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- MEMemberFeb 2, 2020
Touching of any sort without consent is not appropriate in any situation. I've had it happen in a few places and I just place my hand in my genital area and slowly force his hand away. I will make eye contact and shake my head slightly to indicate 'no'. In public places, it is totally inappropriate and is what gives nudity among men a bad rap unless it's 'allowed' and you go there for that reason. In a private situation that's where it can get tricky but in general, I keep a more than hands distance away. Some guys take it that you are given a signal that if you are within a common personal space, you are open to touch.
Given the example of a hot tub and you are in tight quarters, and the gathering is social in nature, touching is not appropriate even if it's consent by both individuals. Others at the gathering are not there for that type of experience and may turn out that you're 'play' will turn away others from nudity. As the question was put, you have to put it into the context of the situation but without my consent, it's always inappropriate.
ReactReply - OL
Feb 2, 2020I think you are more the exception than the rule. I've never had a man reject my touch, nor what happens next.
ReactReply - AN
Feb 4, 2020When I am naked in public I am completely open to everyone. Averybody can be touched my penis, mye ass, stroking my body. I can be touched and a dressed men, I do not mind. If a stranger naked man grabs up my penis, no problem! I will answer the same. But I myself will not do this first.
ReactReply - MJ
Apr 17, 2020well... it has never happened to me before and i do agree that there is a right place and a right time but actually I do like the idea of being touched unexpectedly.
ReactReply - ST
Apr 19, 2020the public beach i go to it is quite the norm to greet people with a nice firm cock shake an more
ReactReply - NU
Aug 31, 2021[quote]Uninvited touching is never okay. I would step back and remind him that it was creepy. And I am a gay man.[/quote] I agree. There's many ways to connect with people and non verbally too that are available to communicate intent and consent, and a well mannered and conscientious man is able to make a discrete erotic inquiry eyes only and fast discrete and unobtrusive with a response given equally smoothly. Anything else is disruptive in most of nude culture and certainly this isn't the behavior that is anticipated nor appreciated by most men at most times, is considered assault in a M F context and is effectively the same thing here, so why ask the question?ReactReply - NUAug 31, 2021[quote]Uninvited touching is never okay. I would step back and remind him that it was creepy. And I am a gay man. In essence you have to answer not as you want to experience it or not, but according to how those who are not going to react without trauma or anger to this fit in to the understanding of what's acceptable or notReactReply
- CH
May 20, 2023I knew a guy years ago that would do that instead of shaking hands. It was just his thing and with the group it was no big deal.
ReactReply - NU
May 29, 2023As along as all approve. Sounds like your group was cool about it. Then just enjoy.
ReactReply - NA
May 30, 2023I let him hold it for as long as he wants. It feels good, so why not?
ReactReply - TR
Dec 16, 2023As someone who loves touch and is very responsive to it, any naked man is welcome to touch and hold my penis, but whether or not I let him continue depends on if I like the guy or not. Rather than take it as a threat, I consider it a compliment. Many of my long term friendships in the nudist world have begun that way.
ReactReply - BU
Dec 7, 2024I may be the one grabbing... lol. I do love to do that with there permission but also like to be grabbed to.
ReactReply - MEMemberMar 7, 2025
If it's my nudist bro I'll let him touch it. I always believed friends should be sexually available to each other. I can't do everything with a guy but a little touching is fine. Just like I said if he's my nudist bro.
ReactReply - EU
Apr 13, 2025[quote]If it's my nudist bro I'll let him touch it. I always believed friends should be sexually available to each other..[/quote] so refreshing to hear thatReactReply - LI
Apr 22, 2025Well being the submissive beta that I am I would just let it happen it's my nature to be man handled by alpha males
ReactReply - MEMemberMay 15, 2025
I think I'll be a bad friend if I don't let me gay friend enjoy himself at least a little.
ReactReply - YA
Aug 1, 2026I would use caution and lean towards getting concent first. However, if a guy walked over and playfully touched or grabbed my penis, I would actually welcome it. I would also return the favor.
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