RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

Just taking our time. She visits the local c/o beach with me and
dresses however she feels comfortable at the moment. I have a lot more vacation time from work so I communicate
with her openly when I go to the the club or beach by myself. She expresses interest in joining me at the club and I am sure she will join
me when she is ready.

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RE: Curious and unsure

...Nude life is best shared, and a spouse or other life-partneris the first person your should share it with.
That is the heart of it right there, for me. I enjoy being nude with friends when my wife is not able to be there (like yesterday, when I spent the afternoon at the resort), but it is sooooo much more a great experiece when we share the nude time together.

Edit: Immediately after I hit "submit on the above, I read the area quoted to my sweet wife, and she responded an enthusiastic, "Well, it is. It makes it so much better."
Gator1

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RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

I would never think about pushing my wife into being naked, but I often think about pushing her off a high cliff, he,he,

I think all of our mates think that from time to time and I would believe that's a two-way street. LOL

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Getting your partner involved

Patience is the only way!!! My girlfriend ius slowly gettinbg there, & I want her to feel confortable while she "gets there"
& Cheri: I thought that article you wrote was great!! I'm going to show it to my GF!

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Patience is the only way!!! My girlfriend ius slowly gettinbg there, & I want her to feel confortable while she "gets there"& Cheri: I thought that article you wrote was great!! I'm going to show it to my GF!

Thank you. Rather than showing the brochure to your GF, leave it where she'll see it. It will have greater impact if she finds it herself.

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RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

A friend of us had Herpes....with the sporadic marks in her lower back. She was then an on/off nudist for a while and we couldn't understand why.
For her having herpes was a shame. She was worried of people giving her a ''reputation'' because of that.
We ''discovered'' when my wife was with her at a store shopping for some dresses... from that point on it slowly became a non-issue. With our acceptance and ''so-what'' attitude she started to forget about potential other peoples opinion.
Reluctance to nudity is never where or when you think it may be.
G. Hill

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RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

Pointless bump

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RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

If you have a reluctant mate, the answer is simple. Get a new mate, Problem solved.

That's not facing the issue/problem - deal with it. Nudism isn't for everyone but the reluctant mate might want to think his/her issues throughly through before offering any kind of ultimatum.

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@jackieinoz,
Your tale of first a confirmingly bad experience followed by a surprisingly good experience brings joy and hope to those of us with have other halves who are unable to accommodate the naturist way of life in a partner. Well done for giving it a second (and more) shot. I don't think it's necessary for all of us to do the same as everyone else, or even the same as our partner, but we do need to respect them and to be able to share time with them. Sometimes we have to put our prejudices and our "histories" aside to be able to do so. Very impressed with your experience, Jackie, good on yer! :-)
Rich.
https://www.naktiv.net/

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RE: when a mate is reluctant??????

I can relate as well - 34 years on Saturday. but I have only recently recognised that I am a nudist. Went last summer to a nudist resort. Wife is not interested, but does not try to restrict me. But I must say, she is nude in the house more lately. Who knows?

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