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MarkNorwalkNudistOriginal Poster
Aug 7, 2023Had a home a few years ago where I was a full-time nudist in my house & backyard. Over the years, I rented a room to different housemates. Some were nudists, some not. I made it clear in the beginning that I would ALWAYS be nude, even when they would invite guests to come over. Not once did I ever have a problem with a clothed person concerning my nudity. Thats because its all about how I behaved. Im so comfortable with my naked body, and doing normal, everyday things, that my conduct put (clothed) people at ease. I was very sexual when I lived there, but I kept a hard line between that and my everyday nudity. If it wasnt a sexual situation, then I didnt act like it, nor ever got aroused. I even demonstrated a sex toy for a clothed, mixed group, at their request. It would normally be used when a man had an erection, but since it wasnt a sexual situation, I didnt have one. I told many people that social nudity and sexual behavior are completely separate things. I also imparted this adage:
Social nudity is not about SEEING or being SEEN.
Its about BEING nude.
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- ST
Nov 21, 2024[quote]I have occasionally seen a man with an erections at Gunnison. Is there a reason why this happens at a beach and not at a club or on a cruise?Possibly seeing you in your short shorts was too much for him.I apologise, that was just a bit of fun. Ive never seen a guy on a beach with an erection either, not saying that it never happens, but with the amount of made up nonsense you post, its difficult to believe a word. I certainly wasn't wearing shorts when he saw me! When I go to Gunnison, I leave the car wearing short shorts or a swim brief but I take it off as soon as I am out of sight of the road and remain nude until I get back to the same point when leaving. Actually he and his girlfriend or wife were running toward the dunes when I saw them.[/quote] You claim to occasionally see a man with an erection and ask why this happens on the beach. I say I dont believe a word you say. You embellish the story to include a woman and them both with his erection running to the dunes. Which begs the question, why did you even need to ask the first part. Do you see why people have trouble believing you, you cant even lie convincingly.ReactReply - MI
Nov 21, 2024[quote]I have occasionally seen a man with an erections at Gunnison. Is there a reason why this happens at a beach and not at a club or on a cruise?Possibly seeing you in your short shorts was too much for him.I apologise, that was just a bit of fun. Ive never seen a guy on a beach with an erection either, not saying that it never happens, but with the amount of made up nonsense you post, its difficult to believe a word.I certainly wasn't wearing shorts when he saw me!When I go to Gunnison, I leave the car wearing short shorts or a swim brief but I take it off as soon as I am out of sight of the road and remain nude until I get back to the same point when leaving.Actually he and his girlfriend or wife were running toward the dunes when I saw them. You claim to occasionally see a man with an erection and ask why this happens on the beach. I say I dont believe a word you say. You embellish the story to include a woman and them both with his erection running to the dunes. Which begs the question, why did you even need to ask the first part. Do you see why people have trouble believing you, you cant even lie convincingly.[/quote] Believe or not believe what you want, but everything I say I saw in person or did actually happened and everything I say I read elsewhere I actually read. Whether the poster was telling the truth or not I have not verified,ReactReply - HO
Nov 21, 2024Is it that difficult for you to answer that question? One is a public space that some people think they can get away that behavior. The other is a private space where you are likely to be removed and or banned if you do not adhere to behavioral norms. [quote] I have occasionally seen a man with an erections at Gunnison. Is there a reason why this happens at a beach and not at a club or on a cruise?[/quote]ReactReply - SI
Nov 21, 2024Yes Ive noticed erect penises both at nudist beaches and resorts often with their female companion
But the erections dont last long . Once the settle in the erection goes.
Some thing I was concerned of on my first public nude exposure. But has never happenedReactReply - SINov 21, 2024
Yes Ive noticed erect penises both at nudist beaches and resorts often with their female companion
But the erections dont last long . Once the settle in the erection goes.
Some thing I was concerned of on my first public nude exposure. But has never happenedReactReply - SINov 21, 2024
Ive also noticed an increasing trend to make single males unwelcome both at beaches and resorts.
Have herd of many resorts not permitting single
Males, and beachs were single males being chased off.ReactReply - MINov 21, 2024[quote]Ive also noticed an increasing trend to make single males unwelcome both at beaches and resorts. Have herd of many resorts not permitting single Males, and beachs were single males being chased off.[/quote] Gunnison has many men who arrive alone. I am one of them. While it is sometimes difficult to strike up a conversation, only once did someone object to me being there, That was one of my earlier visits and the person must have sensed my discomfort.ReactReply
- MA
Nov 22, 2024[quote]You are on point with this but the problem is most of the people pushing the erection acceptance theory like the commenter you replied to have not had the genuine nudist experiences you describe. They use nudism to justify their own interest and sexual proclivities, and then project this self interest on those who are trying to protect what little opportunities for non sexual social nudism we have left. Wearing clothes are a choice. Nudity, as you have mentioned is not a choice. It is who we are.Biological phenomena are not designed to shock anyone. People mistakenly think that when a nudist guy is having an erection, it is about THEM. We go on nude cruises where there are literally thousands of nudists walking around the ship and some of the private island stops and yet no erections. We go to large social nudist events at the big resorts where there are literally hundreds of nudists walking around grounds and yet no erections... almost like social nudist men don't get erections at inappropriate times in inappropriate locations.[/quote] Oh, I know the problem, but if we don't constantly refute them they will not learn that Actual Nudists as opposed to unTrue Nudists do not behave at all the way they portray us.ReactReply - STNov 22, 2024
Ever other post he bemoans the fact that hes constantly rejected from naturist space, and judges those in charge to be puritanical.
Is it any wonder the single male gets a hard time.
ReactReply - MINov 22, 2024[quote]Ive also noticed an increasing trend to make single males unwelcome both at beaches and resorts. Have herd of many resorts not permitting single Males, and beachs were single males being chased off.[/quote] Is this true only for men who are there by themselves or also in groups of 2 or more?ReactReply
- IM
Nov 22, 2024In my experience, males attending or attempting to attend nudist resorts alone have been unwelcome or outright banned for years. It's discriminatory and disgusting. Which is why I stick to nude beaches. All are welcome and nude beaches.
ReactReply - HONov 22, 2024Recently someone on social media posted they were going to visit a nude beach with their partner in this case female I know because of the photo and were inquiring where the places were on the beach where they could carry on and have some naked fun. This is kind of idea that some men are taking to the nude beaches in the US. At US resorts (unless it is a swinger venue) men are expected to behave appropriately and cover an erection until it subsides. What is proposes by the sexual libertine men is erections are harmless and benign so no one need worry if a man has an erection and explicitly shows it off. That is not the nudist way. If a social nudism environment everyone is expected to control their behavior so the whole social group can enjoy the space. If you behave accordingly you have nothing to worry about. In fact working about it makes it worse. [quote]Yes Ive noticed erect penises both at nudist beaches and resorts often with their female companion But the erections dont last long . Once the settle in the erection goes. Some thing I was concerned of on my first public nude exposure. But has never happened[/quote]ReactReply
- HONov 22, 2024The US continues to lose nudist beaches venues and I believe Australia has lost two nude beaches this year. Partly because anti nudism groups can use the behavior of a minority of men to blanket associate sexual behavior with all genuine nudists. [quote]I wonder wether its an Australian thing[/quote]ReactReply
- HONov 22, 2024Have you wondered why. They are messing things up for others. I was at a nude beach in California a few months ago where there we families and couples and single men a few single men walked up and down the beach for a significant time cruising looking for locations to land and act out sexual behavior. By the time I decided to leave two of them had set in spots where they filmed others at the beach with their phone cameras while playing with themselves. Think for a minute why would a woman just exploring social nudism want to subject herself to that potential situation? What would an anti nudist person think when they see that happening? All the erection advocates dont care about anyone else just getting their jollies. [quote]Ive also noticed an increasing trend to make single males unwelcome both at beaches and resorts. Have herd of many resorts not permitting single Males, and beachs were single males being chased off.[/quote]ReactReply
- HONov 22, 2024Co-sign on this 100% [quote] Oh, I know the problem, but if we don't constantly refute them they will not learn that Actual Nudists as opposed to unTrue Nudists do not behave at all the way they portray us.[/quote]ReactReply
- NU
Nov 22, 2024[quote]In my experience, males attending or attempting to attend nudist resorts alone have been unwelcome or outright banned for years. It's discriminatory and disgusting. Which is why I stick to nude beaches. All are welcome and nude beaches.[/quote] It really depends on the resort. Family resorts are obviously not admitting unattached or related single males and aren't super keen on random single women either. This seems fairly logical and understandable to me. Naturist resorts as defined by the strict non sexual definition here are also going to be biased towards couples groups and friends who come and rent together. I can't remember ever seeing single guys not hitting on random women regardless of clothes or nude and with little regard to where and when they do it too. Sure. Not all guys are like this. But in 100 random choices of single men I have serious doubt that more than 5 percent are capable of being in the company of women without hitting on, flirting with or otherwise trying it under any circumstances let alone nude. The statistics are pretty much uniform across the world, when single men are admitted to these spaces in any quantity it quickly drives away the other users and members who don't return. The same is incidentally true of swinger's clubs which contra what some might imagine is solid support for a general truth regarding single men as a whole. The inability to behave in a socially acceptable and supportive manner in spaces where the rules around sexual conduct are not only relaxed but supportive of it just demonstrates the impossibility of following a stricter and more socially demanding code of conduct. The number of single males who are simply out to socialize cordially, even if we grossly overestimate that percentage at 50% still leaves so many who aren't that it will always mean any significant influx is going to be disruptive. So why would you want to access spaces which you will automatically cause discomfort or disruption? There are beyond these nude social spaces a whole other set of resorts guesthouses private b&b's events and cruises among others that cater to mostly or all male and mixed groups that are not all by default simply orgies. It seems to me that it's better to go where one is welcome and to work to build spaces and community that suits your needs rather than demanding others accommodate what they clearly do not and will not.ReactReply - STNov 22, 2024[quote] Who says I'm always rejected? This "guilty until proven innocent" thinking regarding single men is killing nudism in the US. It even applies to single dads at family resorts. Who would think that a single parent with two grade school kids has any time to focus on anything or anybody else?[/quote] Err You do. You dont judge people unless they disagree with you. And the, its my boner and Ill show it off if I want to is exactly the attitude that is destroying it for the guys who just want to enjoy nudism. I know youll never admit to being in the wrong on this. Its just your nature.ReactReply
- HONov 23, 2024
I always have to chuckle when the one trick pony " victimized" males on this site accuse others of having one track minds.
ReactReply - HONov 23, 2024And coming from a two month old account barely filled out no profile photo but credibility should be assumed. [quote]A puritanical nudist is an oxymoron.[/quote]ReactReply