My wife and I love going to nude beaches
I have a question for you
My wife often sunbathes with her legs apart and enjoys the reaction she gets when men walk by and look at her in all her glory
Do you think she is a bit of an exhibitionist or is this normal behaviour for a woman in this setting?
Thoughts please
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- SU
Nov 28, 2023As naturists/nudists we should look at ALL body parts on an equal footing!! Not pidgeon-holing them into, as the textiles do, "private", and as I like to say, also into "public", "semi-public" and "semi-private" parts!!! LOL!!! When one is totally naked, all body parts are "public"!! So no, she is not really an "exhibitionist"!! Also, if we so chose, all body parts can be erotic, sensual and sexual, if the conditions and setting are right, in the right environment, in the right place, at the right time, with right person or persons, etc.!! Sunbathing on the beach do not meet any of those criteria!!
ReactReply - SO
Nov 28, 2023When it comes to being totally naked as nudists both male and female should be looked upon on an equal basis. As far as exhibiting ones nakedness dont we all do that the moment we remove all our clothes when in proximity to others who may see us naked.
ReactReply - EM
Nov 28, 2023Ive had a discussion about some of the photos about how some of the ladies sit. She looked at them with the eye on how she is sitting inappropriately. I looked at the same photos and said she looks like she is comfortable. The conversation continued and I further explained that it looks like that is how I have seen fully clothed ladies sit doing the same activity. To bring this to the current topic, a nudist lady tanning on the beach gives no further thought to her legs spread enough to get some sun than a lady in a suit. To me, that is a measure of how comfortable she truly is being naked in front of others. Now the enjoyment she gets from the others noticing is another topic.
ReactReply - SU
Nov 28, 2023If she enjoys the reaction of others then I'd see that as a little exhibitionist but have no problem with it. As a male who has everything on display in most nude circumstances, I'm happy to be looked at and an acknowledging smile is all the better. Even if females are not on full display by default, I've no problem if they choose or just happen to be so.
ReactReply - JO
Nov 29, 2023Ladies, yes, please be comfortable with your nudity. And don't worry. Ain't nobody gonna stop and give you a ticket if your heels are over 2 ft apart. :)
ReactReply - NUNov 29, 2023
Its perfect natural to be nude on The beach, shes must be s-o proud beucase mens loks at her, shes not exhibiionist. My wife and ME when we go at The nude beach, go naked and all The mens looks ar her but i s-o profund an she olso
ReactReply - LI
Nov 29, 2023Many women on nude beaches do so. It is a sign that they feel at ease with nudity. And if they are OK with others seeing them I don't see anything wrong with that.
ReactReply - SUNov 29, 2023
An exhibitionist by definition is someone who deliberatly displays, exposes their genitals in a clothed setting, to shock people. In a naturist/nudist environment/setting this does not apply!! When everyone is nude there is no shock value present.
ReactReply - WI
Nov 29, 2023I'm feeling a little torn about this situation, knowing that at a nude beach or any place where social nudity prevails, we should be allowing people to sit and gather sun inmostany position they choose. With that in mind, there are positions that would likely incite longer stares and possible gawks from the less-experienced. To personalize this comment, I would appreciate the ability to put a fat pillow under my crotch when tanning on my front side because of the rather comical tan lines which invariably occur due to the way my butt cheeks rest in a fully flat position. If I could arch my bum up there, I would then avoid the dread shadow that keeps me from that elusive, full-moon tan! Unfortunately, I cannot 'pillow-up' because if I did so in the bare public, it would raise my rump up suggestively, and that may be misconstrued as something like an invitation to the more male to male driven libidos on the pool deck. I'm not there to make a fuss around the pool, and don't want to draw that kind of attention (I'm nearly married), so instead I do suffer the embarrassment I get on the uncommon occasion where I use a mirror to assess my posterior tan and I see those annoying white areas. A woman with her legs open wide enough to get the sun into all the places that would otherwise remain untanned does run the possible risk of giving the wrong message to passersby. But I feel as though I must give them a pass in such a situation. Who am I to tell them how they achieve the best sun coverage? There must be a give and take at some point. Judgementalism is something to stay far away from when it comes to anything involving nudism, so I say let them spread ~ but please be reasonable as to how far it goes. If her feet end up behind her head, um...ReactReply - SUNov 29, 2023
At our resort in the summer around the pool, lot of the ladies sit or lay on the sunloungers with their legs spread or hanging off on either side, their vulvas in plain sight.
ReactReply - A1
Nov 29, 2023We lovingly refer to those tan lines as "Winkys" because it looks like they are winking as they walk
ReactReply - SP
Nov 29, 2023Regarding tan lines under your tush... stand in shallow water when the sun is shining. The water reflects the UV rays upward and tans your underbits...
ReactReply - LI
Nov 30, 2023Howdy, For those pesky under the cheeks tan lines, try laying on your stomach with with leg bent to your chest or breast for 15 minutes and then rotate to the other side for another 15 minutes. Rotate to your desire until well done! LOL . This is what I have being doing for a number of years in Florida. It should work in the Pacific Northwest as well!
ReactReply - MEMemberNov 30, 2023
It was interesting to read comments on the subject of females having open legs on a naturist beach.
As genuine naturists, and provided it is a 100 per cent true naturist location such as beach or a club, I see no problem with this, after all we know what a female and male body looks like don' t we. As a female If one wants to lay naked in any position to get that overall tan or just to relax, then why not., my naturist female partner does and it is not as an 'exhibitionist'. What I find rather 'strange' and why, is that of you girls ( some of you) having laid naked, bathed naked, stood or walked naked, is then putting on a wrap to leave the area.ReactReply - SUNov 30, 2023
I would say because some, expecially novice (female) naturists, still carry a lot of textile baggage over into the naturist/nudist environment. It takes time to adjust, get rid of years of conditioning and be totally comfortable nude.
ReactReply - ST
Dec 3, 2023[quote]At our resort in the summer around the pool, lot of the ladies sit or lay on the sunloungers with their legs spread or hanging off on either side, their vulvas in plain sight.[/quote] Girls and ladies are much freer today than they used to be. They are no longer afraid to show all parts of their body. Why shouldn't others see their vulva? It's normal for a nudist to see the genitalia. They are like any other part of the body. It's the freedom of nudism and no exhibitionism showing their vulvas in plain sight.ReactReply - KEMar 1, 2024
In my opinion, she is being a little of an exhibitionist and as an adult, I am absolutely fine with that. It's actually very empowering for a woman to safely display herself in all her glory to other men for their enjoyment. I know this because this is how my wife feels when a guy looks at her with respect and admiration when she is nude on a beach or at a club. If a woman wants to potentially display their privates to the other totally nude adults on the beach with you, go for it. If you get offended by seeing a woman's vagina or a mans penis at a nude beach, you need to get yourself another pastime.
ReactReply - MA
Mar 1, 2024It would depend on if she was usually facing the sun or passing traffic. If she is pointing towards the sun, it may be that she enjoys the warmth of the sunlight on all parts of her body. If she is facing the typical line of traffic, then she's probably enjoying the attention.
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