Our three sons are in their mid to late thirties. Our oldest caught us unknowingly when he was about five. My wife and I will kid around and make comments about our sex life just to get their reactions. Those range from "OK! Whatever", "Whoa. ..too much info" and the best one, "you guys are disgusting! " Mind you no details are ever given. Just enough to make their minds trigger and then hear the responses. All are aware of our nude lifestyle and accept it on conditional terms.
AndyDi, sorry if our post came across as too self righteous. After reviewing the post, I can see that you have a valid point.
We just felt that we had to point out that TN people ( not exhibitionists ) should be cautious and careful.
I guess that we could amend the "we have never been caught" to something like: We have never knowingly been caught... It is possible that we have been seen, but without our knowledge. After all 50 years is a long time to remain completely discrete.
Thanks for the reality check.
And we are anxious to get a Laguna Del Sol trip report?
I agree that if the kids are raised as nudist that seeing the nude bodies in bed is never an issue, the sex maybe maybe not depends on how open the parents have been, at home our bedroom door was seldom shut and never locked so we got seen fairly often, just like my parents got seen by me and my 3 brothers and 3 sisters, but we never made a big deal of it...when traveling and in a motel room 2 double beds I was never going to not have sex for the duration of the trip so hubby and I always had sex, usually covered up but I can't say covered up 100% of the time, and our son was normal with it
I agree being caught implies being secretive doing something you should not be doing.
I don't have kids, my bf and I don't sleep on the same schedule, but I have no shame to masterbate when the feeling strikes me.
I like to be open. When there are uncomfortable moments I like to talk about why it is uncomfortable and work through it. This is when we learn the most. I did not always think this way. But if we want people to be ok in every situation we need to normalize it and express it.
At home from college one summer, my stepfather, me, and my mom sunbathed in the backyard w/margaritas. I nodded off briefly and thet had gone inside. I went in and they were in their BR watching TV. They were nude and so was I. They invited me to join them. I did. The rest is what you'd imagine - and it was great. It became our "thing."
No issues. Maybe not very common, but didn't seem odd to me.
you realy get caught when you show you kids your naked body? As young kids they don't be aware and getting older they know it is natural beeing naked and they like ot or not. Never force them to be naked but don't be shy to nakes in front of them.
When I was 13-14, my mother and I lived with her friend and 2 kids (boy & girl) her friend (Mid 30's at time) was a nudist, walked around house naked often as did her kids, having previously spent the summer with my cousin and his aunt and uncle's farm, where everybody was nude, because it was a remote farm, and it was too hot for clothes. So I was no stranger to walking around nude, but my mother came home from work and didn't really realize her friend was a nudist, but also saw me walking around nude in the house along with her friends kids who were younger than me. Anyhow my mother was more shocked by her friend walking around nude with her son going through puberty. My mother never did walk around nude when I was at home. She just never felt right about it. Then when we moved a couple years later, our neighbor a single mother was a nudist and we went to nude beaches often. I never did tell my mother we went to nude beaches, because I was still a minor and the neighbor could get in trouble if my mother ever filed a complaint,