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Once children see a few erections they will be good with it????Seriously?Children come with parents, get an erection around children and see how good their parents are with it.You really need to rethink or preferably stay away from children all together.

Oh, and here you are again, as per usual, not a constructive comment from that mouth of yours !

Nudist parents who bring their kids up the same way, would have had the talk with them about the human body and how it works.

As per usual, you are making way more out of this than you need to, you have assumed that malintent is what's being talked about when it's not. Any real parents would have told their kids basic biology once they were old enough to ask questions and have it explained to them in a way they understand.

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Depends how big it is. If its tiny then you are in trouble.Or how long it lasts, that can be a bother too.Does it have a personality?Are you more than a prick with an idiot attached?If in doubt, put a bit of metal around it. Make it shine. Make it a star.It might not be the most impressive limp dick, but at least youll enjoy the knowledge that Its making someone laugh.

Oh give it a rest you morons !

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Just a few thoughts - I have been a naturist for quite some time. I completely enjoy being a man as well. Sometimes it is quite frustrating suppressing natural instincts. Is that true naturism? In true honesty is there shame in erections? I look forward to responses from my brothers in skin.....

Being a man and having erections is perfectly normal ! Our natural instincts, although, can be dependant on a given situation, but, if it's a bunch of guys together, regardless of their sexuality, erections happening and being seen by one and all should not be a problem.

It would only be a problem if there was more intent to that erection than it simply happening, straight, gay, bi or whatever, it only takes one to become erect and others will follow, it's normal between a bunch of guys. As we all know they come in all shapes and sizes, if someone or all in the group admire what they see, so be it, who gives a shit ? It's just an erection, nothing more.

Yes, the message and answers to this group are up to a year old, but who cares ! In the context of this question being an all male gathering, there should never be a problem at seeing another guy erect.

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There's a time and place for nudity and erections. As social creatures, we need to filter what circumstances are appropriate and inappropriate. There are no hard and fast rules. I like to think it's about respecting others. Re=twice, spect=to look at; respect=looking at twice. I personally think erections are related to a healthy blood flow and normal and healthy for men around men. Shoulders back, chin up, cock high, be proud!

If we look at his context in and of his question, there was no specific area or location mentioned, see below his words.

Just a few thoughts - I have been a naturist for quite some time. I completely enjoy being a man as well. Sometimes it is quite frustrating suppressing natural instincts. Is that true naturism? In true honesty is there shame in erections? I look forward to responses from my brothers in skin.....

He's only asking of naturism in general, not on a beach or a nudist resort etc. There should be no shame in guys getting erections, no one is advocating that it becomes the norm in all situations. Take his question with an open mind and read the question properly.

As men, we should not be shamed by anyone for getting or having erections, they are normal and right, as said above, Shoulders Back, Chin Up, Cock High and be proud.

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Thanks for all of the responses... I find it fascinating that so many so many find it easy to pass judgement on men alone due to anatomy. From what I can gather, seeing as The female body has to visible response to arousal, they must be pure as the driven snow. Personally - so long as no one is harmed I see NO shame in human anatomy in any state. People are tall and short, thin and chubby, hairy and smooth, and the list goes on and on... As far as intent goes - no one can seriously believe that humans in a nude setting have no adult urges or thoughts. I simply say - live and let live. From what I can gather - nudity in a same sex environment appears to be far more accepting and most likely more comfortable...... We are men not predators! just fed up with everyone being offended by everything all of the time even in judgment free zones.... I miss Burning Man - the only true judgement free zone I have know yet!

Using basic biology, although it's not as obvious that women are more or less visible in their arousal, both men and women get erect nipples, it's only more obvious in a woman because they have bigger nipples than most guys, but, lets not forget that when women are aroused, their labia become more plump/engorged, if they are sat legs akimbo, and you can see everything, this area will become more pink as more blood flows into the area, and it can be seen easily enough, clitoral engorgement is an obvious sign too.

The only real difference is that when a guy bets a boner, it sticks out from the body, not inwards as with a female ! Women are not as pure as driven snow, they can be just as horny as any man.

As stated above, no one can seriously believe that humans in a nude setting have no adult urges or thoughts. I will state for a FACT that those adult urges are there and very active, they are only being repressed because of the setting the nudism is in, such as a resort or a beach, which is the right thing to do in that situation. You can't tell me that a few guys or even women won't tootle off and relieve themselves via orgasm because they have seen something or someone they like the look of. I'm certainly not that stupid and neither are most people.

In the setting of it being an all male gathering, then so what if one or a few or all the guys get boners, it's just an erection, not a shag fest !! And , as is stated above, we males are not all predators, that's a basic assumption that an erection means ANY guy wants or is after sex, which is so far from the truth. Ladies, you would have to be a man to understand the male erection and any possible reason behind that penis becoming engorged. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups !!

Or, put simply, don't assume a boner is there to cause harm, disruption or anything else. It's a man thing, that no woman will understand unless she has a dick, and no, I'm not being sexist with that comment.

All this "I'm offended" crap is because of stupid prude attitudes and the damn snowflakes who can't accept themselves as a naked human being, without seeing more than what they are looking at, their own naked form. What you got to hide or be ashamed of ? Nothing as far as I can see, free yourselves and enjoy !

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Once children see a few erections they will be good with it????Seriously?Children come with parents, get an erection around children and see how good their parents are with it.It seems that my reply to this got lost somehow, or possibly deleted by the mods, so I'll try again:If I were that parent, and my kids asked me why that man had an erection, I would tell them honestly that it's something that men get sometimes, and that's it's no big thing. If they asked why it happens, I might say that sometimes it makes them feel good, and sometimes it's just something that happens for no reason at all.If the kids aren't at the age where they're interested in sex, that should be explanation enough. If they're beyond that point and want to know more, then it's time for that talk about "the birds and the bees." By that age, they're entitled to know that there was often a sexual component to it, and that it sometimes, but not always, signifies arousal, and to be more careful with that person and to let me know if they have reason to doubt that person's intentions.In both cases, an answer like "It isn't something to talk about" or "I don't want to talk about it" or "Don't look at that" is exactly the wrong answer. Part of the reason that our culture is so screwed up when it comes to sex is that there isn't honest and open communication about the subject with our kids. It just forces them to learn what they want to know from other, more inferior sources like porn or their peers.

Damn well said.

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Nobody in this thread, nobody on TN, is saying you have to be ashamed.

With all due respect to you. Steveilorna, are spouting just that ! His/her comments are nothing but pure ignorance and arrogance.

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Its not an issue because naturists dont display them

Oh my dear, you are so F@@KING wrong on that little line. Yes they do, whether discreetly or in plain view. You are either completely ignorant or blind.

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J, if a guy has an erection and doesnt flaunt it and doesnt draw attention to it then no one notices.We are on the same page mate.Its just all these internet guys just want to keep mentioning their need to have erections. Little boys. Proud little boys. Their little penis is special. Must make others aware its special. If it gets big I might attract a woooooman.Pathetic really.

You butthead ! All these internet guys, mentioning the need to have erections ! This thread is nothing to do with that whatsoever, as usual, you misread the whole point. Don't tell me you don't wiggle yours about to get your woman excited and in the mood, no matter where you are, you are no different to any other man on here, so don't make yourself out to be THAT pure, pompous ass !

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This reminds me of a situation I had back in the summer. With a free sunny day I headed off to my local beach to enjoy the sunshine. After about an hour I headed down to the sea for a dip. Coming out of the sea I saw three guys chatting and recognised one as someone I have previously spoken with. As I approached them I noticed that one guy, who was very well endowed, had a pierced dick. He was telling the other two about the piercing and as we stood there I realised that the guy I knew was getting a full erection. Now whilst I have never considered my self gay, or bi, before I know it I was also getting erect. Maybe it was because we were focusing on the guys pierced dick, or seeing another guy erect, but there was nothing I could do and soon I was standing there fully erect. I apologised but the other guys said not to worry as it was only natural whilst the other guy who had an erection just laughed. I felt awkward and walked away but that meant walking back up the beach with an erection. I felt very conscious, and vulnerable, but nobody made any adverse comments. In fact, as weird as it sounds, it was kind of liberating as a I have always wondered what I would do if I got an erection whilst naked. So it it happens to you I would say dont worry about it. We all know our dicks can have a mind of their own and its a totally natural thing which can happy to anyone.

This gentleman's words are exactly right. Read before you comment.

what he explains had nothing to do with it being sexual, at all, the situation itself brought his erection on, wasn't him wanting to get off with the pierced guys dick or anything like that. Erections happen sometimes, and he found the whole experience liberating. Read this right and you will learn something from one mans experience that it's a perfectly normal thing to happen.

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