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Jun 22, 2014We don't yet have a thread about his topic, which, on reflection, seems a bit strange. I recently posted about it to another group, so I thought we should have our own discourse.
Pamela
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- OL
Jun 25, 2014Time to come clean, so to speak. I'm naturally very hairy but I shave my entire body from the neck down. For a couple of years it was seasonal. The body hair is good for warmth in the winter so I'd let it grow in the autumn. But I never really liked it so off it came in the spring. On the sister group TS you can watch videos - one of me removing a great ball of body hair one May and another of a morning shower and shave. I find my skin feels cooler and so much more sensitive to the touch, truly sensuous...... And my we willy looks bigger without hiding under a tuft of fur.
I know it is a matter of taste. Some say they would prefer me hairy. But I prefer myself and them completely hairless. The skin feels so much softer and smoother as I run my fingers over their naked body, and they run theirs over mine.
I know many prepare for the beach each summer but I did a survey of two big nudist beaches last summer (one was Cap d'Agde). It was an arduous task gazing at 1000's of pubic areas to get a statistically significant sample. But in the name of research.... I found virtually all the women and about two thirds of men had no pubic hair. This included some men with otherwise hairy bodies. So it looks like pubic hair is a thing of the past.ReactReply - LI
Jun 25, 2014I am naturally very hairy (3-4 inches long and and thick). I my 20s my chest hair turned Snow White. in my 30s, I started trimming from time to time, but the pubes were scratchy. Shaving my pubes was ok, but took regular attention, and the hair shafts were so stubbly my partner was poked in al the wrong places and protested. Finally tried waxing and that was everything we wanted, except for the expensea: much cooler, smoother, more sensitive to touch. Not to mention that my penis no longer disappeared in the forest and got to experience what it was like out in the breeze. Less trapped moisture and dirt. My partner liked it much much better than any of the other ways. Now I trim my leg, butt and trunk hair to 1/4 - 1/2 inch. Shave finer shaft hairs on back and shoulders, and wax pubes. Like Oilygrumps, I would prefer the sensation of being hairless all over, simply for comfort and enhanced sensitivity of my skin as an intact sensory organ. But the cost and upkeep of what I am doing is plenty, and we find this approach far superior to the old hairy me.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 25, 2014
I'm a smoothie and proud of it. Smooth pubes look better, feel better, and taste better!
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Jul 7, 2014I started to shave my pubes just out of sheer curiosity and I liked the looks and the feeling. Since I have very little natural hair I decided to get rid of it all except for my head. Not everyone likes it but I enjoy the feeling and that is the most important thing.
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Aug 18, 2014I found shaving and trimming to be a bit to bloody for me. It is one thing to put a nick on your face, but to nick around the pubes can put you out of commission for a while. So I found Brazilian waxing was for me. My Tattoo's get covered by pubic hair, I spent good money to have my Tattoo's put there and went through a bit of pain in the process. So I go get waxed to uncover my tattoo's, it lasts longer, no nicks, my G/F loves it, most of the guys here in the U.S. on the beach are hairless around the pubic area. I specially get done before going on a cruise, ships are having more and more adult decks for nudity. You just have to figure out where they are. One ship I was on most of the staff did not know there was a nude area on the ship I finally found.ReactReply - BA
Aug 19, 2014Actually, I never gave shaving my pubic hair any thought until almost 20 years ago when I had to have a hernia operation. After the operation, I had a huge bandage on the affected area with instructions not to shower or otherwise get it wet. Sponge baths only. A few days later I went to a follow-up appointment with the surgeon, who removed the bandage to check out my healing progress. It was at that point that I realized that they had completely shaved the pubic hair on the right side, but, of course, had left the other side as is. Frankly, I thought being half and half like that was so absurd looking that the first chance I got, I shaved off the other side so that the hair would at least all grow back in a uniform way. However, I found that the lack of pubic hair was so comfortable that I still keep it shaved to this day. I do it for the sheer comfort of it. I live in a hotter climate (Florida), and I only wear shorts in the summertime when out in public. But since I'm a free-baller too, being shaved keeps me cool when I am in circumstances where I can't be nude.ReactReply - LIAug 19, 2014[quote]Actually, I never gave shaving my pubic hair any thought until almost 20 years ago when I had to have a hernia operation. After the operation, I had a huge bandage on the affected area with instructions not to shower or otherwise get it wet. Sponge baths only. A few days later I went to a follow-up appointment with the surgeon, who removed the bandage to check out my healing progress. It was at that point that I realized that they had completely shaved the pubic hair on the right side, but, of course, had left the other side as is. Frankly, I thought being half and half like that was so absurd looking that the first chance I got, I shaved off the other side so that the hair would at least all grow back in a uniform way. However, I found that the lack of pubic hair was so comfortable that I still keep it shaved to this day. I do it for the sheer comfort of it. I live in a hotter climate (Florida), and I only wear shorts in the summertime when out in public. But since I'm a free-baller too, being shaved keeps me cool when I am in circumstances where I can't be nude.
[/quote]Same here. Once the hair was off, there was no going back. It simply was much more comfortable, as I am a freeballer too. Without the hair or clothing, my balls rarely get sweaty. With hair or clothes, they often do. I find myself putting on a pair of shorts only to pull them off a few minutes later because they are so uncomfortable. Same with hair. I think I might grow it back, but once I start, I always shave within a few days and I am always glad I did.ReactReply - OLSep 1, 2014[quote]Time to come clean, so to speak. I'm naturally very hairy but I shave my entire body from the neck down. For a couple of years it was seasonal. The body hair is good for warmth in the winter so I'd let it grow in the autumn. But I never really liked it so off it came in the spring. On the sister group TS you can watch videos - one of me removing a great ball of body hair one May and another of a morning shower and shave. I find my skin feels cooler and so much more sensitive to the touch, truly sensuous...... And my we willy looks bigger without hiding under a tuft of fur.
I know it is a matter of taste. Some say they would prefer me hairy. But I prefer myself and them completely hairless. The skin feels so much softer and smoother as I run my fingers over their naked body, and they run theirs over mine.
I know many prepare for the beach each summer but I did a survey of two big nudist beaches last summer (one was Cap d'Agde). It was an arduous task gazing at 1000's of pubic areas to get a statistically significant sample. But in the name of research.... I found virtually all the women and about two thirds of men had no pubic hair. This included some men with otherwise hairy bodies. So it looks like pubic hair is a thing of the past.
[/quote]I'm still smooth. But now I do it by having a full body wax. It takes well over 2 hours and is well worth it. Several men have let me shave them after seeing me naked.ReactReply - LISep 1, 2014
I agree about the nice smooth period after waxing. I found several experienced, no-nonsense women who work on men in the Seattle area. They seem to be doing a nice business, as (they tell me) most of the women who wax women are freaked out by or don't know how to wax men. I started getting my penis and balls waxed and couldn't believe how good it felt to be really smooth for a period of time. However, I couldn't justify the ongoing cost, and couldn't stand the idea of going without being smooth any longer than necessary. So now I shave. I started doing it every few days as the stubble started to bug me, but now I shave at least once a day, and may "touch up" any rough spots later that day. My skin seems to be adjusting to the shaving, so hardly ever a nick these days. And smooth all the time. I like that.
ReactReply - OLSep 22, 2014I've had my second waxing, six weeks after the first one. Now I'm aiming for a 5 week cycle. Although there are hairs long enough to wax after that time they are fine and I look quite presentable:
I can understand how some women may freak out at doing a full male body wax. They have to hold the scrotum and foreskin in one hand to pull against the wax as they rip it off. They also have to get very close to those intimate areas with the man positioned to give maximum access - maximum exposure. The woman who does mine handles me very professionally. The intimate waxing starts with me on all fours so my buttocks are in tension and my genitals hang freely. She then works wax down my crack, over my anus and down to the extremity on the back of my scrotum. Whilst it is setting she works on one buttock. Then She holds my scrotum down whilst pulling the wax up in one long movement. This is repeated twice more. Then I turn over and lie in a frog-like position (legs pulled up knees apart) to give access to the sides of my scrotum and open the crack between scrotum and upper thighs. She waxes the scrotum and crack, first on one side then on the other. Again she pulls my scrotum tight with one hand whilst ripping the wax off with the other. My legs then go straight and she works on the front of my scrotum and around the base of my shaft. Now she holds the tip of my foreskin pulling the wax way from the tip to remove it. Finally she waxes the pubic hair around my duck tattoo. She then examines every part in detail using a strong light to see any remaining hairs. They are removed with tweezers.ReactReply - MEMemberSep 24, 2014[quote]I've had my second waxing, six weeks after the first one. Now I'm aiming for a 5 week cycle. Although there are hairs long enough to wax after that time they are fine and I look quite presentable:
I can understand how some women may freak out at doing a full male body wax. They have to hold the scrotum and foreskin in one hand to pull against the wax as they rip it off. They also have to get very close to those intimate areas with the man positioned to give maximum access - maximum exposure. The woman who does mine handles me very professionally. The intimate waxing starts with me on all fours so my buttocks are in tension and my genitals hang freely. She then works wax down my crack, over my anus and down to the extremity on the back of my scrotum. Whilst it is setting she works on one buttock. Then She holds my scrotum down whilst pulling the wax up in one long movement. This is repeated twice more. Then I turn over and lie in a frog-like position (legs pulled up knees apart) to give access to the sides of my scrotum and open the crack between scrotum and upper thighs. She waxes the scrotum and crack, first on one side then on the other. Again she pulls my scrotum tight with one hand whilst ripping the wax off with the other. My legs then go straight and she works on the front of my scrotum and around the base of my shaft. Now she holds the tip of my foreskin pulling the wax way from the tip to remove it. Finally she waxes the pubic hair around my duck tattoo. She then examines every part in detail using a strong light to see any remaining hairs. They are removed with tweezers.
[/quote]Ouch - that sounds uncomfortable! We prefer to shave each other every few days and then one thing leads to another..............ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterSep 25, 2014[quote][quote]Quote from post by Pamela69: I have admit that I am not all impressed by hairless men - I think they nearly always look ridiculous, but having grown up at a time when pubic shaving was simply not an option for a girl, I do get great pleasure now from being shaved and knowing that people can see a lot more of what really matters than used to be possible...
Pamela
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Response from Andy of "AndyDi:"I guess you asked for discourse so ... here's some.
How is it that you start a group with the mantra you've decided to have to be different than all the rest and yet ... your first sentence is exactly like all the rest of the topics on these message boards. What does "Free Style" mean to you? You're entitled to your opinion and I'm not arguing that ... I'm questioning your use of words ... "nearly always look ridiculous," this group, it's mantra and some of the topics and some of your statements always seem to be a bit hypocritical ... but then again, it's your group and I guess you're allowed to jump from one side of the fence to the other as you'd like to keep the discourse going. ;-)
[/quote]It wasn't just for that reason that he was removed.
PamelaReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterOct 11, 2014[quote]I go between, was shaved 3 weeks ago as the girl I was with wanted it, but now it is growing back. Personally for me I like a little colour but trimmed , for a girl I like shaved.. It is much easier to lick down there if there is no hair[/quote]Glad to see you back posting, Irish!
PamelaReactReply - ALOct 16, 2014
I've mostly been hairy, but I have tried to shave a couple of times to see if there were any advantages. In my opinion being completely shaved makes me a bit clammy, and that is probably the reason why I haven't really shaved that much. I do like to trim a bit though to keep it kind of neat and tidy...
ReactReply - MEMemberApr 6, 2015
I don't care what anybody else thinks; I've shaved my pubes for years, and feel better for it. I find most other nudists, male and female, prefer it.
ReactReply - CAApr 17, 2015My wife and I will never shave our pubic area. What's the purpose???? I like how it looks and how it feels.
Same goes for my wife. There is nothing "natural" about a shave pubis on a grown-up. What little hair I have on my whole body,
my pubic area makes up for it. What a pain it would be to keep a bush constantly cut. So you think it looks better!
Not in my book. I find a woman with a full bush, quite sexy. Very womanly. My wife feels the same about a man.
That's why we've been happily married for over 40 years. We like who we are..naturally!ReactReply - LI
Jun 13, 2015I'm not really a very hairy guy at all, no back hair, hardly any chest hair save a few strands around each nipple, some at the belly button and below, I don't like a big thick bush on anyone, having said that I also don't like a completely clean shaven lower region either, I prefer something in the middle, some hair that is noticeable but not too long and preferably just above the goodies, for women I prefer to see a patch above the Vulva and clitoral area that is well manicured and not stringy leaving the rest smooth shaven for viewing pleasure, for men pretty much the same but just above the base of the shaft and again not too thick and stringy, I also think the balls should be kept smooth shaven, ...ever get hair caught in you teeth? ...ever have someone else get your hair caught in their teeth? On another note, I listen to a radio show that has been on the air for 40+ yrs, I realize not everyone has heard of it, it is called the Bob and Tom show and is sindicated across the US, those outside the US may not have ever heard of it but I'm almost sure you have your own stations that you enjoy listening to, ...they have always got the latest stories and up to date happenings that are going on, I found it interesting one morning while listening that they had a story about facial hair, I don't have anything against facial hair or anyone who wears it, I used to sport quite the beard myself but the gist of this story was the cleanliness of a bearded mans face, the people doing the testing used several subjects and did swabs of all of their hairy faces and concluded that the cleanliness was comparable to that of a toilet seat or just a toilet in general, I'm sure the study can be found online somewhere but it just makes me wonder, if a face can be like that ...and I'm fairly sure these people wash their faces... how much more or less could it be with a hairy downstairs?ReactReply - GA
Jun 2, 2024[quote]My wife and I will never shave our pubic area. What's the purpose???? I like how it looks and how it feels. Same goes for my wife. There is nothing "natural" about a shave pubis on a grown-up. What little hair I have on my whole body, my pubic area makes up for it. What a pain it would be to keep a bush constantly cut. So you think it looks better! Not in my book. I find a woman with a full bush, quite sexy. Very womanly. My wife feels the same about a man. That's why we've been happily married for over 40 years. We like who we are..naturally![/quote] I'm with you, I will not - nor will I ever shave my pubic area. It looks really weird to me, to see a very hairy mature guy - with a shaved crotch area. Appears to be very childish like lookingReactReply - AU
Jun 3, 2024I am for shaving only because when I go down on a woman I prefer no hair to get in the way and would assume when she is doing likewise that smooth tastes better than a mouth full of hair. Just something personal and I'll go down on a woman regardless. I at least usually shave and Nair then only let it grow back in short but not full blown. Always looking for a woman willing to share the shave experience just for the hype it would create. AustinJohn
ReactReply - AUJun 3, 2024
I am for shaving only because when I go down on a woman I prefer no hair to get in the way and would assume when she is doing likewise that smooth tastes better than a mouth full of hair. Just something personal and I'll go down on a woman regardless. I at least usually shave and Nair then only let it grow back in short but not full blown. Always looking for a woman willing to share the shave experience just for the hype it would create. AustinJohn
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 3, 2024
I am very much in favor of shaving off public hair.
The look, feeling is tremendous.
Personally have been doing full body shaves and waxing for
many years.ReactReply - MEMemberAug 31, 2024
Smoothie for years as explained elsewhere. Just feels nicer
ReactReply - SU
Nov 23, 2024After years of just thinning it out, I've gone 100% and I'm loving it!
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