The problem of inappropriate comments, like the parallel problem of fake female profiles, is simply one of moderation and enforcement. This is an expensive process that on sites like Facebook and Twitter is paid for by advertising revenue.
Nudist forums will never get that level of income from subscriptions alone and very few nudist sites carry much advertising so all the moderation has to be done by unpaid volunteers.
You only have to look at the problems Elon Musk is starting to have with Twitter to see that the problems we have on this site are relatively mild.
Heres an easy *pass / fail* test for pictures: if you were to insert a current TN picture in one of the girly magazines ( Penthouse / Hustler) that often adorn old style automotive shops and the page is obviously well read, it probably doesnt belong on TN. Now, obviously there are a lot of variations but you get the idea. Anybody else have any comparators?
When your nude or talking about being nude, sexuall context will appear in any conversation. It's just par for the course. How you handle it is a reflection on your maturity. I have been naked a lot of times in both large and small groups and discussions have turned sexuall in one way or another. I never considered it to be a big deal. A bunch of people getting naked in front of each other takes a lot of confidence, if you can't handle a little sexuall discussion and comments then maybe nudism isn't truly for you. You have to be comfortable in your own skin and your circle of friends
Yeah i hear ya, i have only been on this site for just on 2 years now, i came here to meet other nudists for friendship nothing sexual..
it had been going well though being a single straight man has it's challenges in the naturist world esp on this site, so last night i jumped into chat to try and talk to people only to be hit with a PM by a guy asking me if i ever had a blow job from a guy and would i like to, repeatedly
telling him i wasnt interested only to have him carry on his life story on how hegot his dick sucked by a guy and that i should try it...WTF
seriously take the hit...all while this was going on he was browsing my photos liking and left some pretty unhinged comments on my photos also telling me i shouldnt loose weight cause he likes his men big n hairy....
im normally pretty ok with comments on "Oh your looking good" etc, this is the first time i have had comments of this nature and ended up blocking him and deleting his comments, cant remove his likes...
i can see why its so hard for single guys to meet people without it turning sexual...i know that sort of thing comes with being a naturist, but seriously have some respect forother people who arent here for the sexual aspect
Yeah i hear ya, i have only been on this site for just on 2 years now, i came here to meet other nudists for friendship nothing sexual..it had been going well though being a single straight man has it's challenges in the naturist world esp on this site, so last night i jumped into chat to try and talk to people only to be hit with a PM by a guy asking me if i ever had a blow job from a guy and would i like to, repeatedlytelling him i wasnt interested only to have him carry on his life story on how hegot his dick sucked by a guy and that i should try it...WTFseriously take the hit...all while this was going on he was browsing my photos liking and left some pretty unhinged comments on my photos also telling me i shouldnt loose weight cause he likes his men big n hairy....im normally pretty ok with comments on "Oh your looking good" etc, this is the first time i have had comments of this nature and ended up blocking him and deleting his comments, cant remove his likes...i can see why its so hard for single guys to meet people without it turning sexual...i know that sort of thing comes with being a naturist, but seriously have some respect forother people who arent here for the sexual aspectIgnore those messages
I have, as i said i deleted the comments and have now set some of my photos to friends only views
You've clearly set expectations for how others should behave. Who is accountable for nurturing and guiding them or are they left to their own tools and resources?
Trying to fix. manage, and control how another person thinks ] behaves ] believes can't be done in a single post. What are you doing to preserve or change the culture for the betterment of all?
What are you doing to preserve or change the culture for the betterment of all?
Great question! We need to foster a positive spirit of nudism. Will we always be aligned? No. But an attitude of empathy and compassion goes a lot further. Two negatives won't make a positive. We lead by example. Thank you!
Unfortunately there are (and always will be) a lot of people (mostly guys) who are looking for sexual encounters and they don't differentiate between sex and the practice of being naked.
Just look at almost any nude beach. There will be a percentage of people who are there only to look for sexual encounters. It's not about being naked, but for them it's a gateway to getting it on with someone and getting off.
Then of course you get the spammers on here who register fake accounts and send you messages to "check out my pics at www. --- .com".
Funny how every one of them has their pics on the same web address!
I just ignore all of this and focus on why I am here.
Just like when I go to a nude beach, I don't pay any attention to the guys walking past playing with their cocks.
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