WOW...okay...Phil I think most of us agree that as a community we need to do what we can to improve the quality of life around here a bit. I'm not sure this is the best way to do it though. Outing people in a forum is generally considered bad form. I'm not saying that the response you got from this guy was not out of line...it clearly was. There however are many ways that a thread like this can turn very ugly very quickly. My suggestion would be to post bulletins regarding the offending persons profile in order to bring it to the attention of a wider audience without the entire community having to get involved. This would provide for a greater response while at the same time protecting the the dignity of the offender that perhaps just made a mistake. Just my opinion on the matter though.
Steve, if he had "just made a mistake" he could have removed the picture and either sent a polite reply or said nothing. He has efficiently demonstrated the type of guy he is by his response. (he has also not removed the picture) I do not enter into discussion with his type. I would hope that anyone that writes that type of message in reply to a polite request is NOT welcome here and will be dealt with in an appropriate manor. Furthermore, why not "out them" If they refuse to abide by the site rules and guidelines THEY SHOULD NOT BE HERE. And, if it is known that breaking the rules will have this result, they might pay more attention to them. If we have to self police the site to keep it a nice place to be, SO BE IT.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Ahhhhhhh
That's better!
Phil.
Hey Phil, I didn't mean to imply that his response to you was in anyway appropriate or that in this particular case the person had made a mistake. I know who you are talking about and I have seen the picture in question. I know that it wasn't a mistake. The point that I was trying to get across was that starting an outing thread could in SOME cases cause more problems than it would cure.
WOW...okay...Phil I think most of us agree that as a community we need to do what we can to improve the quality of life around here a bit. I'm not sure this is the best way to do it though. Outing people in a forum is generally considered bad form. I'm not saying that the response you got from this guy was not out of line...it clearly was. There however are many ways that a thread like this can turn very ugly very quickly. My suggestion would be to post bulletins regarding the offending persons profile in order to bring it to the attention of a wider audience without the entire community having to get involved. This would provide for a greater response while at the same time protecting the the dignity of the offender that perhaps just made a mistake. Just my opinion on the matter though.
Steve, if he had "just made a mistake" he could have removed the picture and either sent a polite reply or said nothing. He has efficiently demonstrated the type of guy he is by his response. (he has also not removed the picture) I do not enter into discussion with his type. I would hope that anyone that writes that type of message in reply to a polite request is NOT welcome here and will be dealt with in an appropriate manor. Furthermore, why not "out them" If they refuse to abide by the site rules and guidelines THEY SHOULD NOT BE HERE. And, if it is known that breaking the rules will have this result, they might pay more attention to them. If we have to self police the site to keep it a nice place to be, SO BE IT.
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Ahhhhhhh
That's better!
Phil.
He's now made the pic for friends only. I know one of the people
who has him listed as a friend. I will bring it to her attention. In
the meantime, I know how you feel. The other night (early morning - 5am
my time) I couldn't sleep, so went on chat. There were 14 people in
the room, when I entered. All male ,listed as straight. Most married.
7 of them had cams on. Out of the 7, 5 were clearly masturbating. When
I said that really wasn't appropriate and they should put the cams on
there faces, they made jokes about it. One actually attempted to
"whisper" but failed, lol, and said uhoh someones's not happy. I
responded that I was very unhappy as should be any "certified" true
nudist. (All the masturbaters were certified). As they all ignored my
requests, I flagged each and every one of them. I remember three of
the names and I keep an eye out for them when I'm on chat. I was
sorely tempted to "out" them on the forum. I decided against that as
that would actually break one of the rules of both chat and the forum.
No trolling. I also feel that "outing" people on the forum, could so
easily go from self-policing to a "witch-hunt". Which it shouldn't be.
The guy you had the problem with is a low-class moron. Let it go
through the proper self-policing channels and he'll be out of here
before you know it!
Jen
p.s. Does any body see the irony in my experience? 14 "straight" men all jerking off for each other?
You said,
"The other night (early morning - 5am my time) I couldn't
sleep, so went on chat.There were 14 people in the room, when I entered.
All male, listed as straight. Most married. 7 of them
had cams on. Out of the 7, 5 were clearly masturbating."
OK, you checked out the profiles of all 14 men. You had to if you knew they were straight and or married.
50 percent had cameras on. The vast majority were masturbating. No one was complaining
until you showed up. How long did you watch each masturbating man before you
decided to stick your nose in? You and you alone decided the VAST MAJORITY was
doing something wrong. Why didnt you just take a pill and go back to sleep
instead of annoying people who didnt know or care that you were alive. OH,
that was the problem you wanted to feel important.
Evelyn, I want to make it really clear to you, that I did NOT determine that the vast majority of the people in the room were doing something "wrong". Nor did I flag everyone in the room. I only flagged the 5 on camera. And only when they refused to stop breaking the rules and made rude remarks. Seeing as how your "Evelyn" profile is located in Del Ray Beach, Florida and that one of the men I flagged was from Del Ray Beach Florida, I am guessing that you are actually that man. DO NOT MASTURBATE ON CAMERA IN THIS SITE'S CHATROOM. THAT IS RULE #1 OF WHAT YOU AGREE TO BEFORE YOU ENTER THE ROOM. AND WHEN ANYBODY ENTERS THE CHATROOM THEY HAVE AGREED TO RULE #5 - FLAG ANYONE WHO IS BREAKING THE RULES. GOT IT?
i have to admit, i was the person who posted the bulletin about the person described in the first posts of this forum. but i was not the person who posted the question in the bulletin, i posted the answere part. the question was posted by a young female friend from southern california. i did just want to bring it to the attention of all my friends by posting the bulletin. seems like the young ladies ill feelings about the male in question were right. sorry Phil that you got that dumbass remark from the guy.
no matter if this site was on the web or not, i am a nudists. it has little to do with the fact i was born naked as much as it is the fact that i hate to wear clothes. but this site is called "true nudists" and should be for those of us who enjoy nudism, whether socialy or in our own homes. it may be a little too much to out somebody as a fake or perv in a forum, at least until they have intentionaly broken the rules. but i will not, and nor should any of us who are "nudists" allow anybody to be offensive.
i just hope that all of you who are here for the right reasons do not leave the site. that's called giving in. and we should not give in to the people trying to use this site for other purposes. all of thepeople here on the site who post to the forums seem to be good people, if not wonderful people, with a few dumbasses here and there.
valley_nudies said:i have to admit, i was the person who posted the bulletin about the person described in the first posts of this forum. but i was not the person who posted the question in the bulletin, i posted the answere part. the question was posted by a young female friend from southern california. i did just want to bring it to the attention of all my friends by posting the bulletin. seems like the young ladies ill feelings about the male in question were right. sorry Phil that you got that dumbass remark from the guy.
Don't be daft! Sticks and stones and all that. It flushed him out, and that's all that matters. I can take tons of abuse from the likes of him. I only get hurt if the remark comes from someone that I admire and respect (because it's probably true! lol) No one should be perturbed by anything that sort says to them, it doesn't mean anything if it comes from such a low life. You don't need a fancy education to learn to have respect for yourself and your fellow man, it goes a lot deeper than that. Hence how there's a lot of rich B******s out there. If only everyone would see that, they wouldn't get all upset and leave. (Gets off Box) anyhow, good post and yes you need to be absolutely sure (as I was) before you resort to the forum (point taken Steve1) (Gets Back on Box) but if there IS no doubt, I see nothing wrong in using ALL means available to get rid of them. They need to get it through their thick sculls that we mean business, and are not going to let them get their cheap thrills at our expense. This Site was created for US, not THEM, they are effectively trespassing, they are here under false pretences, and they are NOT going to stay. (Gets off Box and Takes an extra BP pill) Now then, anybody for miniten? :)
Phil.
Good work, gang! It's time for us TRUE NUDISTS to take back this site. Count me amongthe flaggers. If the offendingmember doesn't respond to my polite message, I will notify those on my friends list via a post as to who the offender is, and then I will flag them. There is no need for inappropriate or offensive behavior here. It's just good, old-fashioned common courtesy. Glad to be a part of the group! Lauri
Thanks Phil, and yes, let me in on the plan that you are formulating (stop using these big words on me) I'd be happy to help protect OUR site.... Steve Give your brother Steve a break, he needs friends too !!!! LOL
Gotta get it clear in me head, make sure it'll work, but thanks, I'll let you know when the time comes.
Give him a break! .........I'll give him a break, which leg?
I'm sure he's the reason my comp keeps crashing.
Phil.
Good work, gang! It's time for us TRUE NUDISTS to take back this site. Count me amongthe flaggers. If the offendingmember doesn't respond to my polite message, I will notify those on my friends list via a post as to who the offender is, and then I will flag them. There is no need for inappropriate or offensive behavior here. It's just good, old-fashioned common courtesy. Glad to be a part of the group! Lauri
Thanks Lauri, PERRRRRRRRFECT. welcome aboard!
Phil.
Good work, gang! It's time for us TRUE NUDISTS to take back this site. Count me amongthe flaggers. If the offendingmember doesn't respond to my polite message, I will notify those on my friends list via a post as to who the offender is, and then I will flag them. There is no need for inappropriate or offensive behavior here. It's just good, old-fashioned common courtesy. Glad to be a part of the group! Lauri
A warm welcome Lauri! And thank you for being a TRUE NUDIST willing to join the crusade to take back OUR site.
Jen
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