About 4 years ago my wife was just starting to join me at the beach as a nudist and was still very uncomfortable with nudity and didn't see her self as attractive after having kids. So on the beach she would start the day laying out with me with shorts and a bikini top on as the day went on she would lose the top and finally her shorts. later in the day a group of college age men walked buy and stopped and complimented her on how great she looked and that made her day and really helped me on getting her to do more things nude. Now we travel to nudist resorts and hit beaches when we can and this last year took our first nude cruise. So yes she and I both got something out if the nice compliment on the beach.
So, I'm checking out a leak under the sink this morning, my naked self sprawled out on the kitchen floor. Wifey walks in to top off her coffee cup, sees my headless torso and says "Nice Penis"!Sometimes I'll comment to her, "some perky nips you got goin' on there today"! Usually responded to with a cute coy grin!How do others feel about receiving similar comments? What if it was a nude friend or passer by?Would it offend you or flatter you. Political correctness aside, how would you really feel.
I don't see anything wrong there as it was between you and your wife. I personally wouldn't take offense if a random person commented, I might thank them, but if it was more than a passing comment and they got hung up on it, it might get awkward. I avoid saying anything to someone else because I don't know how they would take it.
Flattery will get you everywhere with me...I'm just easy like that. LOL. Ok, kidding...maybe? I can receive a compliment and not mistake it for any more than that. If it is more than that, people will either follow it up with another one or something else...OR... wait and see how you respond and if you don't, they may keep it moving. Honestly, I am fine with either.
Genuine compliments are always welcome. Flirtations are easily dealt with. Very important to know the difference. As nudists we have to be able to accept ourselves as we are and be able to understand that not everyone who compliments us is looking for something else.
I'm retired to a ranch in the desert with a pool and good neighbors. So, I don't get much social interaction and none re nude. If my blushing bride adored my 73 yr old physic I'd jump for joy & wish I was 20 years younger to grab her and ravish her sweet self!!
I think may have responded to a similar thread like this before, so I'll risk repeating myself here again. :)
Once at a nudist event...can't remember when...it was a long time ago when I was somewhat younger...a nice looking woman that was close to my age complimented me on my bottom. That took me by surprise! I never thought that was one of my better bodily qualities. LOL I thanked her for the nice compliment and that it made my week! After chatting for a bit I ended up at her table with another friend for the rest of the party.
A few years ago at a resort in Texas, an older gentleman walked by me as I was sitting on a chair by the pool. I am not gay, but the first thing I noticed about him was his penis -- perfect in every way. Not erect but was about 10 inches long, straight as an arrow, nicely tanned. I have regretted ever since that I did not express my admiration. I believe he would have appreciated it because he had to be proud of what he had.
I'd be very cautious about giving a compliment, even if I am thinking it, but would be happy to receive a compliment as a compliment and even if it is intended to be more than a compliment then accept it as a compliment anyway. The most difficult part is coming up with a suitably appreciative and witty reply on the spot and not 5 minutes later.
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