Proud Male

Just a few thoughts - I have been a naturist for quite some time. I completely enjoy being a man as well. Sometimes it is quite frustrating suppressing natural instincts. Is that true naturism? In true honesty is there shame in erections? I look forward to responses from my brothers in skin.....

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RE:Proud Male

Depends how big it is. If its tiny then you are in trouble.

Or how long it lasts, that can be a bother too.

Does it have a personality?

Are you more than a prick with an idiot attached?

If in doubt, put a bit of metal around it. Make it shine. Make it a star.

It might not be the most impressive limp dick, but at least youll enjoy the knowledge that Its making someone laugh.

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There's a time and place for nudity and erections. As social creatures, we need to filter what circumstances are appropriate and inappropriate. There are no hard and fast rules. I like to think it's about respecting others. Re=twice, spect=to look at; respect=looking at twice. I personally think erections are related to a healthy blood flow and normal and healthy for men around men. Shoulders back, chin up, cock high, be proud!

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Nah, Im similar. I dont get a chance to be nude around a lot of people very often, but enjoy it when I do. Yes, at times it can get me aroused, I dont think it is not normal for most men to feel that way. Frankly I think most like the nude lifestyle for the arousal on occasion, even if it is not a physically seen arousal. Probably why many married nudists are uncomfortable around single guys because of what they might be thinking. Just my opinion but I am not a very experienced social nudist, so maybe a little short sighted.

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I've had a penis and testicles attached to my body for quite a while now, so I think I'm qualified to speak on this matter ;)

I've been to many male only places and it's very different and sometimes a relief and refreshing. A brotherhood of sorts can quickly develop among men of all sexual orientations. I'm talking about non-sexually charged locations. Just men being men with no critique or judgement from the opposite sex, whether it's real or perceived...

When spontaneous erections occur, I think most men get it. We all have penises and know that sometimes they'll do magic tricks all on their own. Many women don't understand this.

If an erection pops up, especially if it's just a chub at an all male location, it's seriously not a big deal. Throw women into the mix and that's when people start freaking the F out.

A boner or semi-boner doesn't necessarily mean the dude it's attached to is looking for sex or having sexual thoughts at that very moment. Of course it could mean just that but it doesn't have to.

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I've had a penis and testicles attached to my body for quite a while now, so I think I'm qualified to speak on this matter ;)I've been to many male only places and it's very different and sometimes a relief and refreshing. A brotherhood of sorts can quickly develop among men of all sexual orientations. I talking about non-sexually charged locations. Just men being men with no critique or judgement from the opposite sex, whether it's real or perceived...When spontaneous erections occur, I think most men get it. We all have penises and know that sometimes they'll do magic tricks all on their own. Many women don't understand this.If an erection pops up, especially if it's just a chub at an all male location, it's seriously not a big deal. Throw women into the mix and that's when people start freaking the F out.A boner or semi-boner doesn't necessarily mean the dude it's attached to is looking for sex or having sexual thoughts at that very moment. Of course it could mean just that but it doesn't have to.

Perfectly stated with a bit of humor! Two thumbs up!

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Others have said it, probably better than I will, but I think it depends on the place and situation. AANR used to have a saying about nudity that I think is appropriate here. Paraphrasing, it was something like...Go naked where it's expected and accepted. (I wish it were accepted everywhere but we're not there...yet!) I think the same thing is generally true about erections in social situations. At men-only resorts, at gay sections of nude beaches, and other adult-only venues, I think erections are both expected, from time to time, and accepted. The only catch is that at National Seashore beaches, National parks, and federal Forest Service lands, rangers may view an erection as an attempt to be "lewd and lascivious" (the magic legal words) and you could be warned, issued a citation, or arrested. At AANR resorts, it's frowned upon and could result in you being asked to leave. But I have been to two AANR resorts where two men had spontaneous erections pop up. One covered himself until it subsided and the other was napping and must have been having a vivid dream. In each case, no one really cared. I think the biggest issues are in places where you could run across children. Some parents may worry about pedophilia and others may not have had "the talk" with their kids and don't know how to address their reactions and questions. In the end, I think your feelings give you good reason to try to have a nude party at your place, a friend's place, or maybe rent an AirBnB (with a nice pool), and invite friends with similar feelings where you all can get nakedand wear your erections proudly.

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Men get erections.
It's not a big deal.
Anybody trying to shame it is a weird-o and has issues.

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i love being the true nudist but theres times with some friends its good to be open about semis and full erections....

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RE:Proud Male

Just a few thoughts - I have been a naturist for quite some time. I completely enjoy being a man as well. Sometimes it is quite frustrating suppressing natural instincts. Is that true naturism? In true honesty is there shame in erections? I look forward to responses from my brothers in skin.....

Personally speaking, erections for me happen because of my state of mind. If I'm sexually aroused, an erection happens. If I happen to be naked in a social setting...no erections.

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People get way too anxious over seeing an erection. It's never the erection itself that's the problem; rather, bad behavior is the problem.

I visited a nude beach in Australia a few years ago. As I was arriving at the beach, a younger guy - probably about 30 - emerged from the water with his penis fully erect, standing high and proud. He casually walked about 100 feet down the beach toward me until he reached his towel. He then lay down on his towel, on his back and closed his eyes. I don't know why he had an erection (he appeared to have been in the water alone), nor do I really care. He didn't hit on anyone, he didn't masturbate, none of that stuff - he just had an erection and didn't try to hide it. I was not offended in the least, and no one else seemed to take offense. I didn't think his behavior was out of line at all.

On the other hand, I've been hit on aggressively by both men and women - usually in situations where everyone is fully clothed and after I've already said no. That sort of behavior is bad behavior. While lying in the sun at both nude beaches and resorts, I've opened my eyes to find some creepy guy leering at me and masturbating. That sort of behavior is also bad behavior. Unfortunately, there is a subset of people that either have difficulty determining what constitutes bad behavior, or they just don't care that their behavior is bad.

In my view, the focus of management at sanctioned nude beaches, at nudist resorts, and similar nudist venues should be on bad behaviors - not on the physical state of a man or woman.

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