I've always wished that their was a strict custom that you MUST COMPLETELY disrobe when entering a nudists home and stay completely nude for the duration of the visit in the same manner as when you enter a Japanese persons home you must take your shoes off and keep them off...
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- PI
Jul 31, 2016We totally agree.My husband and I are always naked in our home.We wish when people come over they get naked instead of us getting dress.
ReactReply - GL
Jul 31, 2016I am usually not that strict. But maybe I should be. After all - whenever I visit the home of a vegetarian I am expected to eat like a vegetation although I am a non-vegetarian. And I gladly adjust to their practice.
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Jul 31, 2016[quote]We totally agree.My husband and I are always naked in our home.We wish when people come over they get naked instead of us getting dress.[/quote] I would love that! My fiance and I wish we knew more people like thatReactReply - MEMemberJul 31, 2016[quote][quote]I've always wished that their was a strict custom that you MUST COMPLETELY disrobe when entering a nudists home and stay completely nude for the duration of the visit in the same manner as when you enter a Japanese persons home you must take your shoes off and keep them off...[/quote]umm...you'd not get many visitors if that were the case[/quote]I am good either way . . . if they aren't comfortable disrobing then so be it . . . I'd prefer they would but I respect anybody's feelings on such. I've enjoyed visitors while being the only nude person in the house and I have enjoyed fabulous afternoons/evenings socializing in the buff . . .the lot of us. jyReactReply
- GL
Jul 31, 2016[quote]I am usually not that strict. But maybe I should be. After all - whenever I visit the home of a vegetarian I am expected to eat like a vegetation although I am a non-vegetarian. And I gladly adjust to their practice.[/quote] In the name of reciprocity and mutual respect - since I am expected to adjust to their lifestyle by cooking vegetarian food when they are coming over to my house - shouldn't I be able to expect them to remove their clothes when I am coming over to visit them - or at least allow me to be naked? ;-)ReactReply - TE
Jul 31, 2016I agree with the principal idea BUT not all would agree with being naked when visiting a naturists home as they maybe on the shy side or worried that others may see them or children about. I for one would be quite happy to strip off when visiting naturists as I feel comfortable naked when and where ever I can be.ReactReply - PM
Jul 31, 2016Although this would probably keep the Mother in Law from dropping in at the worst times, I don't feel you can force your beliefs or opinions on others. We might be comfortable nude, but many others are not. I think it's disrespectful to force them into what is comfortable for you when they are a guest.Food is a good analogy. I have severe gastro-intestinal problems, and what I can eat safely is pretty limited. If I go to someone's house and they are eating something I cannot have, I politely decline. To force it on me could be disastrous.ReactReply - GL
Jul 31, 2016It goes without saying that food allergies and other medical conditions must always be respected. When introducing the food analogy I was referring to voluntary lifestyle choices - which I also respect. Some people prefer to live their life without eating meat while others prefer to live theirs without wearing clothes - and there is overlap between the two groups. I am sad that the nudist lifestyle is often the one that is most misunderstood and therefore the least respected.ReactReply - KI
Jul 31, 2016Too harsh of a rule. What if one of your friends was a clown and made all his visitors wear clown paint to enter his home?ReactReply - MEMemberAug 1, 2016[quote]Too harsh of a rule. What if one of your friends was a clown and made all his visitors wear clown paint to enter his home?
[/quote]Match Point hahaReactReply - MJ
Aug 1, 2016pizzacouple I would get naked in your home no issues there. You live in the state next door to me.ReactReply - GL
Aug 1, 2016[quote]Too harsh of a rule. What if one of your friends was a clown and made all his visitors wear clown paint to enter his home?
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If clownism was a lifestyle as established as nudism - why not !ReactReply - BO
Aug 1, 2016I just go with the mood at the moment. While I'm completely comfortable being naked at home, I give any visitors an opt-out. Depending on the visitor I may dress as well (but not be happy about it!)
ReactReply - OL
Aug 1, 2016It would be good if there was a rule to be naked in nudist surroundings. But we know it often does not happen - just look around some nudist resorts in the evenings. I'm always naked when I welcome nudist visitors. They usually strip off on arrival, which is good for both/all of us. But I'm quite happy if they prefer to stay clothed. And when visiting friends I take the lead from my host.ReactReply - MEMemberAug 3, 2016One of the big arguments that we keep hearing is that it's unfair that people will not allow us to be naked wherever and whenever we wish.
It would be so hypocritical of us to therefore insist that textiles have to undress when visiting a nudist.
I would be happy if everywhere was just clothing optional and then everyone could be happy (how naive am I?)ReactReply - MEMemberAug 3, 2016[quote]One of the big arguments that we keep hearing is that it's unfair that people will not allow us to be naked wherever and whenever we wish.
It would be so hypocritical of us to therefore insist that textiles have to undress when visiting a nudist.
I would be happy if everywhere was just clothing optional and then everyone could be happy (how naive am I?)
[/quote]Agree am also very naiveReactReply - MEMemberAug 3, 2016I don't see the practicability of it. The riffs it would create would severely out weigh the pleasantness of being nude. Last night as we just arrived home from work my son stopped in with his girlfriend who we have only met twice previously. In the topic's scenario what were we to do, strip down and advise her to do the same as it's proper for you to be naked as it's home of nudist?ReactReply
- NU
nudetopian52Original PosterAug 3, 2016Yeah, but being nude should be a fundamental human right, just like being black. We all have the same two body parts and we know what the other persons parts look like even if we never saw that person nude before. Now their are even laws in place for transgender people to use the bathroom of the opposite sex - why not go all the way and have communal showers and changing rooms? Sorry got a bit off subject their...
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nudetopian52Original PosterAug 3, 2016Anyone see that movie Starshiptroopers where communal showers are normal in the future?
ReactReply - GA
Aug 4, 2016well i imagine it would cut down on friends visiting so i'd be ok with the idea but wouldn't expect a non nudist to disrobe, i have a few friend that wheni visit them i get nude when i walk in but i'm there for sunbathing, pool, hottub etc anyways.
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