Hello, my name is Cristhian, well I had my wife, she had a 6-year-old girl at that time and it happened to us that she was asleep in the living room and she and I took the opportunity to make love. The truth is that I haven't even had that shame of being here. Naked is something natural, it was common to watch naked movies at home since my dad raised me that way, since being alone with him because my mother left us, it was very normal to be naked in the mornings drinking coffee with occasional morning erections, so well It happens that my daughter or stepdaughter wakes up and sees us having wild sex. I didn't realize it, almost at the end, so we talked to her and explained to her. Over time, it was normal for her to see us and she continued doing her things without thinking.
Thats bait.
Yep and when a non nudist sees this it reinforces the idea that nudist are perverts and kids should not be allowed to be around nudists. Then laws get drafted and often passed that limit social nudity because one individual promotes this behavior as part of nudismThats bait.
Have you ever been caught by your kids?
Have you ever been caught? What happened & how did it turn out?
My kids dont "catch " me as I live in a studio apartment (limited space)and it is very normal and treat nudity as no embarrassment.
What do you do in a situation like that?
We all have different methods and different theories to share with our kids, but what's your story?
Dont react in a quick manner and make kids feel it is their fault or it is a crime.
I agree that the word "caught" has such a negative connotation. Shame is a learned concept and kids are not born with it. If you behave like nudity or sex is a shameful thing, they are going to perceive it as such and believe so. Don't make it a big deal. It especially helps if the household is a nudist one to begin with.
We don't consider seeing each other having sex as "being caught". My daughters saw me many times, and I often saw them. No big deal. As we usually go to hidden nude beaches and saunas, where sex is common, they are used to it. Also, they have no problem if I get involved with someone at that places, and vice versa.