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- EX
Oct 31, 2016Depends on his and your intentions. If the shared intent is sexual, go with it. If there isn't a sexual intent, return the gesture, then step back. Touching my cock is not a standard part of conversations for me. Neither is touching someone else's. If such things happen during a conversation comparing dicks, I think it's ok then too, but otherwise I wouldn't appreciate the groping.
ReactReply - NA
Dec 9, 2016Uninvited touching is never okay. I would step back and remind him that it was creepy. And I am a gay man.
ReactReply - 00
May 9, 2017[quote]Uninvited touching is never okay. I would step back and remind him that it was creepy. And I am a gay man.[/quote] I am not sure I would use the word "creepy", but I would mention that just because one is naked it doesn't mean it is okay to grope.ReactReply - RI
May 11, 2017Definitely creepy! Unless you have already been talking about it or sharing some kind of vibe. I once instinctively kicked a guy that groped me before realising he seemed like an otherwise nice guy, but obviously wasn't much of a conversation.
ReactReply - BA
Apr 8, 2018It happened to me once at the nude beach. I was there with my boyfriend, who went for a walk. Some guy came up and started chatting with me as I was sitting in my chair. I was fine with it until he grabbed my dick. I brushed his hand away and he apologized. Our conversation wasnt remotely sexual in nature and I wasnt doing anything to lead him on. I thought it was kind of ballsy to just grab another guys dick. Now, if the context lends itself for such an action, then ok, but to do it out of nowhere, and on a public beach, yes thats creepy.
ReactReply - SH
Aug 20, 2018Yeah its creepy and unsettling to me if someone just comes up out of nowhere and grabs my junk like that. That's not how you communicate with people.
ReactReply - SH
Aug 20, 2018I actually had a situation in a hot tub one time. There was a group of us having a decent conversation. The guy sitting next to me was a bit under the influence of alcohol. He was was wondering where his husband was. Not withstanding the rest of the group was conversing well. It was one of those hot tubs that the temperature was a bit too high so I sat up on the rail. The next thing I knew I had a head in my lap and a mouth on my member. It took a few seconds to get my senses. The same guy who was looking for his husband was now preoccupied with another task. It was a bit creepy. I gently reached down and lifted his head out of my lap. Fortunately one of the guys in the tub recognized my shock of it. He became my partner for that moment. I don't think anyone wanted a jealous husband rushing the scene. One good thing about it the guy who stepped up to my aide has become a good friend. We have been making an annual camping event since then. So yes it is a bit creepy and awkward to be touched uninvited.
ReactReply - CU
Mar 12, 2019I think that it would be very bad and tell him to stop and lets talk and learn more about each other. But if took his had away and we we talked more then I would sure consider more touching and maybe more
ReactReply - TO
Apr 16, 2019Curious Senior - I am on your side. Agree with your position and observation on touching.
ReactReply - TOApr 16, 2019
I'm with you. If done in a natural way and not a grab and grope, then rock on, I'm a welcoming receiver.
ReactReply - MEMemberApr 16, 2019
If I visit a men's sauna (or SOP) I would expect to have my arse rubbed, or balls/cock fondled as I walked around naked or with a miniscule towel wrapped around me.
If I am at a nude beach or naked get together I would not expect it or invite it, I am there to relax and enjoy the freedom of being naked in the sun or social gathering.
Yes I enjoy looking at other naked guys, seeing what they have in the nether regions but unless I invite touch would not expect it and particularly not in the public arena.
That is why so many great clothing optional beaches have closed.
There is a time and place for sex/touching as there is a time and place for simply enjoying being naked around others.
Have fun guys and enjoy being naked, whichever scenario you are in.
ReactReply - NU
May 19, 2019[quote]If a Nude Man Grabs your Penis....Do You Resist It Or Let Him Hold It?[/quote] If he is intentionally interested and knows how to ask with his body and eyes and waits for permission of course. Otherwise no.ReactReply - OL
Jun 4, 2019I agree that the normal situation amongst nudists is that we can look but not touch. It disturbs the relaxed, open vulnerability of being naked amongst other nudists. Why abuse that vulnerability by touching without permission? If a guy asks about my genital piercings I will gauge the situation andmaygive him permission to explore. I will only touch another mans cock if I know it's a sexual situation - if he's already erect.ReactReply - MEMemberJun 4, 2019
For me, respect and communication are important. So is context.
If we are one on one, and there is some interest, there does need to be some level of understanding or permission.
If it's a group situation, and someone gropes without any previous interaction, that would be unwanted and not respect and I am not ok with it.
So many things can be accomplished by communicating.
ReactReply - SI
Jun 5, 2019Would you feel it appropriate to grab a woman by the pussy without her consent? That would be considered assault. Same goes here. I think the morals in our society have been eroding in the last few years .
ReactReply - SA
Jun 5, 2019To me there are only 2 reasons to handle another mans penis. One is for sexual reasons and the other is medical. Other than that there is no reason to touch it.
ReactReply - MEMemberJan 15, 2020
I think you just enjoy the time IF it is in a place that it is OK for just two to relax and touch.
ReactReply - CH
Jan 18, 2020A naked man touching my cock? - I would be delighted and would encourage him to go further! I don't get the opportunities enough to play! As we both would be nude it would develop into something very satisfying.
In that environment I would act as an exhibitionist and invite that kibd of attention. Maybe fortunate to have several guys vying to play with my cock!ReactReply - CHJan 18, 2020How about this?
Yes I do fancy nude wrestling and that will include all types of holdReactReply - DA
Jan 21, 2020By all means do play with my cock, if im naked and happy with other nudists i don't see any problems
ReactReply - DA
Jan 28, 2020His is a very fond memory of mine in particular. A group of us were in a friends hot tub. Soaking, talking and generally having fun. The fellow next to me was the host and a good friend. He and his wife were partners in a cabin we had at the local nudist park. His wife was very bi, but thats another story. Anyway as I set next to him he reached over and was stroking my leg, it never went farther but I wonder to this day if I would have reciprocated what might have happened.
ReactReply - DAJan 28, 2020
His is a very fond memory of mine in particular. A group of us were in a friends hot tub. Soaking, talking and generally having fun. The fellow next to me was the host and a good friend. He and his wife were partners in a cabin we had at the local nudist park. His wife was very bi, but thats another story. Anyway as I set next to him he reached over and was stroking my leg, it never went farther but I wonder to this day if I would have reciprocated what might have happened.
ReactReply - OLFeb 1, 2020
I have reached over and stroked a man's thigh who was sat next to me naked. It did definitely go further.
Incidentally a good single malt whisky is a good chaser after swallowing a man's cum
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