good 45 min then I said I wanted to stop on the upcoming bridge I peddled ahead of her and heard her gasp as my naked butt came into view of her light. We stopped on the bridge and talked for a while and I told her about the usual naked antics of the others. Also got some hollars from others riding by as they noticed my nakedness in their lights. As we got on the bikes she removed her top and joined me. We rode all night. That was 14 yrs ago and we are now marred with two sons.

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Our first common nude experience was years ago. Like in many, many cases; its often the man who introduces his wife to it.
Some time after we have met, I told her that I prefered to be naked on the beach rather than wearing a wet, cold swim suit.
One day we had a sort of a picknick after a bike ride. I undressed and so did she!

I introduced here to the nude places around our town and she obviously liked it .
When we planned the summer vacation, she asked whether I had looked for the nude beaches there.

Once at the Es Trenc Beach in Mallorca, we went towards the dunes for some kissing and more
Then one of those single guys wearing a hat and glasses appeared and started talking inapproriately to her in Spanish.
Every time we went to other nudist places, she is like: "Have you seen him over there? He is posing and look at us"

For re-introducing her to nudism, I would have to find a spot where you dont encounter this kind of guys.

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Blacks beach in SanDiego! On the last day of a vacation there we said we had to try it. Didn't think we'd stay long just wanted to have the experience. Ended up staying all day, walked all over the beach and hated to leave. The big con, didn't take sunscreen. My butt looked like a ripe tomato. That was an uncomfortable flight home!!

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first time we went to Collins beach in Oregon.we walked past the main area where the volleyball courts were and found a spot with some trees for shade.my wife took off her clothes right away, as I did.She then said lets go for a walk, the entire length of the beach! what a wonderful time. A couple came by and saw our frisbee and wanted to play, so all four of us played frisbee. all pros here no cons

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Before we were married I took my wife to Haulover Beach, which I had been to many times before meeting her.

On the pro side, during that first visit we unexpectedly ran into a couple I knew from work and spent the afternoon with them. This added to her experience seeing regular folks enjoying nude beaches. The other couple and I were nude and my spouse was topless. Not bad for a first social nude experience.

On the con side, she didnt like the male gawkers hanging around the crossovers. Although I hadnt noticed these poor souls before, I can appreciate how my wife felt about them.

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My first time wit my spouse was when we had a camping holiday at Pointe de la Coubre near Royan in France so that I could take advantage of the nude beach of the Cote Sauvage.
She wouldn't go nude but bought some cotton bikini knickers to sunbathe topless (bikini swimsuit bottoms cost an arm and a leg in those days)
The pictures below show the first and third mornings.

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Our first nude experience together was at Gunnison Beach.

The Con was and still is the very long walk from the parking lot to the beach.

The pro was enjoying a great and long lasting experience together

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Pros - once go are hooked. Will love the experience and won't believe how freeing it is.
Cons - if wife not into then gets annoyed or jealous the husband is showing it all off. But won't join.

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After dating for 3 or 4 month's, I finally revealed to the woman who turned out to be my future wife, that I was a nudist and invited her to join me for the day at the first resort that I went to, and eventually became a member of, Elysium. Knowing that it was a clothing optional resort and promising that we could leave if she felt uncomfortable in any way helped to relieve her. Within 5 minutes of setting our towels on the expansive lawn we were both out of our clothes and enjoyed the pool, jacuzzi, and meeting others that day. We both had a wonderful time and I was surprised and relieved that she acclimated so quickly and really enjoyed the freedom and relaxation of social nudity. We were disappointed when the resort was sold and closed up 5 years later, but then we found and joined a non-landed group made up of former Elysium members, the Southern California Naturist Association. 20 years later, I'm the president of the group, she sits on the board of directors as membership chair, and we run a clothing optional B&B here in Southern California!

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