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I think the older one becomes, the more bi feelings they have.

I believe this is true. At least, the older some people are, the more open they are to their sexual feelings.

But I think that the whole discussion is pointless, in that hardly anybody is either totally straight or totally gay. Just as any football team can win against any other football team on "any given Sunday," so can people find themselves in a circumstance that shatters their preconceptions of what they are. The same person who felt ashamed when somebody else called them "gay" in their youth and was committed to a cis lifestyle can end up somewhere else on the spectrum when the shame is removed. And it's a spectrum, without clear divisions, and anybody can find a place somewhere on that.

Which brings up something that ties to nudism, where there is also a measure of shame attached to being naked in our culture. When a person overcomes that component of shame in becoming a nudist, the second dichotomy of straight/gay can also come up for re-examination down the road. So I wouldn't be surprised to see more nudists than "textiles" re-examining their sexual orientation. By the same measure, once a gay person has come out of the closet and accepted their identity, they might find it easier to re-examine their attitudes on nudity and become curious about nudism.

But let us remind ourselves that while we are who we are, we must accept and respect other people for who they are. To disregard that, particularly in social situations where hitting on other people makes them uncomfortable, is to lose track of what nudism is about in the first place, and poisons the well for many prospective nudists.

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Which brings up something that ties to nudism, where there is also a measure of shame attached to being naked in our culture.

That may be true for the textile community, but I don't see how you could be a naturist if you had that attitude, I have never felt any sort of shame being naked in any situation, there is nothing shamefully about nudity

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I'm BC Bi-Curious and a nudist at home or where I can. I would love to find a beach or resort or whatever, with like-minded people. But they are scarce now. So it's home and exploring by myself. If I find a like-minded friend to play with, then that's an added bonus.

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Well Covid is finally starting to slow down. The beaches are going to be very open for meeting those wonderful people again. The resorts are a little harder to meet like minded men. But its possible ! Just have to see the looks that makes you hmmm maybe a future friend.

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Over the last few years I been interested in being. With another man tho has not happen yet I hope it does this year

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I hope you do, fine someone I am in the same situation I am looking for that one good buddy to hangout with.

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Since the age 3 i have been a devout nudist don't even ware jewellery and or socks. I'm 56 now, I only get dressed when i absolutely have to, Sleeping with clothes on is never a option, sometimes i don't even use the covers., even on hot spring/summer nights when i sleep outdoors, have a very private and secluded back deck and yard. I became bi at the age of 12,, when a few friends, both male and female were over and we were all nude in the pool and started to play with each other just felt good and natural.

Note: Yes the above stated ages were young, all parents knew and condoned us being nude in both the pool and the secluded back yard, very often they were nude as well, my father was bi as well, would always go in the pool nude as well.

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We are both Bi

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I'm bi. New here - waiting to be 'certified' so I can put up some photos.

Interested in meeting other bi and whatever nudists in the NY area.

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We are both bi

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