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Men Who Are "Smaller then Average" Down There

Small penis embarrassment in locker room.

Posted Feb 23, 2016

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jigit1993
jigit1993Original Poster
Feb 23, 2016
I really want to be a nudist I am usually nude when I am alone however today I was in locker room and when I am wearing my swimsuit I take it out and wear it publicly but I noticed that my dick looks too small.

The other problem... Nobody is actually change it publicly:S

What should I do?

If I have even an average penis I will not care about others but I dont feel ok:(

Sorry for my english and thanks for advice already:)
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  • OL
    ollygrumps
    Feb 23, 2016
    This is one time when it might be right to take a look and reassure you that yours isn't that small. (But your pics are set to friends only.) Anyhow I thought my penis is small. Then I looked around on a nudist beach and discovered it's not that small compared to many. The other noticeable point is how confident nudist men are regardless of size. Our penises are just one (small) part of us. It's the whole man, and the personality, that counts.

    It is very true that men do the towel-dance in the locker room. What a pity that they are so self conscious given that it's an all male environment. I just don't bother. I just let it all hang out, not proud but not ashamed either.

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    jigit1993
    jigit1993Original Poster
    Feb 23, 2016
    [quote] This is one time when it might be right to take a look and reassure you that yours isn't that small. (But your pics are set to friends only.) Anyhow I thought my penis is small. Then I looked around on a nudist beach and discovered it's not that small compared to many. The other noticeable point is how confident nudist men are regardless of size. Our penises are just one (small) part of us. It's the whole man, and the personality, that counts.

    It is very true that men do the towel-dance in the locker room. What a pity that they are so self conscious given that it's an all male environment. I just don't bother. I just let it all hang out, not proud but not ashamed either.

    [/quote]Now we are friends and u can commend on my size... If it is ok? and u can tell the truth easily np:)
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  • ME
    Member
    Feb 24, 2016

    Your not small at all, Perfect the  way you are. Just chill and enjoy the experience. I used to beat myself up around your predicament, but now slowly getting to terms with it after some encouragement from others

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  • NU
    nudebris57
    Feb 24, 2016
    [quote]I really want to be a nudist I am usually nude when I am alone however today I was in locker room and when I am wearing my swimsuit I take it out and wear it publicly but I noticed that my dick looks too small.

    The other problem... Nobody is actually change it publicly:SÂ

    What should I do?Â

    If I have even an average penis I will not care about others but I dont feel ok:(

    Sorry for my english and thanks for advice already:)[/quote] Hey don't stress too much we deal with what we are given at birth and try not to worry about comparing yourself to the other men in the locker room. Just enjoy the freedom of going nude and relax. Stay nude Wayne
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    jigit1993
    jigit1993Original Poster
    Feb 24, 2016

    The other problem is nobody goes around naked in locker room in my university everyone soo nervous so I am kinda only one who takes our boxer and wear suitcase? SO, have anyone been same kind of case before?

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  • FR
    FRENUMLOVER
    Feb 28, 2016

    You're a handsome young man with what appears to be a very fit physique. While I can't comment on your penis size I can tell you that's all of the responses to your concerns are indeed correct - it really does not matter. I have a big belly and a small penis and while I'd love to have been given a small belly and large penis it took me a long time to realize that focusing on what I don't have was preventing me from being part of a really great community of folks. A True Nudist could care less about your size. A True friend could care less about your size. A True love could care less about your size. You can always compensate for a small dick with a bigher smile.....

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  • CO
    cobalt10
    Feb 28, 2016
    I also have a small penis, I go to and from the gym shower totally naked carrying my towel, I don't think anyone notices or cares, our gym is very busy.  I wouldn't worry about what others think about your penis size.
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  • PA
    PaGayNudist
    Feb 28, 2016
    Never something to obsess over.   You are quite normal and perfect size my friend... Never worry about that.. We all look small to ourselves.  Steve
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  • KR
    Kristin4892
    May 9, 2017

    My husband has admitted to me on many occasions that he was definitely the "small guy" in his high schools gym locker room. He was one of the only white students in a predominantly black school in East Baltimore. Needless to say he got his fair share of ridicule in the communal showers (which were mandatory) after every gym class. He's been called everything from tootsie roll to baby dick to even vagina boy. He said the last one was popular because he had never trimmed his pubes in high school and his bush was so big that it was hard to see the head of his penis at times. Especially after exercising when his penis would shrink so much that it just looked like a woman's vagina down there. Meanwhile he said most all of the other students were hung like elephants and weren't shy about showing it off. Over time he just got used to it and now has no issue with his size. I personally think his penis is cute and wouldn't trade it for anything.

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  • NO
    notclothed_vn2209
    May 27, 2017

    My wife thinks it's adorable.

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  • ZI
    Ziffler
    Jun 12, 2017
    [quote]all through my younger years I hated to shower at school, I was smaller than almost everyone. In the military I had no choice, but we got in got wet got out, you did not linger in the shower lest you be called gay. It took a trip to Orient beach in St. Maarten for me to have dozens of other men to compare myself to. I am shorter than most longer than some but I no longer care I have no problem being nude with nudist.[/quote] That is an excellent attitude. We have what we have so be proud of it.
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  • ME
    Member
    Oct 10, 2017

    Mm sign me up for the long dong lol

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  • ME
    Member
    Oct 15, 2017

    I'm a former professional athlete meaning I've been in many a college and pro locker rooms . that being said I have seen few if any cocks smaller than mine in the locker room . it doesn't matter that doesn't measure you as a man. penis size only is what God gave you you can be a big man with a little penis. If you don't believe me look at my profile pics of of my wife of 35 years .....gorgeous

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  • MI
    Milkman1
    Oct 15, 2017

    U have what u have some woman dont like big
    iam thick when hard shaved big mushroom head
    everyone is different size

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  • NA
    naturist_gn2474
    Oct 21, 2017

    I agree completely with everything that you've said in your post. I was ridiculed as a young man and even as an adult I have been teased once in the men's room at the local Gay club! That did sting...okay it hurt but since I've embraced nudism I've found that all of my body image issues have improved. I'm finally comfortable in my own skin.

    Over the last 10 years I've gone from a top weight of 388 lbs. right after my divorce from my ex wife to my current 260 lbs. Nothing like realizing I was miserable because of the unhappy marriage to help me lose. I've not made a concerted effort to lose the weight, which also made my little willie look all the smaller. Now my body issues are focused on the excess skin I have due to losing the weight. I guess what I'm trying to say is we are all our worst critics. The only other choice is being a narcissist. I'll take my insecurities over that any day.

    We all need to learn to love who we are. I don't know of anyone that doesn't have insecurities about something. Nudism has helped me so very much to live a more fulfilled life. I have found the self acceptance I had lacked by forcing myself to expose the very things about my body I was most insecure about. I found acceptance from others and because of that I found acceptance of my own body. What an incredible gift that has been.
    Cheers,
    Steve

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