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Getting an erection during a waxing

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Guys who get waxed, has this happened to you? How did you deal with it? How did your waxer deal with it ?

Pre covid I had regular waxings for a couple of years and have recently started again. Its happened to me a few times to varying degrees but thankfully not for a while. Its a cliche but it is something guys worry about getting a service like that. I'm assuming it's a fairly common thing?

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Sounds as if someone was gunning for a big tip! Seriously though, if you're getting serviced like that, for what are you paying, the waxing or the 'waning'? In some places that would be considered a form of prostitution. Waxing can get expensive. And habit-forming!

I recall the moment a few years ago when marijuana became legal to possess and even gift to someone in Washington DC, where simple possession of a certain amount of the stuff was all of the sudden completely okay to have on your person (except on federally-owned land inside the district). You couldn't sell it, but it was alright to give it away - so then all you needed to do was make clear to the person that you were selling the baggie, not the weed stuffed into it - for $400!

What exactly are you paying for when your waxing empties your balls?

An amusing story an online friend once told me, about how every few months he would drive a couple of hours from home to see a specialist for a prostate exam, and the 'professional' he had the exam done by would do a procedure he called 'expressing the prostate'. The friend maintained the guy wasn't just making him orgasm. It sounded a whole lot like cumming to me, but hey, what do I know? I'm guessing that no medical doctor would suggest a need to receive a prostate exam every few months unless there was sound evidence of something to really worry about going on back there. This prostate-specific manipulation sounds kind of fishy, or maybe I've just led a sheltered life. Physiologically-speaking, the prostate does do its part for the creation of a portion of the semen expelled during orgasm.

I would be interested to hear if any of the other people reading this post have ever heard of 'expressing the prostate', or if this is just another term for bringing forth an orgasm.

Pre pandemic I got waxed by a male groomer every 6 to 8 weeks. When I got hard he would give me a BJ or HJ and thus relaxed the tension

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Have never had a professional waxing so I'm sorry, I can't answer that. I'm certain that a pro has dealt with plenty of protruding penises though, so relax and go with the flow. I will admit to chubbing up a good bit when my ex-girlfriend's waxer allowed me to sit in on a session and I watched that gal go to town on her hairy mound, brazillian-style. It was much more erotic than I was figuring to watch another person getting so deep into my gal's private areas. I shave but do have a curiosity as to what a waxing would feel like. There is no viable way to wax the scrotum, is there? Any way you do it, best of luck!
Scrotal waxing isnt a problem at all. The waxer may have you help by stretching your skin.

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Sounds as if someone was gunning for a big tip! Seriously though, if you're getting serviced like that, for what are you paying, the waxing or the 'waning'? In some places that would be considered a form of prostitution. Waxing can get expensive. And habit-forming!I recall the moment a few years ago when marijuana became legal to possess and even gift to someone in Washington DC, where simple possession of a certain amount of the stuff was all of the sudden completely okay to have on your person (except on federally-owned land inside the district). You couldn't sell it, but it was alright to give it away - so then all you needed to do was make clear to the person that you were selling the baggie, not the weed stuffed into it - for $400!What exactly are you paying for when your waxing empties your balls?An amusing story an online friend once told me, about how every few months he would drive a couple of hours from home to see a specialist for a prostate exam, and the 'professional' he had the exam done by would do a procedure he called 'expressing the prostate'. The friend maintained the guy wasn't just making him orgasm. It sounded a whole lot like cumming to me, but hey, what do I know? I'm guessing that no medical doctor would suggest a need to receive a prostate exam every few months unless there was sound evidence of something to really worry about going on back there. This prostate-specific manipulation sounds kind of fishy, or maybe I've just led a sheltered life. Physiologically-speaking, the prostate does do its part for the creation of a portion of the semen expelled during orgasm.I would be interested to hear if any of the other people reading this post have ever heard of 'expressing the prostate', or if this is just another term for bringing forth an orgasm.Pre pandemic I got waxed by a male groomer every 6 to 8 weeks. When I got hard he would give me a BJ or HJ and thus relaxed the tension
Prostate massage is an old remedy by urologists for some prostate conditions. My dad went in for it before surgery. I had prostate issues too and had it a couple of times before having the same kind of operation my dad had.

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Thanks for the info, bubbabubba, though what you've given us here about prostate massage isn't as much information as I would have preferred. What does the procedure consist of, specifically? My online friend suggested 'expressing the prostate' was pleasurable to him and included activities which resembled somewhat or included a form of ejaculation. Would you agree that the procedure you and your father both received was similar to this? Please, do elaborate!

I've read that some urologists do heavily suggest it is important to release the semen two or three times a week for the health of the prostate glands. I say, at least! But then, I only play doctor on the internet.

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Ive gone twice for a whole body sugaring process ( much like waxing). I had a male doing the hair removal and eventually wound up boned both times. He would remove the hair everywhere including the base and shaft of the penis. He would just grab my erection and move it as he needed to. The first time what was a big surprise for me was being on the table on all fours while you hold your butt cheeks apart so he can do your ass crack. My buddy didnt warn me about that lol. He didnt seem at all phased by my state of arousal.

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Thanks for the info, bubbabubba, though what you've given us here about prostate massage isn't as much information as I would have preferred. What does the procedure consist of, specifically? My online friend suggested 'expressing the prostate' was pleasurable to him and included activities which resembled somewhat or included a form of ejaculation. Would you agree that the procedure you and your father both received was similar to this? Please, do elaborate!I've read that some urologists do heavily suggest it is important to release the semen two or three times a week for the health of the prostate glands. I say, at least! But then, I only play doctor on the internet.
The urologist inserted a finger and pressed really hard on my prostate. It was not a sexually thrilling feeling. A few drops of fluid were expelled.

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Guys who get waxed, has this happened to you? How did you deal with it? How did your waxer deal with it ?Pre covid I had regular waxings for a couple of years and have recently started again. Its happened to me a few times to varying degrees but thankfully not for a while. Its a cliche but it is something guys worry about getting a service like that. I'm assuming it's a fairly common thing?

Having done male grooming on myself and for others, it actually helps when you firm up. When waxing you need to pull the skin taunt in order to do it right.

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Oh I have had erections during waxing done bi a male and not with a female. I dont want to get in trouble with young women. But at least guys understand better what we go through when someone is touching us.
During a massage is different, I always get hard. The very personal touch of another person does it for me.
I have a friend who has gone to different women for his waxing . Some women wanted him hard but another did not.
But for me I prefer a male to do the waxing. They seem to to know what hurts more. Females seem to like giving back the pain. lol They seem to not want the job to do with a male client.

Not sure, but living in a small town now so not sure where to go for my future waxings.

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Oh I have had erections during waxing done bi a male and not with a female. I dont want to get in trouble with young women. But at least guys understand better what we go through when someone is touching us.During a massage is different, I always get hard. The very personal touch of another person does it for me.I have a friend who has gone to different women for his waxing . Some women wanted him hard but another did not.But for me I prefer a male to do the waxing. They seem to to know what hurts more. Females seem to like giving back the pain. lol They seem to not want the job to do with a male client.Not sure, but living in a small town now so not sure where to go for my future waxings.
Unfortunately no male waxers in my area. Only one I ever had was in an all male San Francisco salon day before Folsom Street Fair. He was great. Loved all my genital piercings.

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I've been getting waxed for about 15 years, have never had an erection.

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