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Married but spouse not into

Does spouse know or do you do on side?

Publicado Jan 7, 2009

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dav555
dav555Autor original
Jan 7, 2009

Are you supported at all? Or do you do when they are not around?

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  • MI
    minimalist75
    Aug 22, 2019

    My wife is fine with me being nude in the house and inside the privacy fence when it is just the 2 of us, and also OK with me swimming and sunning nude when our adult son who lives with us is in the house. While she is aware that I "sometimes" go to a nude beach, I don't think she knows it is actually "usually"

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  • MI
    Miembro
    Feb 24, 2020

    My wife is not into being nude at all. She takes a shower in the nude and immediately gets dressed.
    I on the other hand get naked as soon as I get to my camper. I work away from home most of the time and live in my camper. She kinda knows I like being nude but not to the depth.
    I have been to several nudist places and absolutely loved it.

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  • MI
    Miembro
    May 28, 2020

    To use your term, I do it on the side. When she catches me nude she demands I get dressed. So at home only when I know shell be gone for several hours or even days. I do take days to hike and fish in the forest north of Atlanta and occasionally hike nude. And sometimes Ill visit a nudist club nearby.

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  • BA
    bazzer1949
    May 29, 2020

    My wife isn't keen on me being nude around here. Yesterday on her way out she said "you can get your kit off now", lol. As soon as she was gone I was naked and enjoying the relaxing feeling of being nude.

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  • MI
    Miembro
    Jun 2, 2020

    My wife doesn't know. I wish I could tell her, I don't like keeping secrets from her. But I can't ignore my interest in naturism.

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  • LO
    locksmithjim
    Jul 31, 2020

    She is always clothed, but doesn't care what my state on (un)dress is.

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  • 4N
    Feb 1, 2021

    Not around

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  • 4N
    Feb 1, 2021

    Not around

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  • TO
    tool54
    Oct 28, 2021

    No my wife does not know I am on here or that I am a nudist. I enjoy being nude but she does not and says that we should only be seen naked by each other and not by anyone else. I would so much like to be with other people who are naked.

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  • BA
    bazzer1949
    Oct 29, 2021

    My wife knows I'm a nudist but doesn't understand why. She figured out I went nude on holiday once when she went back to the hotel and I stayed at the beach, she said she didn't mind if I took my shorts off, so I told her I had and enjoyed it. What she doesn't know is that I had been going nude for years on holiday when I went for a walk. She knows I'm nude when she is out or first thing in the morning when she is still in bed, I sleep nude so it's easier for me to be nude in the morning.
    But what she doesn't know is that I visit this and other nudist sites and sometimes show myself nude for others to see on cam.

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  • HI
    Hickguy
    Dec 15, 2021

    My wife knows I am a nudist. I have always slept nude, I go on the Big Nude Boat cruises, attend local nudists evens and have gone nude at the National Forest which accepts nudes. Beautful, even though lots of clothed hikers stare, so I stand up and pose for them! HAH!
    Big Nude Hugs
    Hickguy

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  • LO
    Lobster1
    Dec 15, 2021

    My wife knows I enjoy being nude. In the beginning she was uncomfortable with me being naked around the house but as time and talk went on she doesnt seem to mind anymore. Im working on getting her to try it, but all I get is I am not happy with my body and no one wants to see it anyway. So until I can change her mind Im on my own. She has no idea that Im on a website for nudist and my pics are in my profile.. maybe someday I will let her know.

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  • BA
    bazzer1949
    Dec 16, 2021

    My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.

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  • MI
    minimalist75
    Dec 16, 2021
    [quote]My wife knows I go nude at home when she's out and on beach when possible, but she doesn't know how long I've been going nude, nor that I am on this site and have nude pics on my profile. As for being nude too, she has always said no.[/quote] She doesn't even want you to be nude when just the two of you are home? My wife is rarely nude at home, doesn't want me nude when others are here, and doesn't want to see anyone else nude, but luckily is fine with me being nude when it is just the two of us.
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  • HI
    Hickguy
    Dec 17, 2021

    My wife knows I love nudism and she tolerates my nudity and going to nudist events. I always sleep nude.
    Wonderful tolerant woman!
    Hickguy

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  • AR
    Arnudist
    Jan 15, 2023

    Mine doesnt know how much I practice. Shes ok w me going naked at home sometimes. But has no idea that I drive nude almost every morning to the trails to hike naked. Lol

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  • MI
    minimalist75
    Jan 15, 2023
    [quote]Mine doesnt know how much I practice. Shes ok w me going naked at home sometimes. But has no idea that I drive nude almost every morning to the trails to hike naked. Lol[/quote] Do you just tell her that you are going for a hike without specifying that you will be doing it nude? I take a similar approach with my wife and going to the beach. I told her once that I sometimes go to at nude beach and she was accepting of that. What she doesn't know is that in the past 7 years I have worn a swimsuit on a NJ beach 3 times, all of them because I was going with my sister. I am so used to being nude on the beach that one time, on the first day of a vacation, I went to the local beach without my wife, set up my chair,, took of my t shirt and sandals, and instinctively reached down to remove my swimsuit. Luckily, I stopped just in time. My wife only goes to the beach when we are traveling, and even then, does so rarely.
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  • WI
    wildwilly1
    Jan 15, 2023

    I'm feeling a deep sense of sympathy for you gents whose wives don't share your nakedness much or at all. I used to date a woman who "dressed" that way and let me tell you, it truly stifled my desires in so many ways. Lucky for me she understood my deep desire to be bare whenever the sun was coming through the window so I could "lizard", soaking in all of the rays I could for as long as they streamed in, sometimes even following the sun from one window of her house the the next. It set me up for the craving for more and when the moment came for my first nude beach back in 2004 I was a goner. That became a moment I would revisit many times in the coming years, a revelation of spirit I had to have more of, culminating today in a living arrangement which allows me to be nude all the time. Oh the joy! But back to the chronology I travel.

    In 2005 I began searching for more avenues in nature for skin in the sun and found a specific, somewhat unpopular on the weekdays, hiking trail and got my tail in the warmth of Sol plenty. I didn't tell her about all of my ventures, partly because some of them ended up as exhibitionism. The hike never turned naughty, but at another, less secluded spot I found to tan at, I started getting caught by other people and they assumed I was there and bare to be sexual. My exhibitionist tendencies loved those stranger's eyes on me. But those secrets kept from my gf weren't good for the relationship and I knew it, and they almost entirely remained secrets. I know now that those omissions helped undermine our connection. I sometimes wonder whether, if she'd been more comfortable in joining in on the nudity she saw me thriving in, if our relationship could have been better cemented. I'm thankful in retrospect that she didn't have the interest, because there were many things between us besides my desire for nudism in which we just didn't gel well.

    I hope some of you men have the chance to confide your secrets and it helps your connection grow.

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  • MI
    minimalist75
    May 5, 2024
    [quote]While my wife is not interested in nudism, she is comfortable and supportive of my desire to be naked. It wasnt easy though as I was only naked around the house when she was out. I took a very incremental approach starting with sleeping nude. Next, I started swimming my laps without my suit. Finally, I really opened the door one day with approaching her about my desire to live naked. Surprisingly. she told me that she is not comfortable with it but I should go for it. I decided that I would respect her approval by not being naked all the time. She now jokes about it wondering why Im dressed or when am I going to get undressed. She left the other day reminding me to be careful as she was expected several deliveries! Gotta to love her attitude![/quote] Similar to my progression except swimming in the evening lead to sleeping instead of the other way around. My wife often changes into her pajamas early in the evening. One of my lines when I was starting to spend more time nude at home was when she was changing into her pajamas, I would say that since she was in her sleepwear I might as well be in my and take off everything but my wedding ring. It has also gotten to the point in our house that in warm weather, if I stay dressed for more than a few minutes when I get home, my wife will ask if I am planning to go out again soon.
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  • AR
    Arnudist
    May 14, 2024

    My wife knows but I honestly dont think she knows the extent of my nudism. She knows I enjoy being nude but for instance she doesnt knowing run nude every morning. I am hell bent on running naked every morning now. It seems wrong to even where clothes when Im out jogging.

    Adam

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  • MI
    minimalist75
    May 14, 2024
    [quote]My wife is fine with me being nude in the house and inside the privacy fence when it is just the 2 of us, and also OK with me swimming and sunning nude when our adult son who lives with us is in the house. While she is aware that I "sometimes" go to a nude beach, I don't think she knows it is actually "usually"[/quote] Actually since I posted this 5 years ago, I have been to a clothing required beach in NJ once, and that was 4 years ago when I went with my sister. I do go to clothed beaches when traveling, but usually wear a tan through swim brief to keep the clothing to a minimum.
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  • MI
    minimalist75
    May 14, 2024
    [quote]My wife knows but I honestly dont think she knows the extent of my nudism. She knows I enjoy being nude but for instance she doesnt knowing run nude every morning. I am hell bent on running naked every morning now. It seems wrong to even where clothes when Im out jogging. Adam[/quote] Does she know that you are running every morning but not that you are running nude?
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  • YR
    Yrich005
    May 14, 2024

    My wife is also not a nudist, but overtime has gotten comfortable with me being nude. When we moved to Texas and our neighborhood was in early development, I was able to run nude in the morning and it was great! She wasn't aware of that, but over the year she became more acceptable of my home nudity. She kind of freaked out when I did my first public nude 5k, but after talking about it she now encourages me to go and enjoy these social nude events. I don't think I'll be able to get her to go with me, but will keep trying. As our kids our grown and out of the house, I'm nude most of the time and lucky to be able to work a few WFH days nude. Most of the homes in Texas have little privacy, but I've found a way to be nude around our pool and my wife questions when I have a swimsuit on (HA).

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  • MI
    mikezavala
    May 17, 2024

    My wife goes to resorts with me. At home it depends on how she feels. But i go nude at home also.

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