Penis Appreciation And Support Grou
Not all nudists are body confident it may be for many reasons this page is a support group for those men who may have a stigma attached to their manhood should it be due to size , weather it's circumcised or not whatever the reason may be this page is to help you find that body confidence with support from others
- created by rambo8969
The big cock.
Return to DiscussionsWhy am I a member of this group when I have what many call a XXL cock ... because happiness is not always a big cock. If it's about nudism, then it attracts an incredible amount of attention when I walk on the beach or am naked with others. I become a nudist who gets sexualized. It's like women with big breasts - first they say hello and look at the dick and then my face and then again the dick ... it applies to both men and women .... I am happy with who I am and do not want to change anything - but men with a normal / small cock, it is easier to be accepted as a nudist without being sexualized.
We all want to be something different to what we are! My cock is average but I would love to have a big one to show off and attract attention when naked. As for being circumcised, I am as you can see from my photos and love it and so pleased I was cut as a baby!
I am pleased with my body although I have always wanted to be more "manly" - more muscles, stronger, broarder and with less "femine" shoulders. But I cannot change anything about my body so I love it as it is
My cock is average but I am a grower. I have a tattoo on my cock which also attracts an incredible amount of attention at nudist venues or when naked with others. I don't mind it, but everyone stops to ask, did it hurt and what does it look like hard.
For those who are curious, here's soft and hard.
I met a fellow over 30 years ago at a roadside rest stop (yes, well, I don't do that now, but anyway...) and it turned out we had met socially at his business just a few hours prior. But I did not see his "bizness" at that time. And he was hesitant to bring it out, and when he did it was HUGE, definitely a challenge to play with, did my best. A little later we sat and chatted and he said having that monster had mostly been a burden for most of his adult life because it was all that anyone would talk about, and tell others about so that they would ask about it, and skip the whole part about talking to him, finding out who he was, etc. In his motorcycle club, everyone just wanted to see it if nothing else. He felt like an oddity and was not proud of it. I have no idea if that is the prevalent experience of the very well endowed, but it was his, and I learned a bit from that; look into someone's eyes, see them, and try to get to know THAT person, even if just for a moment. It can mean so much, you just don't know.
Im a physician with a subspecialty focus on sexual medicine. LGBT and straight with a fair number who are in The Lifestyle so I hear lots and lots of secrets about peoples sex lives. One of the surprising things I hear is that there really can be too much of a good thing. We all know that there are women who have breast reductions due to oversized breasts and the inconvenience and pain associated with that, but many men who are blessed with large penises will realize that it is more good for show than function. Too thick to be sucked without scraping teeth, long enough to bottom out when thrusting ,causing pain . Vaginal and anal sex has to be so careful, and slow, that it affects your ability to relax and enjoy. (Unless you are an asshole who doesnt care if you cause pain. !). Some are just embarrassed by the attention and feel a lot of pressure to perform.
My cousin had similar issues as a photo model, but he couldn't choose when to show his face. It was also easy to feel like you already knew him, because his picture was used on product packaging. Knowing him as well as I do, I both envied and felt sorry for him for the attention he got in his prime. It made him both arrogant and insecure. However he chose his partner and friends carefully and became a great dad.
I'd say if you are so inclined use your attention grabbing cock as a platform to make a difference. How can you serve others? By encouraging greater penis or body acceptance? Exercise or healthy eating? I believe that as men we have two frenula (the fold of skin under our tongue and by the tip of our penis, and two cocks, an outer and inner one. They are connected via the heart which has two sides of the same coin: courage and vulnerability. We speak our truths and find courage. Sometimes we shine greatest in service to others, and I believe that your heart could well be even bigger than your cock, and that's what really counts. Good luck.
I had an experience a few years back that was one of those that makes you think again on what you value in yourself and of others. I was visiting the korean spa to relax, enjoy some nude and guys in general. As with all male spas, some guys take to been a bit 'playful'. I had notice that one guy would not play, actually would walk out of the sauna when another guy would start something.
We eventually found ourselves alone in the sauna. I made some comment, finally been able to enjoy the sauna without some guy wanting to play. He comment back that it got annoying that they did. We started to chat and I had to point out that with his cock hanging there like a waterfall, I'm not surprised. He laugh somewhat and said back something to the fact that I should be talking. Yes been UC and hung, does attract attention but this guy was like HUNG, those that leave a lasting impression on how 'blessed' they are.
Like the doc above wrote, this guy went on to tell me that been hung as he was, 7 inches soft and over 11 hard (he told me that during our conversation), that it wasn't a blessing. I thought, how can it not be? He stated, that he'd never gotten a good BJ, guys and gals would not know where to start and then gag if they attempted to take it all. Yes, he had to take it slow when going into any pussy or ass and still he could not go all the way in. He was one that introduce me to what he called a cock stopper. I'd never heard of such a thing but it was like a big thick ring he would put on his hard cock (like a cock ring) to prevent him from going all the way in when fucking. I sat there amazed at first at the conversation but more to the fact that this guy's sex life was so altered from the normal sex life we all enjoy just because he was 'blessed' with a huge cock. He also said that most guys, especially at the korean spa, would be all about his cock. He felt like he as a person did count and wasn't there. I agreed with him on that as he had pointed out I am hung and I do feel that a good deal of guys I meet nude are about my cock.
We had a good few hours after our initial conversation hanging around nude. He did thank me when he left for a nice wonderful time he had sharing time with at least someone that wasn't all about his cock. I said that yes, I understand. I did run into him another time at the spa. We spend a bit of time talking but he left within the first hour I was there. I did have a guy afterwards ask me how well I knew this hung guy. I kinda didn't say much but asked why? Guys reply was that he'd would have love to play with that meat. Yup, all about the meat.
Hello! And so it is with me - most people accept my nudity as a nudist as sexuality, although I kept communicating without it as much as possible in naked conversations and activities with other naked ... I noticed that people see more often the difference between them and look to him as a blessing that someone is gifted. I have always thought that I am of normal size and I have not accepted my size as a blessing! But, alas! Over time, I really saw that few men are my size ... I think the most important thing is not the size, but how durable your penis is and can be hardworking in any game with it ...