100% agree. But I think the problems deeper than the OP said. The lady in the picture is not covered by her own hands, but another persons.
Also, on the Home Page, two choices are offered. " I want to meet Nudists", or" I want to see nudist pictures"
Sounds kind of like a sideshow at a carnival.
Surly a better home page can be designed.
100% agree. But I think the problems deeper than the OP said. The lady in the picture is not covered by her own hands, but another persons.Also, on the Home Page, two choices are offered. " I want to meet Nudists", or" I want to see nudist pictures"Sounds kind of like a sideshow at a carnival.Surly a better home page can be designed.
That is the reason so many profiles are blank as they just joined to look at the photos in the gallery and find only they can see the first page.
Also there are far too many profiles on this site who are confused between nudity and sex and with the site owner also owning true swingers I think they get confused as well. I have pointed out blogs which are about sex to the site owner and they are still up. The only thing to make the site better is if members make comments about a member which are sexual/downgrading etc are kicked of this site to clean the site up.
Very well said Love2B! It really is a simple concept, respect; that far too many people seem to find difficult to comprehend, let alone practice. Hopefully, with the recent focus on sexual predators; our society as a whole, nudists/naturists and textiles alike; will make significant strides in correcting the societal attitude towards these crimes and restore the concept of respect for women in general.
The lack of respect and objectification of women (primarily) and men (increasingly, check out Abercrombie & Fitch) leads to a lack of respect of individuals. As good consumers, at least for men used to women being disregarded, we seldom speak up. So who could expect any change at a place where people have chosen to be naked and more vulnerable like a nudist resort? Let's show respect by speaking up to increase awareness of objectification and the lack of respect used to make people afraid enough to pay for more crap they don't need.
The thing that frustrates me is that this is a site that we as nudist go to talk with others and enjoy. Yet it seems a lot of people come here and say they are a nudist just so they can look at pictures all day and get turned on. It is more of a sexual thing for them. Just go through the gallery and you will see comment after comment on some guy commenting on some girl's body part and making it sexual.
Getting inappropriate comments, advances and being objectified, hit on, gawked at, space invaded is very tiresome and makes you feel very uncomfortable and unappreciated. And It's almost on a daily basis you get confronted with that kind of behaviour.
A little bit of respect goes a long way.
There is a proverb in German:
"Was du nicht willst, dass man dir tu, das fg auch keinem andern zu."
Translation with google:
What you do not want to be done to you, do not add to any other.
Write only comments that you would like to hear from others about you.